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Only 18% Of American Households....Are Families With Married Parents (13)

Jan 12, 2022 7:35 PM CST Only 18% Of American Households....Are Families With Married Parents
Jan 12, 2022 8:07 PM CST Only 18% Of American Households....Are Families With Married Parents
Orzzz
OrzzzOrzzzPortage, Wisconsin USA100 Threads 8 Polls 806 Posts
I feel sorry for kids today. In MY day..lol...a baby born out of wedlock was a bast***. The gal slunk off to visit her ailing aunt for..coincidence..8 months. She had to stay out of school. Or there were marriages and premie babies. Divorce was rare and frowned upon. I know an old couple where he did hanky panky. His wife divided the house in half and the son had to be the go between. She lived her life and he lived his. She had never worked so had to stay with him so he paid the bills. Never talked to him the rest of their lives.
Now marriage is obsolete. People change mates like under wear. Dont work at anything..spoiled their childhoods, can't get it your way...leave. Or have 3 kids and wait til old enough for the wedding party then marry. And divorce in under 5 years.
Poor kids get bounced around like ping pong balls. Step dads, moms,change houses, no roots..no wonder they are a mess. Black men think it is cool to have 4 or more baby moms. Just breed them, dont support them. Free sex these days is like shaking hands. Women want the Knight in shining armor and wont settle for one without the armor. And castle. And servants. They drank the liberated woman kool aid and then hit 35 and say what happened.wow We are the equal of the men!head banger
Yep...alone.moping
Jan 12, 2022 11:09 PM CST Only 18% Of American Households....Are Families With Married Parents
Orzzz: I feel sorry for kids today. In MY day..lol...a baby born out of wedlock was a bast***. The gal slunk off to visit her ailing aunt for..coincidence..8 months. She had to stay out of school. Or there were marriages and premie babies. Divorce was rare and frowned upon. I know an old couple where he did hanky panky. His wife divided the house in half and the son had to be the go between. She lived her life and he lived his. She had never worked so had to stay with him so he paid the bills. Never talked to him the rest of their lives.
Now marriage is obsolete. People change mates like under wear. Dont work at anything..spoiled their childhoods, can't get it your way...leave. Or have 3 kids and wait til old enough for the wedding party then marry. And divorce in under 5 years.
Poor kids get bounced around like ping pong balls. Step dads, moms,change houses, no roots..no wonder they are a mess. Black men think it is cool to have 4 or more baby moms. Just breed them, dont support them. Free sex these days is like shaking hands. Women want the Knight in shining armor and wont settle for one without the armor. And castle. And servants. They drank the liberated woman kool aid and then hit 35 and say what happened. We are the equal of the men!
Yep...alone.
I heard one.. Once white women go black, they are single moms.. Is that tru?? dunno
Jan 13, 2022 3:56 AM CST Only 18% Of American Households....Are Families With Married Parents
I feel sorry for kids today. In MY day..lol...a baby born out of wedlock was a bast***. The gal slunk off to visit her ailing aunt for..coincidence..8 months. She had to stay out of school. Or there were marriages and premie babies. Divorce was rare and frowned upon. I know an old couple where he did hanky panky. His wife divided the house in half and the son had to be the go between. She lived her life and he lived his. She had never worked so had to stay with him so he paid the bills. Never talked to him the rest of their lives.
Now marriage is obsolete. People change mates like under wear. Dont work at anything..spoiled their childhoods, can't get it your way...leave. Or have 3 kids and wait til old enough for the wedding party then marry. And divorce in under 5 years.
Poor kids get bounced around like ping pong balls. Step dads, moms,change houses, no roots..no wonder they are a mess. Black men think it is cool to have 4 or more baby moms. Just breed them, dont support them. Free sex these days is like shaking hands. Women want the Knight in shining armor and wont settle for one without the armor. And castle. And servants. They drank the liberated woman kool aid and then hit 35 and say what happened.wow We are the equal of the men!head banger
Yep...alone.moping

You explained this quite well yet, if you take in consideration this entire website is predominantly made up of the type of people you described especially the last part about the liberating Kool aid. Then the women here expect to find some bloke to shag under their terms and conditions often end up sleeping alone writing blogs about how dysfunctional everyone is.
Nothing has changed and clearly people have brought last year's and previous years baggage into this year. No doubt new blogs will be written concerning similar topic on relationships yet, the answer may rest within us all to make the effort and decision they want a relationship with someone or not. professor
Jan 13, 2022 4:20 AM CST Only 18% Of American Households....Are Families With Married Parents
fantaziya
fantaziyafantaziyawindsor, Nova Scotia Canada4 Threads 873 Posts
LeeCharming: https://www.dailywire.com/news/only-18-of-american-households-are-families-with-married-parents
I have three children, two were born in Russia and one in Canada. So from an experience of 22 years living in Canada. I can point out only a couple of issues on a topic of this thread.

