A discussion on...Destructive relationships ( Archived) (31)

Sep 21, 2021 5:01 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts

This is not the type of relationship that ends well....but like metal to a magnet...something make's woman stay with bad men and suffer for it.

The old saying...men chase and women choose...but what make's women choose so wrong? Red flags must be present early stages...but some just don't want to see them and keep the blinkers on...cause maybe they think they can fix what is broken...or a woman don't think much of herself and thinks she deserves the misery?

Bad guys...damage women in many ways and some women will never forget or move on.

Are some women...who date bad guys...rebelling against their fathers....or dating bad guys cause their fathers were bad guys too? Does this have something to do with the absence of a positive male role model in a woman's life growing up? Was the father absent?

conversing
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Sep 21, 2021 5:09 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
It's sad...that some women punish themselves...by being with bad guys...when they could have chosen so many good one'suh oh
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Sep 21, 2021 5:16 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
Lee for those of us who were in nasty relationships it's not like they were nasty when getting to know us..They charm and then we're in a not so nice relationship...
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Sep 21, 2021 5:22 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
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Sep 21, 2021 5:24 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
I saw Once were Warriors & I shouldn't of
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Sep 21, 2021 5:34 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Mercedes_00: I saw Once were Warriors & I shouldn't of
movies like that...do educate others and point out how destructive some relationships could be...but it don't tell people how to get over them
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Sep 21, 2021 5:35 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
LeeCharming: This is not the type of relationship that ends well....but like metal to a magnet...something make's woman stay with bad men and suffer for it.

The old saying...men chase and women choose...but what make's women choose so wrong? Red flags must be present early stages...but some just don't want to see them and keep the blinkers on...cause maybe they think they can fix what is broken...or a woman don't think much of herself and thinks she deserves the misery?

Bad guys...damage women in many ways and some women will never forget or move on.

Are some women...who date bad guys...rebelling against their fathers....or dating bad guys cause their fathers were bad guys too? Does this have something to do with the absence of a positive male role model in a woman's life growing up? Was the father absent?
Men do more damage and that's just a scientific fact. And the truth is that we also like the bad guys, and we murdered Jesus. People like to make life challenging.
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Sep 21, 2021 5:37 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
ChesneyChrist: Men do more damage and that's just a scientific fact.
no can't agree...but some do
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Sep 21, 2021 5:54 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
LeeCharming: i would not judge people on...how many times they watched a movie...some people want to watch real life drama and the bad guy looses everything at the end...he won't get any sympathy...from the vast majority of normal minded men and i'm one of them
That's a fair statement but it's just how I feel
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Sep 21, 2021 6:00 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
mikey4691
mikey4691mikey4691Knoxville, Tennessee USA8 Threads 6,868 Posts
LeeCharming: I was lucky to grow up in a two parent family...married biological mother and father...no violence...but like most couples had rows
I Knew many at school from single mother homes...one with a rotten step dad...who did bad things.

No doubt some women can be violent towards men and provoking a reaction.
I think you were right to walk away and let her be
I left her more than once, but last time I left, I had a couple of loose teeth.. She just found someone else to hit on in front of my son.. I finally had to hit her new husband, because she was instigating problems with him over my visitation rights.. Mikey don't play that either... grin
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Sep 21, 2021 7:55 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Miss_Cellaneous
Miss_CellaneousMiss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 2,444 Posts
I just adore Eminem laugh Plus this video is bloody awesome banana Kudos to these guys thumbs up

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Sep 21, 2021 8:48 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Miss_Cellaneous
Miss_CellaneousMiss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 2,444 Posts
mikey4691: I left her more than once, but last time I left, I had a couple of loose teeth.. She just found someone else to hit on in front of my son.. I finally had to hit her new husband, because she was instigating problems with him over my visitation rights.. Mikey don't play that either...
The only agro I had after 30 yrs of marriage was that he took all the photos of my 3 children. The videos. everything, even my birth certificate. So it's not all women that are vindictive. He cleared the house, left me with nothing, not even a TV, nothing to cook on, not even a can opener. I had to live in that house with nothing and there was nothing that I could do about it as he had a Solicitor/Lawyer and I had nothing so couldn't afford to pay a Solicitor/ Lawyer. He even stole my 3 kids with his vindictive ways. Now my 3 grown up kids now know, It took a long time as I just kept out of it. Kids aren't stupid teddybear

This is the song that I used to play all the time when I lived in Spain. I missed them so much. Now I'm back in the UK, I've got my kids back and they've got their Mother back heart wings

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Sep 21, 2021 11:34 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Losted
LostedLostedSherman, Texas USA1 Threads 603 Posts
There's a reason I won't date
drunks, addicts, or the mentally ill.

