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Dec 15, 2021 1:10 AM CST lonely life
Decent_Love
Decent_LoveDecent_LovePrayagraj, Uttar Pradesh India407 Threads 3 Polls 2,046 Posts
Advantages and disadvantages of lonely life?
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Dec 15, 2021 1:11 AM CST lonely life
Decent_Love
Decent_LoveDecent_LovePrayagraj, Uttar Pradesh India407 Threads 3 Polls 2,046 Posts
You don't have to tolerate anyone and no one else needs to tolerate you.
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Dec 15, 2021 1:12 AM CST lonely life
Decent_Love
Decent_LoveDecent_LovePrayagraj, Uttar Pradesh India407 Threads 3 Polls 2,046 Posts
Lonely life has to bear the pain of loneliness.
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Dec 15, 2021 1:23 AM CST lonely life
Decent_Love
Decent_LoveDecent_LovePrayagraj, Uttar Pradesh India407 Threads 3 Polls 2,046 Posts
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Dec 15, 2021 1:40 AM CST lonely life
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,401 Posts
For me there are no advantages feeling lonely..Lockdown was horrendous..No advantage was found at all
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Dec 15, 2021 7:24 AM CST lonely life
Decent_Love
Decent_LoveDecent_LovePrayagraj, Uttar Pradesh India407 Threads 3 Polls 2,046 Posts
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Dec 15, 2021 8:11 AM CST lonely life
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,229 Posts
Decent_Love: Advantages and disadvantages of lonely life?
Are you confusing "lonely life" with being alone?

Living alone is not necessarily a lonely life. I live alone. I enjoy my independence in not having to adhere to someone else's rules. I am not lonely.

A lonely life is when family and friends have abandoned you. You don't necessarily live in a cardboard box but you are destitute from the normal needs of life......food, medical care, interaction with people.
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Dec 15, 2021 8:20 AM CST lonely life
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
I felt more along in marriage, that when I became single again .
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Dec 15, 2021 8:56 AM CST lonely life
Decent_Love
Decent_LoveDecent_LovePrayagraj, Uttar Pradesh India407 Threads 3 Polls 2,046 Posts
Lonely life:
it doesn't mean, living in a forest alone.
It means, you have no partner with whom you can share your deepest feelings.
You can feel alone even in the crowd, if you don't have an appropriate partner.
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Dec 15, 2021 10:09 AM CST lonely life
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Decent_Love: Advantages and disadvantages of lonely life?
Huge vast difference between being alone and being lonely!!

Which one is your question about?
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Dec 15, 2021 10:39 AM CST lonely life
Decent_Love
Decent_LoveDecent_LovePrayagraj, Uttar Pradesh India407 Threads 3 Polls 2,046 Posts
it's about lonely life, not alone life.
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Dec 15, 2021 10:43 AM CST lonely life
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Decent_Love: it's about lonely life, not alone life.
You live in a country of 1.4 billion people & the majority are women . Why can’t you find a partner ?
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Dec 15, 2021 11:14 AM CST lonely life
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Decent_Love: Advantages and disadvantages of lonely life?
Advantage: the sincere desire to spend time with someone. Plus it's owning up to a negative, at least you're not a narcissist saying that you're definitely not lonely, you're just alone. You could become less lonely through good company. Which is something. You could be lonely and insisting that you're not lonely because you trust no one, and will therefore always be lonely because you trust no one.
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Dec 15, 2021 1:05 PM CST lonely life
Learn to enjoy your own company and you'll seldom feel lonely
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Dec 15, 2021 1:49 PM CST lonely life
PeKaatje
PeKaatjePeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands59 Threads 3 Polls 6,334 Posts
I always find something to do.
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Dec 15, 2021 2:16 PM CST lonely life
If I didn't have a lonely life I probably would not have my motorcycle transmission half apart on my kitchen table. laugh It will be completely apart when I take it apart and nobody can stop me.
The lonely life.daydream laugh
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Dec 15, 2021 2:46 PM CST lonely life
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
secretagent09: Are you confusing "lonely life" with being alone?

Living alone is not necessarily a lonely life. I live alone. I enjoy my independence in not having to adhere to someone else's rules. I am not lonely.

A lonely life is when family and friends have abandoned you. You don't necessarily live in a cardboard box but you are destitute from the normal needs of life......food, medical care, interaction with people.
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Sometimes family and friends may not have abandoned someone who feels lonely. It could be that the family and friends don't "match" the life philosophy of the person and so they feel alone until they find a new "tribe" who does match their life philosophy...
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Dec 15, 2021 2:47 PM CST lonely life
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Youcannow: I felt more along in marriage, that when I became single again .
Same here!!
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Dec 15, 2021 2:50 PM CST lonely life
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Decent_Love: it's about lonely life, not alone life.
Feeling lonely is not about not being with anyone. It's about not feeling a connection with those who live in your immediate circle.

It's totally possible to enjoy a beautiful sunset by oneself. Once one feels good in ones skin.
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Dec 15, 2021 2:51 PM CST lonely life
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
MysteriousGirl80: Learn to enjoy your own company and you'll seldom feel lonely
Exactly wine
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