What traits should a man have for you to consider them NICE?
For the starters, I don't like to use word " Nice" when it comes to describing of man's traits. To me it sounds a wee girlish. A reliable man with great work ethics and gentle enough not to forget to bring flowers once in a while.
fantaziya: For the starters, I don't like to use word " Nice" when it comes to describing of man's traits. To me it sounds a wee girlish. A reliable man with great work ethics and gentle enough not to forget to bring flowers once in a while.
I totally agree with you on the word 'nice' hence why I put ''...'' round it ... I chose to use it because so much noise has been made lately about 'nice women' ...
Selenite: I totally agree with you on the word 'nice' hence why I put ''...'' round it ... I chose to use it because so much noise has been made lately about 'nice women' ...
What traits should a man have for you to consider them NICE?
Playing the long game. More Scandinavian than Chinese. Most people support a ruthless, cheating hellscape that delivers the goods short term. But if you succeed in an honourable way it'll last longer.
What traits should a man have for you to consider them NICE?
It has come to my attention that some "nice" men are offering self-defence class for women. To help them "manage" their own gender's inappropriate behaviour.
Now my idea of a nice man would be a man who would offer workshops and discussion groups for men, so that those who don't know yet, learn the boundaries of appropriate and respectful behaviour towards women.
Selenite: It has come to my attention that some "nice" men are offering self-defence class for women. To help them "manage" their own gender's inappropriate behaviour.
Now my idea of a nice man would be a man who would offer workshops and discussion groups for men, so that those who don't know yet, learn the boundaries of appropriate and respectful behaviour towards women.
A guy like that would be my hero
I have a friend who does exactly that in Kampala....now he is a very nice man....
jac_the_gripper: It's not the traits they should have, but the traits they do have.
Only they may choose who they want to be; it's not for me to say how men should be their authentc selves. That would be stupid.
There are some who evoke the 'naww, what a nice man' response in me, but I suspect each has their own unique combination of traits.
Of course they only can choose to be one way or another ... and should they be this way or that way then they would be liked by this or that person ....
Selenite: Of course they only can choose to be one way or another ... and should they be this way or that way then they would be liked by this or that person ....
You made that point on the 'nice women' thread and it's a damed good one.
Nobody has the exclusive right to say who is nice and who is not, who can contribute to a public forum and who cannot, assuming each person is their authentic self and does not contravene laws designed to protect others.
jac_the_gripper: You made that point on the 'nice women' thread and it's a damed good one.
Nobody has the exclusive right to say who is nice and who is not, who can contribute to a public forum and who cannot, assuming each person is their authentic self and does not contravene laws designed to protect others.
The point is each can say what traits they find attractive (nice) in another person. What they can't do is say being this way or that way makes someone more or less worthy as a human being.
A preference is not an insult to all those who aren't that way. As long as it's worded in a way that isn't insulting to those who don't match the preference ...
I don't consider traits..I don't have a list of what he should be like..We all have the right to be who we are.& some of us are a match and some of us aren't..Just because I think a man isn't right for me doesn't mean he's not a nice guy
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What traits should a man have for you to consider them NICE?