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Nov 16, 2021 2:18 AM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Of a ''nice'' man?

What traits should a man have for you to consider them NICE? conversing
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Nov 16, 2021 3:32 AM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
Selenite: Of a ''nice'' man?

What traits should a man have for you to consider them NICE?
Come on girls, I'm eager to know.
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Nov 16, 2021 3:36 AM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
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Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
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Nov 16, 2021 3:36 AM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
fantaziya
fantaziyafantaziyawindsor, Nova Scotia Canada4 Threads 1,163 Posts
Selenite: Of a ''nice'' man?

What traits should a man have for you to consider them NICE?
For the starters, I don't like to use word " Nice" when it comes to describing of man's traits. To me it sounds a wee girlish. conversing
A reliable man with great work ethics and gentle enough not to forget to bring flowers once in a while. smitten
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Nov 16, 2021 3:48 AM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
fantaziya: For the starters, I don't like to use word " Nice" when it comes to describing of man's traits. To me it sounds a wee girlish.
A reliable man with great work ethics and gentle enough not to forget to bring flowers once in a while.
thumbs up

I totally agree with you on the word 'nice' hence why I put ''...'' round it ...
I chose to use it because so much noise has been made lately about 'nice women' ... grin
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Nov 16, 2021 3:50 AM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
fantaziya
fantaziyafantaziyawindsor, Nova Scotia Canada4 Threads 1,163 Posts
Selenite: I totally agree with you on the word 'nice' hence why I put ''...'' round it ...
I chose to use it because so much noise has been made lately about 'nice women' ...
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Nov 16, 2021 4:42 AM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Selenite: Of a ''nice'' man?

What traits should a man have for you to consider them NICE?
Playing the long game. More Scandinavian than Chinese. Most people support a ruthless, cheating hellscape that delivers the goods short term. But if you succeed in an honourable way it'll last longer.
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Nov 16, 2021 5:36 AM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
Dan_777
Dan_777Dan_777Nowhereland, Murcia Spain3 Threads 439 Posts
Selenite: Of a ''nice'' man?

What traits should a man have for you to consider them NICE?
Nice personality, friendly and considerate.

Hola Sel.
I think you're a nice person. wave
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Nov 16, 2021 5:38 AM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
Dan_777
Dan_777Dan_777Nowhereland, Murcia Spain3 Threads 439 Posts
snowlynx: Come on girls, I'm eager to know.
Snowy can be quite a nice man....when he wants to wink
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Nov 16, 2021 11:21 AM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Dan_777: Nice personality, friendly and considerate.

Hola Sel.
I think you're a nice person.
wave Thanks Dan!I nice you're a nice person too hug
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Nov 16, 2021 11:30 AM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Selenite: Of a ''nice'' man?

What traits should a man have for you to consider them NICE?
It has come to my attention that some "nice" men are offering self-defence class for women. To help them "manage" their own gender's inappropriate behaviour. shock

Now my idea of a nice man would be a man who would offer workshops and discussion groups for men, so that those who don't know yet, learn the boundaries of appropriate and respectful behaviour towards women.

A guy like that would be my hero smitten
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Nov 16, 2021 11:51 AM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Selenite: What traits should a man have for you to consider them NICE?
It's not the traits they should have, but the traits they do have.

Only they may choose who they want to be; it's not for me to say how men should be their authentc selves. That would be stupid.

There are some who evoke the 'naww, what a nice man' response in me, but I suspect each has their own unique combination of traits.
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Nov 16, 2021 11:55 AM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
Selenite: It has come to my attention that some "nice" men are offering self-defence class for women. To help them "manage" their own gender's inappropriate behaviour.

Now my idea of a nice man would be a man who would offer workshops and discussion groups for men, so that those who don't know yet, learn the boundaries of appropriate and respectful behaviour towards women.

A guy like that would be my hero
I have a friend who does exactly that in Kampala....now he is a very nice man....applause
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Nov 16, 2021 11:57 AM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
Dan_777: Snowy can be quite a nice man....when he wants to
He can be but it's very rare.
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Nov 16, 2021 11:58 AM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
jac_the_gripper: It's not the traits they should have, but the traits they do have.

Only they may choose who they want to be; it's not for me to say how men should be their authentc selves. That would be stupid.

There are some who evoke the 'naww, what a nice man' response in me, but I suspect each has their own unique combination of traits.
Of course they only can choose to be one way or another ... and should they be this way or that way then they would be liked by this or that person ....
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Nov 16, 2021 11:59 AM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
bodleing2: I have a friend who does exactly that in Kampala....now he is a very nice man....
He sure is!!! applause
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Nov 16, 2021 12:00 PM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
snowlynx: He can be but it's very rare.
laugh

I've caught a glimpse of it once I think!! laugh
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Nov 16, 2021 12:11 PM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Selenite: Of course they only can choose to be one way or another ... and should they be this way or that way then they would be liked by this or that person ....
You made that point on the 'nice women' thread and it's a damed good one.

Nobody has the exclusive right to say who is nice and who is not, who can contribute to a public forum and who cannot, assuming each person is their authentic self and does not contravene laws designed to protect others.
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Nov 16, 2021 12:34 PM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
jac_the_gripper: You made that point on the 'nice women' thread and it's a damed good one.

Nobody has the exclusive right to say who is nice and who is not, who can contribute to a public forum and who cannot, assuming each person is their authentic self and does not contravene laws designed to protect others.
The point is each can say what traits they find attractive (nice) in another person. What they can't do is say being this way or that way makes someone more or less worthy as a human being.

A preference is not an insult to all those who aren't that way. As long as it's worded in a way that isn't insulting to those who don't match the preference ...

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Nov 16, 2021 12:37 PM CST WOMEN ... what is your definition...
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Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
I don't consider traits..I don't have a list of what he should be like..We all have the right to be who we are.& some of us are a match and some of us aren't..Just because I think a man isn't right for me doesn't mean he's not a nice guy
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