Why cant I find a gal? ( Archived) (50)

Nov 28, 2021 10:28 PM CST Why cant I find a gal?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,428 Posts
Oops one last thing..When I talk to men when I am out..I don't ask questions..I'm more comfortable a man asking me questions when I'm out..When that one question is asked of me I know where I'm allowed to navigate the conversation without prying...I'm able to navigate his one question through so many channels without prying into his business...That's a scenario of one question so yeah I don't lie when I say I can talk under water laugh
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Nov 29, 2021 12:40 AM CST Why cant I find a gal?
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
rohaan: I think it’s good when partners have a common goal they do together, like backyard chickens, a garden, home improvement, decorating, etc…combined with individual personal interests such as fishing or just taking a trip alone once in awhile. That way, there is both togetherness, AND a healthy respect for each others’ solitary time. I think in most cases this works well.
Yes partners, but some one you just had a few words with online stars grilling you like a chicken uh oh Its like "Hi, I like your profile, can I hear your life story? Oh uh oh by the way my name is..typing"Or "If you don't mind me asking, why are you single?" of course all will be revealed through conversations, not after 2 messages.. laugh scold Next! help
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Nov 30, 2021 1:22 PM CST Why cant I find a gal?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
For starters...I would not go on a date with a woman wearing a face nappy..i want to see her smile...when i charm her....we maybe might be kissing and of course i want to be able to hear her every word..when she does speak...but in terms of conversing...some women can really hold their own and i think women have more to talk about than men...cause society revolves around women's wants...needs...demands and caters to women vastly more than it does men...so most places are feminised enough for women to fee at home and express themselves
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Nov 30, 2021 1:23 PM CST Why cant I find a gal?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
For starters...I would not go on a date with a woman wearing a face nappy..i want to see her smile...when i charm her....we maybe might be kissing and of course i want to be able to hear her every word..when she does speak...but in terms of conversing...some women can really hold their own and i think women have more to talk about than men...cause society revolves around women's wants...needs...demands and caters to women vastly more than it does men...so most places are feminised enough for women to feel at home and express themselves

a typo
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Nov 30, 2021 11:33 PM CST Why cant I find a gal?
Orzzz
OrzzzOrzzzPortage, Wisconsin USA106 Threads 8 Polls 803 Posts
I wonder how Twitter and those sites can stay going? People have to communicate on them. Yet there are those men on date sites that reply with the same opening line..the basic how are you. After a few emails of that, gals give up. I am sure the reverse is true too. Mom had a phrase...its like pulling teeth. In reference to getting a reply.
Remember pen pals. I had a few way back when. Wrote to a gal in England. A guy in Italy cause his wife couldnt speak English. A gal in Japan. We managed to write full letters on all kinds of topics.
What attracted me to my men was they were good at talking. About childhood, school, work, hobbies, life in general.
Everyone on a date site has not been locked in a window less room since birth. Find SOMETHING to say!frustrated doh
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Dec 1, 2021 12:00 AM CST Why cant I find a gal?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Orzzz: Or refrigerator. At least it hums.
rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 1, 2021 7:52 AM CST Why cant I find a gal?
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
Jaavisst: Another ??????, it seems like I attract them! No wonder you are single with such foul language!
You obviously haven't met any Scotch women..innocent
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Dec 1, 2021 8:01 AM CST Why cant I find a gal?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
I blame consumer society turning men into customers. What is a customer? Always right and the main focus of attention. Customers are not men.
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Dec 1, 2021 8:06 AM CST Why cant I find a gal?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
Name_Taken_Too: You obviously haven't met any Scotch women..
I think most 'Scottish' women would prefer not to be described as a drink.