I mean, sure, trainwrecks are fun to
watch. I just won't be in the middle
of it.
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Sep 22, 2021 1:18 AM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
mikey4691
mikey4691mikey4691Knoxville, Tennessee USA8 Threads 6,868 Posts
Miss_Cellaneous: The only agro I had after 30 yrs of marriage was that he took all the photos of my 3 children. The videos. everything, even my birth certificate. So it's not all women that are vindictive. He cleared the house, left me with nothing, not even a TV, nothing to cook on, not even a can opener. I had to live in that house with nothing and there was nothing that I could do about it as he had a Solicitor/Lawyer and I had nothing so couldn't afford to pay a Solicitor/ Lawyer. He even stole my 3 kids with his vindictive ways. Now my 3 grown up kids now know, It took a long time as I just kept out of it. Kids aren't stupid

This is the song that I used to play all the time when I lived in Spain. I missed them so much. Now I'm back in the UK, I've got my kids back and they've got their Mother back
Oh I know women aren't the only ones.. I had moments too.. thumbs up
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Sep 23, 2021 12:36 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
Spiorad_Saor
Spiorad_SaorSpiorad_SaorBelfast, Antrim Ireland2 Threads 345 Posts
LeeCharming: This is not the type of relationship that ends well....but like metal to a magnet...something make's woman stay with bad men and suffer for it.

The old saying...men chase and women choose...but what make's women choose so wrong? Red flags must be present early stages...but some just don't want to see them and keep the blinkers on...cause maybe they think they can fix what is broken...or a woman don't think much of herself and thinks she deserves the misery?

Bad guys...damage women in many ways and some women will never forget or move on.

Are some women...who date bad guys...rebelling against their fathers....or dating bad guys cause their fathers were bad guys too? Does this have something to do with the absence of a positive male role model in a woman's life growing up? Was the father absent?
I so wished that when I hit into this thread that it was posted by anyone else but you.

More drivel...all the woman's fault...when you should be saying why are bad men bad.
The worst of bad men are the ones who think they are a Knight in shining armour...I.e.. you.
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Sep 24, 2021 1:13 AM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
I had a lot of violence, death and catastrophe to deal with when i broke up with my first fiance; when I was 25. I never hit a woman but she threatened me several times with weapons.

I had years and years of affairs after that but never asked for marriage.
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Sep 24, 2021 1:46 AM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
mikey4691
mikey4691mikey4691Knoxville, Tennessee USA8 Threads 6,868 Posts
raphael119: I had a lot of violence, death and catastrophe to deal with when i broke up with my first fiance; when I was 25. I never hit a woman but she threatened me several times with weapons.

I had years and years of affairs after that but never asked for marriage.
Years, and years of affairs?? confused
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Sep 24, 2021 2:40 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
mikey4691: Years, and years of affairs??
about 40 years?

Mikey scratches his head a lot. Intellectuals like him do that.
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Sep 24, 2021 2:52 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
raphael119: about 40 years?

Mikey scratches his head a lot. Intellectuals like him do that.
At least I hope he doesnt think hes scratching something else.
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Sep 24, 2021 3:20 PM CST A discussion on...Destructive relationships
I mean no disrespect.....when I say this.......but most. People on here. .....come on here after
A broken marriage/relationship.........simply for a gender war.men are this ,/,woman are. That.plenty of banter.......untill someone says something that upset.sthem out come the daggers.........doh .....and so s ...a vendetta ....rears it.d ugley head........how can. Someone. Find. Happyness on here......where trust. Doesn't exist.........this site can be a nice place ...to be if people log on ..........to chat/laugh. Without feeling ....?.?am I the next victim......?so sad.........jmo tru
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