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A discussion on...Destructive relationships (42)

Sep 21, 2021 6:01 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships

This is not the type of relationship that ends well....but like metal to a magnet...something make's woman stay with bad men and suffer for it.

The old saying...men chase and women choose...but what make's women choose so wrong? Red flags must be present early stages...but some just don't want to see them and keep the blinkers on...cause maybe they think they can fix what is broken...or a woman don't think much of herself and thinks she deserves the misery?

Bad guys...damage women in many ways and some women will never forget or move on.

Are some women...who date bad guys...rebelling against their fathers....or dating bad guys cause their fathers were bad guys too? Does this have something to do with the absence of a positive male role model in a woman's life growing up? Was the father absent?

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Sep 21, 2021 6:09 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
It's sad...that some women punish themselves...by being with bad guys...when they could have chosen so many good one'suh oh
Sep 21, 2021 6:16 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 29,588 Posts
Lee for those of us who were in nasty relationships it's not like they were nasty when getting to know us..They charm and then we're in a not so nice relationship...
Sep 21, 2021 6:17 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 29,588 Posts
Mercedes_00: Lee for those of us who were in nasty relationships it's not like they were nasty when getting to know us..They charm and then we're in a not so nice relationship...
In my case I never looked at it as a relationship..More like a battlefield but shit happens & we move on very very happy
Sep 21, 2021 6:22 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Seen that shit all my life.. Can't even watch it... I will say that the woman is usually just as much in the fight as the guy, if not more.. I watched my parents go round, and round.. All added up, Dad probably took more of a beating over the years, than she did.. I left my last wife, because of her violent temper.. Mikey don't play that... professor
Sep 21, 2021 6:22 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Sep 21, 2021 6:24 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 29,588 Posts
I saw Once were Warriors & I shouldn't of
Sep 21, 2021 6:30 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
mikey4691: Seen that shit all my life.. Can't even watch it... I will say that the woman is usually just as much in the fight as the guy, if not more.. I watched my parents go round, and round.. All added up, Dad probably took more of a beating over the years, than she did.. I left my last wife, because of her violent temper.. Mikey don't play that...
I was lucky to grow up in a two parent family...married biological mother and father...no violence...but like most couples had rows
I Knew many at school from single mother homes...one with a rotten step dad...who did bad things.

No doubt some women can be violent towards men and provoking a reaction.
I think you were right to walk away and let her bethumbs up
Sep 21, 2021 6:34 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Mercedes_00: I saw Once were Warriors & I shouldn't of
movies like that...do educate others and point out how destructive some relationships could be...but it don't tell people how to get over them
Sep 21, 2021 6:35 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
ChesneyChristonline now!
ChesneyChristonline now!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK9,193 Posts
LeeCharming: This is not the type of relationship that ends well....but like metal to a magnet...something make's woman stay with bad men and suffer for it.

The old saying...men chase and women choose...but what make's women choose so wrong? Red flags must be present early stages...but some just don't want to see them and keep the blinkers on...cause maybe they think they can fix what is broken...or a woman don't think much of herself and thinks she deserves the misery?

Bad guys...damage women in many ways and some women will never forget or move on.

Are some women...who date bad guys...rebelling against their fathers....or dating bad guys cause their fathers were bad guys too? Does this have something to do with the absence of a positive male role model in a woman's life growing up? Was the father absent?
Men do more damage and that's just a scientific fact. And the truth is that we also like the bad guys, and we murdered Jesus. People like to make life challenging.
Sep 21, 2021 6:37 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
ChesneyChrist: Men do more damage and that's just a scientific fact.
no can't agree...but some do
Sep 21, 2021 6:40 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 29,588 Posts
LeeCharming: movies like that...do educate others and point out how destructive some relationships could be...but it don't tell people how to get over them
That movie is spot on but to me if a man saw that movie more than once then it didn't educate him he obviously enjoys that kind of shit..That's just how I feel.
Sep 21, 2021 6:52 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Mercedes_00: That movie is spot on but to me if a man saw that movie more than once then it didn't educate him he obviously enjoys that kind of shit..That's just how I feel.
i would not judge people on...how many times they watched a movie...some people want to watch real life drama and the bad guy looses everything at the end...he won't get any sympathy...from the vast majority of normal minded men and i'm one of them
Sep 21, 2021 6:54 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 29,588 Posts
LeeCharming: i would not judge people on...how many times they watched a movie...some people want to watch real life drama and the bad guy looses everything at the end...he won't get any sympathy...from the vast majority of normal minded men and i'm one of them
That's a fair statement but it's just how I feel
Sep 21, 2021 7:00 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
LeeCharming: I was lucky to grow up in a two parent family...married biological mother and father...no violence...but like most couples had rows
I Knew many at school from single mother homes...one with a rotten step dad...who did bad things.

