There was an internal struggle between women and Dr Huffhufrrrrrrr on the Spray site. He was(I asume it was a male) very abusive and used foul language in his posts. He (again) was barred several times but reappeared with an new profile with a extra "r" every time(sounds familiar). I must confess that for one time only and it has never happened again, I made a fake profile also adding an "r". Then I went about apologizing to people and wrote some very uncharacteristic posts for him(again). This individual bombarded me with profanities in personal communications, some I never heard of either before or after. He (again) spent days on the forum denying being regretful and wanted to continue his hatred towards women. As I see it, it's not only on this site in USA, but also in my country and others persons who lack empathy and have hatred toward something or somebody. Spray took away the forum and started a downward spiral towards being bought up and now recently cancelled all email accounts(they had that to) and is no more. All because of lacking to stand up for free speech and opting out the easy way by terminating the forum. To be honest I would not use this site without the forum. It's not a great way to find a spouse but it has it's moments to make me smile. I know this is futile but why don't people for an example use * in profile name when it's a fake profile. I wouldn't mind keeping the fake forum profiles, because honestly they also keep the forum going. Otherwise I would be as dead as the European section. I dislike the scammers though and they would probably never catch on about the *. Start charging a buck or two for real profiles and have free fake ones all with a * in the name.
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He was(I asume it was a male) very abusive and used foul language in his posts.
He (again) was barred several times but reappeared with an new profile with a extra "r" every time(sounds familiar).
I must confess that for one time only and it has never happened again, I made a fake profile also adding an "r".
Then I went about apologizing to people and wrote some very uncharacteristic posts for him(again).
This individual bombarded me with profanities in personal communications, some I never heard of either before or after. He (again) spent days on the forum denying being regretful and wanted to continue his hatred towards women.
As I see it, it's not only on this site in USA, but also in my country and others persons who lack empathy and have hatred toward something or somebody.
Spray took away the forum and started a downward spiral towards being bought up and now recently cancelled all email accounts(they had that to) and is no more. All because of lacking to stand up for free speech and opting out the easy way by terminating the forum.
To be honest I would not use this site without the forum. It's not a great way to find a spouse but it has it's moments to make me smile.
I know this is futile but why don't people for an example use * in profile name when it's a fake profile. I wouldn't mind keeping the fake forum profiles, because honestly they also keep the forum going. Otherwise I would be as dead as the European section. I dislike the scammers though and they would probably never catch on about the *. Start charging a buck or two for real profiles and have free fake ones all with a * in the name.