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Dec 1, 2021 8:30 AM CST Why cant I find a gal?
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
bodleing2: I think most 'Scottish' women would prefer not to be described as a drink.
Dodgy ground we're walking on Bod, well I am..laugh
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Dec 2, 2021 2:48 AM CST Why cant I find a gal?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
fantaziya: You have made a lot of good points. If I may to add a practical ones.
There are not so many big cities in World. No problem to find someone in those. But there are millions of small town and villages. So... how many choices to find someone in those places?
In some countries male and female population isn't balanced. Some have more males' some have more females( due to war or other reasons) Less choices to find someone to live forever and happy
In my town(not born here) of about 6000 people, I have got no clue as to whom they are, but they know my name! I feel like everybody knows the Monkey and the Money knows no one! I can't ask for a date unless 100% sure to get a positive answer. If rejected, everybody will comment about it for months. So I don't even try asking like many others as well. It's easier for teenagers because nobody expects relationships to last long. If I go to Stockholm, no problem to pick up a date since for my age I'm in top 5%, but when you say where you live, it ends there. Swedish women above 30 and to their death are always looking for younger men. So in my age only the retirement home is a viable option. Problem is that when her clothes comes of I become impotent! I was spoiled by Russian beauties for a long, long time and now ordinary and fat women is not my thing. And no, I am not going to import a 30 year old model and become talk of the town. Been there done that! So in reality I have resigned and are no longer looking for a partner. Online, women use fakes or enhanced pictures and a few times meeting in person has been a chock. I would recommend to post your worst ever picture somewhere along the "nice" ones just to avoid awkward situations in the future. Maybe a serious dating site where you have to prove who you are and supply a almost naked picture might be a good idea. Because dating out of your league just don't work in the long run, no matter how good your personality is. The truth is that getting old sucks for 99.9% of us!
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Dec 2, 2021 3:40 AM CST Why cant I find a gal?
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
Jaavisst: In my town(not born here) of about 6000 people, I have got no clue as to whom they are, but they know my name! I feel like everybody knows the Monkey and the Money knows no one! I can't ask for a date unless 100% sure to get a positive answer. If rejected, everybody will comment about it for months. So I don't even try asking like many others as well. It's easier for teenagers because nobody expects relationships to last long. If I go to Stockholm, no problem to pick up a date since for my age I'm in top 5%, but when you say where you live, it ends there. Swedish women above 30 and to their death are always looking for younger men. So in my age only the retirement home is a viable option. Problem is that when her clothes comes of I become impotent! I was spoiled by Russian beauties for a long, long time and now ordinary and fat women is not my thing. And no, I am not going to import a 30 year old model and become talk of the town. Been there done that! So in reality I have resigned and are no longer looking for a partner. Online, women use fakes or enhanced pictures and a few times meeting in person has been a chock. I would recommend to post your worst ever picture somewhere along the "nice" ones just to avoid awkward situations in the future. Maybe a serious dating site where you have to prove who you are and supply a almost naked picture might be a good idea. Because dating out of your league just don't work in the long run, no matter how good your personality is. The truth is that getting old sucks for 99.9% of us!
Gee you don't have paint a bleak picture for yourself, you ever try a mail order bride service?
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Dec 2, 2021 3:41 AM CST Why cant I find a gal?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Jaavisst: In my town(not born here) of about 6000 people, I have got no clue as to whom they are, but they know my name! I feel like everybody knows the Monkey and the Money knows no one! I can't ask for a date unless 100% sure to get a positive answer. If rejected, everybody will comment about it for months. So I don't even try asking like many others as well. It's easier for teenagers because nobody expects relationships to last long. If I go to Stockholm, no problem to pick up a date since for my age I'm in top 5%, but when you say where you live, it ends there. Swedish women above 30 and to their death are always looking for younger men. So in my age only the retirement home is a viable option. Problem is that when her clothes comes of I become impotent! I was spoiled by Russian beauties for a long, long time and now ordinary and fat women is not my thing. And no, I am not going to import a 30 year old model and become talk of the town. Been there done that! So in reality I have resigned and are no longer looking for a partner. Online, women use fakes or enhanced pictures and a few times meeting in person has been a chock. I would recommend to post your worst ever picture somewhere along the "nice" ones just to avoid awkward situations in the future. Maybe a serious dating site where you have to prove who you are and supply a almost naked picture might be a good idea. Because dating out of your league just don't work in the long run, no matter how good your personality is. The truth is that getting old sucks for 99.9% of us!
Could it be that you are single because you’re undesirable & a little bit boring , not to mention a tad negative ?
You will never find the positives if you only look for the negatives.
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Dec 2, 2021 3:51 AM CST Why cant I find a gal?
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
Youcannow: Could it be that you are single because you’re undesirable & a little bit boring , not to mention a tad negative ?
You will never find the positives if you only look for the negatives.
You definitely have a better way with words than, the OP I have noticed does this, he'll curse the Americans next then disappear for a while again.. roll eyes wave
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Dec 2, 2021 3:59 AM CST Why cant I find a gal?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Name_Taken_Too: You definitely have a better way with words than, the OP I have noticed does this, he'll curse the Americans next then disappear for a while again..
Feeling sorry for ones self is an undesirable quality in a man .
Confidence in one’s self is a trait many , if not all, women look for .
Having a good SOH , good looks are other qualities women look for .
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Dec 2, 2021 4:06 AM CST Why cant I find a gal?
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
Youcannow: Feeling sorry for ones self is an undesirable quality in a man .
Confidence in one’s self is a trait many , if not all, women look for .
Having a good SOH , good looks are other qualities women look for .
Yes I agree, what women look for is another thing though.. The lure of the bad boy maybe, but most can't handle it.. I read in most profiles of women that send me messages "Must have a sense of humour or I am told I have a GOSH, but when I send my nudes they don't laugh, whats that even about dunno Prudes never appealed to me to be honest..roll eyes
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Dec 2, 2021 4:28 AM CST Why cant I find a gal?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
We tend to tell you everything you want to hear so as to avoid knocking your confidence. But everything a woman does is hit your confidence as hard as she possibly can. The thing between her legs is primeval in it's clannishness
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Dec 2, 2021 4:28 AM CST Why cant I find a gal?
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
It's surprising what a good impression politeness and common courtesy will make . tpp many people on here overlook thisdunno
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Dec 2, 2021 4:30 AM CST Why cant I find a gal?
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
tomcatty: It's surprising what a good impression politeness and common courtesy will make . tpp many people on here overlook this
You ain't no saint Tommy boy..laugh
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Dec 2, 2021 4:40 AM CST Why cant I find a gal?
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
N

ame_Taken_Too:
You ain't no saint Tommy boy..
Guess I am a bad dog baby, but I am polite to women as much as possible, as of course, you are,grin
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