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What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian? (17)

Sep 27, 2021 11:22 PM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
Obviously, i will be shocked, hurt and cry. I'll give him time to explain. And understand how he's feeling. And the last thing to do is move on.
Sep 27, 2021 11:49 PM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
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M_U_DM_U_DOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA9 Threads 3 Polls 101 Posts
Depends upon the relationship. I mean if i were duped into having an "exclusive relationship" (not that most or any girls would bother-but if she DID...) she'd be OUT. Because that would imply to me that she's probably cheating, with BOTH men and women. And it would easily clarify to me i've been duped. I know it's all cute and all for girls to be lesbians, and i agree with (some of) them, but not in an exclusive relationship. So i'd DUMP HER @$$ for my own safety and well being.
I'd feel this was always in her, and of course she knew it before we ever met. So you can have her.
Sep 28, 2021 10:39 AM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
angelsheart_1: Obviously, i will be shocked, hurt and cry. I'll give him time to explain. And understand how he's feeling. And the last thing to do is move on.
So, if you’re in a straight relationship and your boyfriend tells you he’s gay, then he’s breaking up. Just leave with class—it’s admirable to be understanding, but the gig’s up. Just move on…doesn’t do any good to fuss with it. Just part ways as nicely as you can. professor
Sep 28, 2021 12:33 PM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
rohaan: So, if you’re in a straight relationship and your boyfriend tells you he’s gay, then he’s breaking up. Just leave with class—it’s admirable to be understanding, but the gig’s up. Just move on…doesn’t do any good to fuss with it. Just part ways as nicely as you can.
But he was a cad and a bounder to have led her astray for so long, allowing her to develop strong feelings for him, then cruelly crushing hermumbling
Sep 28, 2021 10:33 PM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
tomcatty: But he was a cad and a bounder to have led her astray for so long, allowing her to develop strong feelings for him, then cruelly crushing her
Got it. Leave with as little fanfare as possible. There’s no repairing it, so don’t throw fuel on the embers. It sucks. Duh, Duh, and duh. But messing with it further helps neither party in any way. Just leave as gently as you can. Nothing will help, so do the best thing you can when leaving. No commas, no semi-colons, no nothing. Just go.professor
Sep 29, 2021 3:10 AM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
well, if my girlfriend would tell me she's lesbian, I would say: No, you ain't lesbian, cuz you like having sex with me too. So you are bisexual, and if your girlfriend also is bisexual, invite her here and we have a threesome.
Sep 29, 2021 6:59 PM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
Night_Dragon
Night_DragonNight_DragonDrexel Hill, Pennsylvania USA5 Posts
I would just say "If you wanted to break up, you could have said so"
Sep 29, 2021 9:49 PM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
Night_Dragon: I would just say "If you wanted to break up, you could have said so"
I agree. For many people, it would be very confusing to be told by the person you trip the light fantastic with that it isn’t what they want. Just say your not meaning to hurt them, but it just isn’t working out. You don’t owe an explanation if you really don’t want to give one. But don’t confuse people.professor
Sep 29, 2021 10:12 PM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
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Nothing I could do but wish him all the best.
Sep 30, 2021 12:03 PM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA2 Threads 9,802 Posts
That person should have been honest, in the first place but you can’t do nothing but let that
person go, sometimes signs are there but some
will ignore it cause they are in love
Sep 30, 2021 12:13 PM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
that actually happened to me. he is bi. i had my suspicions. after he told me, i asked what it was like and what did he do? i am more curious than anything. we're still friends
Sep 30, 2021 12:24 PM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
angelsheart_1: Obviously, i will be shocked, hurt and cry. I'll give him time to explain. And understand how he's feeling. And the last thing to do is move on.
it's ok, I will welcome her with Open Arms laugh
Sep 30, 2021 12:25 PM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
cryptorchid: that actually happened to me. he is bi. i had my suspicions. after he told me, i asked what it was like and what did he do? i am more curious than anything. we're still friends
what did he tell u what he has been doing performing ? wave laugh
Sep 30, 2021 12:28 PM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
ali110: what did he tell u what he has been doing performing ?
that is a private matter. scold
Sep 30, 2021 1:59 PM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
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LeeCharmingonline today!LeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK575 Threads 252 Polls 8,816 Posts
I'm sure some men...would like their girlfriends to participate in a threesome...with another woman and hoping to be the subject of most of the attention from both women...but would it be wiseconfused

I have heard of two men in a relationship and living with one woman...but I would never share a woman with another man and if a girlfriend wanted a threesome....I would consider another woman...but I would have to be boss of both of them
innocent laugh
Sep 30, 2021 2:43 PM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
LeeCharmingonline today!
LeeCharmingonline today!LeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK575 Threads 252 Polls 8,816 Posts
Would it bother a woman more...if a man cheated with another man or another woman? why am I thinking it would bother a woman far more...if it was another womanconfused
Sep 30, 2021 3:01 PM CST What to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend comes out as gay/lesbian?
I subscribe to several traveling YouTube couples and a few single ones as well. One of the channels was The WayAway. A couple that was married almost 11 years and they traveled on YouTube for about 10 of those years as a business. Long story short, the husband came out as transgender and they split up and divorced and the traveling business went away. She still runs a YouTube channel about her life and the ex husband is on InstaGram.
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