No doubt some women can be violent towards men and provoking a reaction.
I think you were right to walk away and let her be
I left her more than once, but last time I left, I had a couple of loose teeth.. She just found someone else to hit on in front of my son.. I finally had to hit her new husband, because she was instigating problems with him over my visitation rights.. Mikey don't play that either... grin
Sep 21, 2021 8:55 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Miss_Cellaneousonline today!
Miss_Cellaneousonline today!Miss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 2,558 Posts
I just adore Eminem laugh Plus this video is bloody awesome banana Kudos to these guys thumbs up

Sep 21, 2021 9:48 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Miss_Cellaneousonline today!
Miss_Cellaneousonline today!Miss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 2,558 Posts
mikey4691: I left her more than once, but last time I left, I had a couple of loose teeth.. She just found someone else to hit on in front of my son.. I finally had to hit her new husband, because she was instigating problems with him over my visitation rights.. Mikey don't play that either...
The only agro I had after 30 yrs of marriage was that he took all the photos of my 3 children. The videos. everything, even my birth certificate. So it's not all women that are vindictive. He cleared the house, left me with nothing, not even a TV, nothing to cook on, not even a can opener. I had to live in that house with nothing and there was nothing that I could do about it as he had a Solicitor/Lawyer and I had nothing so couldn't afford to pay a Solicitor/ Lawyer. He even stole my 3 kids with his vindictive ways. Now my 3 grown up kids now know, It took a long time as I just kept out of it. Kids aren't stupid teddybear

This is the song that I used to play all the time when I lived in Spain. I missed them so much. Now I'm back in the UK, I've got my kids back and they've got their Mother back heart wings

Sep 22, 2021 12:34 AM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Losted
LostedLostedSherman, Texas USA1 Threads 890 Posts
There's a reason I won't date
drunks, addicts, or the mentally ill.

I mean, sure, trainwrecks are fun to
watch. I just won't be in the middle
of it.
Sep 22, 2021 2:18 AM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Miss_Cellaneous: The only agro I had after 30 yrs of marriage was that he took all the photos of my 3 children. The videos. everything, even my birth certificate. So it's not all women that are vindictive. He cleared the house, left me with nothing, not even a TV, nothing to cook on, not even a can opener. I had to live in that house with nothing and there was nothing that I could do about it as he had a Solicitor/Lawyer and I had nothing so couldn't afford to pay a Solicitor/ Lawyer. He even stole my 3 kids with his vindictive ways. Now my 3 grown up kids now know, It took a long time as I just kept out of it. Kids aren't stupid

This is the song that I used to play all the time when I lived in Spain. I missed them so much. Now I'm back in the UK, I've got my kids back and they've got their Mother back
Oh I know women aren't the only ones.. I had moments too.. thumbs up
Sep 23, 2021 1:36 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Spiorad_Saor
Spiorad_SaorSpiorad_SaorBelfast, Antrim Ireland2 Threads 446 Posts
LeeCharming: This is not the type of relationship that ends well....but like metal to a magnet...something make's woman stay with bad men and suffer for it.

The old saying...men chase and women choose...but what make's women choose so wrong? Red flags must be present early stages...but some just don't want to see them and keep the blinkers on...cause maybe they think they can fix what is broken...or a woman don't think much of herself and thinks she deserves the misery?

Bad guys...damage women in many ways and some women will never forget or move on.

Are some women...who date bad guys...rebelling against their fathers....or dating bad guys cause their fathers were bad guys too? Does this have something to do with the absence of a positive male role model in a woman's life growing up? Was the father absent?
I so wished that when I hit into this thread that it was posted by anyone else but you.

More drivel...all the woman's fault...when you should be saying why are bad men bad.
The worst of bad men are the ones who think they are a Knight in shining armour...I.e.. you.
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