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SeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 PostsMercedes_00: I don't consider traits..I don't have a list of what he should be like..We all have the right to be who we are.& some of us are a match and some of us aren't..Just because I think a man isn't right for me doesn't mean he's not a nice guy
good post 
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Selenite: good post
Thanks lovely 
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Selenite: The point is each can say what traits they find attractive (nice) in another person. What they can't do is say being this way or that way makes someone more or less worthy as a human being.
A preference is not an insult to all those who aren't that way. As long as it's worded in a way that isn't insulting to those who don't match the preference ...
But perhaps stating a preference excludes some people, which is perhaps not nice. A preference is not an insult to all those who aren't that way. As long as it's worded in a way that isn't insulting to those who don't match the preference ...
Perhaps we should stfu with our personal, and particularly generc judgements, because there is no way they can be worded nicely and inclusively.
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fantaziya: For the starters, I don't like to use word " Nice" when it comes to describing of man's traits. To me it sounds a wee girlish.
A reliable man with great work ethics and gentle enough not to forget to bring flowers once in a while.
A reliable man with great work ethics and gentle enough not to forget to bring flowers once in a while.
I agree
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Selenite: Of a ''nice'' man?
What traits should a man have for you to consider them NICE?
I should confess, a man with a big hands makes me melt What traits should a man have for you to consider them NICE?
Can it be placed in a "nice trait" category?
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jac_the_gripper: But perhaps stating a preference excludes some people, which is perhaps not nice.
Perhaps we should stfu with our personal, and particularly generc judgements, because there is no way they can be worded nicely and inclusively.
I don't think that anyone actually fools themselves with the notion that everyone likes everyone and nobody has any preferences. In fact the thought of it is making me chuckle (come on everyone! Just play nice!! just like playschool!!) Perhaps we should stfu with our personal, and particularly generc judgements, because there is no way they can be worded nicely and inclusively.
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Packersbabe1: I agree
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fantaziya: I should confess, a man with a big hands makes me melt
Can it be placed in a "nice trait" category?
It sure can!!! A man with big hands who does nice things with his nice big hands must for sure be a nice man!! Can it be placed in a "nice trait" category?
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Mercedes_00: I don't consider traits..I don't have a list of what he should be like..We all have the right to be who we are.& some of us are a match and some of us aren't..Just because I think a man isn't right for me doesn't mean he's not a nice guy
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Selenite: Of a ''nice'' man?
What traits should a man have for you to consider them NICE?
One who has tamed his masculine traits and has excentuatee his feminine ones and are not afraid to show either.What traits should a man have for you to consider them NICE?
Who realise the world doesn't revolve around d them and his eyes are fully focused on the world ahead of himself not within himself.
Selfless, funny, generous ,caring, generous, treats those people who mean the most as a priority, who finds it as much a need to make a strangers day by a little act of kindness as it is the pour his GF her first sip of coffee ...who is a humanitarian...and is a peace loving art admiring...trail blazing kind of man.
And I think I may just marry him....oh I forgot I found one of these and will be marrying him late next year.
For the human race...to be nice is to realise you lr a mere dot in the grand scheme of things and just make sure that dot shines as bright and the billions of others all over the world...in other words leave a good legacy for your kids , grandkids etc.
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Spiroa_Saor said "Who realise the world doesn't revolve around d them and his eyes are fully focused on the world ahead of himself not within himself."
touché! 
touché!
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Spiorad_Saor: One who has tamed his masculine traits and has excentuatee his feminine ones and are not afraid to show either.
Who realise the world doesn't revolve around d them and his eyes are fully focused on the world ahead of himself not within himself.
Selfless, funny, generous ,caring, generous, treats those people who mean the most as a priority, who finds it as much a need to make a strangers day by a little act of kindness as it is the pour his GF her first sip of coffee ...who is a humanitarian...and is a peace loving art admiring...trail blazing kind of man.
And I think I may just marry him....oh I forgot I found one of these and will be marrying him late next year.
For the human race...to be nice is to realise you lr a mere dot in the grand scheme of things and just make sure that dot shines as bright and the billions of others all over the world...in other words leave a good legacy for your kids , grandkids etc.
Thanks for sharing Spiorad.Who realise the world doesn't revolve around d them and his eyes are fully focused on the world ahead of himself not within himself.
Selfless, funny, generous ,caring, generous, treats those people who mean the most as a priority, who finds it as much a need to make a strangers day by a little act of kindness as it is the pour his GF her first sip of coffee ...who is a humanitarian...and is a peace loving art admiring...trail blazing kind of man.
And I think I may just marry him....oh I forgot I found one of these and will be marrying him late next year.
For the human race...to be nice is to realise you lr a mere dot in the grand scheme of things and just make sure that dot shines as bright and the billions of others all over the world...in other words leave a good legacy for your kids , grandkids etc.
Beautiful that you have met the perfect kind, nice man for you
I like your last paragraph ... a bit of humility at times goes a long way and shines way brighter than arrogance
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Selenite: Thanks for sharing Spiorad.
Beautiful that you have met the perfect kind, nice man for you
I like your last paragraph ... a bit of humility at times goes a long way and shines way brighter than arrogance
Dee Dee in the house... Beautiful that you have met the perfect kind, nice man for you
I like your last paragraph ... a bit of humility at times goes a long way and shines way brighter than arrogance
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mikey4691: Dee Dee in the house...
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mikey4691: Sorry Selen, I didn't mean to quote you...
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