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So I will give it a try, to explain what a True Love means in my World. We are all a different Worlds, that's
why a perception of True Love is still not known. And never will.
You know it is True love when after living for 30,40,50 years together:
you still holding hands when walking streets at night, or early morning.
When you are waking up and smile, looking at your half laying next to you.
When you see your half is tired or sick, you cooking, and cleaning and taking care of children.
When you actually have something to talk about ( I don't mean gossips), to discuss something
When your second half understands from the first glance at you, that you need a time alone.
And there are more of those little things, which people consider to be caring and understanding of each other from the first glance. But to me those are signs of true love.
To me True love is feelings which lead to actions for well being of each other.
But the biggest sign of true love ( for me) is Respect. If there is no respect between a woman and a man, fairytale is gone
But I could say you were born with love but very soon from early experiences an imaginary wall began to form around your heart. This began to diminish the natural emanation of the energy of your heart, often referred to as love. Your heart, (self/consciouness) was becoming blocked. True love gave way to self protection and the ego took control. Then just to complicate things, as you get older you become exposed to the popular myth of romantic love and spend so long seaching for it, because without this magic elixer of romantic love life is fruitless. So the search for true love carries on, a bit like a fish in the sea searching for the water. The love is there all the time, it always has been, it's in us, is us.
Of course what you describe as true love is surely to be aspired to, few couples can reach that kind of longevity without it just becoming co-dependency. But respect and care for another can easily be felt outside of a marriage or relationship..... as can true love.