pedro27: Is it my fault or yours too how I feel about you?
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That's a very good question Pedro.
When I think about situations on here when someone has bullied me and I have done nothing to provoke them to do that, then I would say it is their fault to how they feel about me which probably comes from some bent up frustration in general of how they feel about themselves.
When I think about situations on here when someone has bullied me and I have done nothing to provoke them to do that, then I would say it is their fault to how they feel about me which probably comes from some bent up frustration in general of how they feel about themselves.
pedro27: Is it my fault or yours too how I feel about you?
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It's nobody's "fault" things are as they are because humans don't always control how they feel or how they project ...
Who's to blame? Those who caused the trauma so there are angry hurt people around? Those who take things personally even if they know what is being said has nothing to do with them? Those who've hurt the ones who take things personally? Those who've got to adult age without having the opportunity or clarity to work who healing the traumas?
It could be so so many people's fault... but at the end of the day we're only responsible for how we act and how we respond
pedro27: Is it my fault or yours too how I feel about you?
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Sorry Pedro, but mostly that's down to your own thoughts and how you see them or think they are
If every time someone was in another person's company and they told each other how one made the other feel then there'd be a lot of very surprised reactions....
When I think about situations on here when someone has bullied me and I have done nothing to provoke them to do that, then I would say it is their fault to how they feel about me which probably comes from some bent up frustration in general of how they feel about themselves.
Nothing worse when toffs think we should carry ourselves in those situations because they would do it way better. Mind you these people who recite the same ole same ole have never been continuously spat at on here
Do what is right for you & never for what is right for the so called no alls.
Mercedes_00: Nothing worse when toffs think we should carry ourselves in those situations because they would do it way better. Mind you these people who recite the same ole same ole have never been continuously spat at on here
Do what is right for you & never for what is right for the so called no alls.
When I think about situations on here when someone has bullied me and I have done nothing to provoke them to do that, then I would say it is their fault to how they feel about me which probably comes from some bent up frustration in general of how they feel about themselves.
Kind of like the saying, hurt people hurt other people.
Probably what is wrong about the world...instead of empathy for other’s...many can only see their side of all issues.
Mercedes_00: Nothing worse when toffs think we should carry ourselves in those situations because they would do it way better. Mind you these people who recite the same ole same ole have never been continuously spat at on here
Do what is right for you & never for what is right for the so called no alls.
I don't worry about those who bully me or like to argue for the sake of arguing. If someone bullies me that I care about then I put some credence in what they are saying.
Those who lash out at others are fighting within themselves with their own problems.
secretagent09: I don't worry about those who bully me or like to argue for the sake of arguing. If someone bullies me that I care about then I put some credence in what they are saying.
Those who lash out at others are fighting within themselves with their own problems.
I have never been associated with a forum where people give an opinion and then someone carries on like it's a bloody courtroom having to defend an opinion. To me it's all about those kind not interacting in the real world. It's not normal behaviour to me. Same way bullying kicks off because we won't be who they want us to be. They have this mentality that is very unhealthy in my book.
My airs & graces are for the real world simply because I don't associate myself with know all's.Including spiteful alcohol induced men & woman who are addicted to putting woman down out of spite..We all support & encourage one another.
Mercedes_00: I have never been associated with a forum where people give an opinion and then someone carries on like it's a bloody courtroom having to defend an opinion. To me it's all about those kind not interacting in the real world. It's not normal behaviour to me. Same way bullying kicks off because we won't be who they want us to be. They have this mentality that is very unhealthy in my book.
My airs & graces are for the real world simply because I don't associate myself with know all's.Including spiteful alcohol induced men & woman who are addicted to putting woman down out of spite..We all support & encourage one another.
Mercedes_00: I have never been associated with a forum where people give an opinion and then someone carries on like it's a bloody courtroom having to defend an opinion. To me it's all about those kind not interacting in the real world. It's not normal behaviour to me. Same way bullying kicks off because we won't be who they want us to be. They have this mentality that is very unhealthy in my book.
My airs & graces are for the real world simply because I don't associate myself with know all's.Including spiteful alcohol induced men & woman who are addicted to putting woman down out of spite..We all support & encourage one another.
Mercedes_00: I have never been associated with a forum where people give an opinion and then someone carries on like it's a bloody courtroom having to defend an opinion. To me it's all about those kind not interacting in the real world. It's not normal behaviour to me. Same way bullying kicks off because we won't be who they want us to be. They have this mentality that is very unhealthy in my book.
My airs & graces are for the real world simply because I don't associate myself with know all's.Including spiteful alcohol induced men & woman who are addicted to putting woman down out of spite..We all support & encourage one another.
Many years ago people gave an opinion on CS and someone might disagree with it but it didn't become people writing novels as their post. I don't read things like that. In fact lately I've been directing my attention to threads that I might have some input on or have some humor. And even then I think carefully if it's worth it to give an opinion in this environment.
secretagent09: Many years ago people gave an opinion on CS and someone might disagree with it but it didn't become people writing novels as their post. I don't read things like that. In fact lately I've been directing my attention to threads that I might have some input on or have some humor. And even then I think carefully if it's worth it to give an opinion in this environment.
I don't blame you at all I'm not on here much myself I'm usually in & out
This is the longest I have lingered on here in a while Not to say I won't linger on here again but that last farce on that Respect thread was beyond ridiculous I prefer to mingle with people in the real world who have way more credentials than that carry on who would never dare lower themselves to that degree just for the sake of trying to look all that.
secretagent09: I have to disagree with you that there are people on here who don't have a clue about the real world. I think there are some intelligent people who are probably very bright in the real world but on here they can be somebody different without any repercussions of what they say. Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde posters.
secretagent09: I have to disagree with you that there are people on here who don't have a clue about the real world. I think there are some intelligent people who are probably very bright in the real world but on here they can be somebody different without any repercussions of what they say. Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde posters.
I agree with this in some ways....But, to have the need to be a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde posting mentality...says all that I need to know about that person. They will eventually show that side in the real world...
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