Both have good and bad aspects... I love being with myself and enjoying my "freedom" when I am single... But then, having a person who learns to "read" you, who knows what you want, like, dislike, that loves you and takes care of you... To miss that voice, or those eyes or that fragrance, or that warm body close to you... Knowing that you have that special connection with another human being is absolutely magical... To me, it's a tie, but inclined to the relationship side...
If I had the luxury of being in a really nice relationship I would be able to compare the two scenarios.
To me a relationship doesn't mean you have to be joined at the hip..To me it's healthy for both to have time together and time away from each other spending time with friends or just have me time alone..When you get all clingy it would suffocate the relationship..When you suffocate someone that person isn't going to look forward spending time with you..To me a relationship can become a chore..I don't want to be any mans chore wanting to spend time with me because he feels he has too..It should be because he wants to..Then again what would I bloody know
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