The marriage decreasing an amount of income ( the way taxes are calculated for married couples, common-law marriage or single parents)
The most government financial support and benefits goes to a single parents: housing, health, education etc. Do I have to say more?!
I even didn't mention the cost and headaches of divorces.
Me personally would gladly to marry someone I love ... but government does everything not to let it happen.
In my strong opinion children must grow in a real families ( not a common-law ones)
But here I hear a word Socialism somewhere in a distance.
Jan 13, 2022 5:02 AM CST Only 18% Of American Households....Are Families With Married Parents
It's surprising but not entirely upsetting nor sad.
A child needs love nourishment, encouragement, warmth understanding and hopefully a parent or parents who are emotionally stable to guide them through a safe and happy childhood.
Whatever form that takes is non of my business but if the child is neglected or interfered with in any way then that should be everyone's business, that's around the child.
In my day childhood lasted literally until you were 18....nowadays your lucky if you reach ten before its swiped and for some alot earlier.
Fri Jan 14, 2022 5:25 PM CST Only 18% Of American Households....Are Families With Married Parents
Mobility (moving around not upward mobility) has destroyed the expanded family. Grandpa an grandma kept the kids together for the grandkids. That pressure has been removed. They can't do it from half a country away.
Fri Jan 14, 2022 6:10 PM CST Only 18% Of American Households....Are Families With Married Parents
Orzzz: I feel sorry for kids today. In MY day..lol...a baby born out of wedlock was a bast***. The gal slunk off to visit her ailing aunt for..coincidence..8 months. She had to stay out of school. Or there were marriages and premie babies. Divorce was rare and frowned upon. I know an old couple where he did hanky panky. His wife divided the house in half and the son had to be the go between. She lived her life and he lived his. She had never worked so had to stay with him so he paid the bills. Never talked to him the rest of their lives.
Now marriage is obsolete. People change mates like under wear. Dont work at anything..spoiled their childhoods, can't get it your way...leave. Or have 3 kids and wait til old enough for the wedding party then marry. And divorce in under 5 years.
Poor kids get bounced around like ping pong balls. Step dads, moms,change houses, no roots..no wonder they are a mess. Black men think it is cool to have 4 or more baby moms. Just breed them, dont support them. Free sex these days is like shaking hands. Women want the Knight in shining armor and wont settle for one without the armor. And castle. And servants. They drank the liberated woman kool aid and then hit 35 and say what happened. We are the equal of the men!
Yep...alone.
So which part was the healthy role model for the child of the couple you knew who didn't divorce against all odds?
The bit where he did the "hanky panky"? The bit where she was forced to stay under the same roof because she had never worked? The bit where the child had to be the go between his 2 non communicating parents?
The bit where she never spoke to husband again for the rest of their lives? confused
Fri Jan 14, 2022 9:07 PM CST Only 18% Of American Households....Are Families With Married Parents
That's why I advice woman to marry me laugh
Sat Jan 15, 2022 6:20 PM CST Only 18% Of American Households....Are Families With Married Parents
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia97 Threads 18 Polls 9,097 Posts
And of that 18% a certain amount will be gay marriage. So, it's not looking good for the future.

teddybear
Sat Jan 15, 2022 10:13 PM CST Only 18% Of American Households....Are Families With Married Parents
Orzzz
OrzzzOrzzzPortage, Wisconsin USA100 Threads 8 Polls 806 Posts
In that particular case, the son did fine. Mom cooked for them, kept house, while dad ran the farm. So whether he was go between or not, they didn't fight in front of him. He did have stability. It depends on how parents stay together. Some fight insistently. Some keep it all under wraps but the tension is so much the kids suffer. Parents need to be a united front when dealing with kids.
My neighbors divorced. She has gone out of her way to put the kids against dad, made his life miserable and spoiled the kids because she was too self centered to care what they did.
I know elderly who live "in sin" because if they marry, their Social Security gets cut. So the government does play a role. Single parents get help. I grew up where there were farmers who were poor. The kids helped as soon as they could. Pa eked out a living and feed and clothed his kids. Government gave him diddly. And they made it with healthy, happy kids. Food might be basic but it was real food. Now food stamps and food pantries provide processed foods and junk. Give that mom a whole chicken and she is either to "busy" or lazy to cook it or has no idea what on earth to do with one.
Government hand outs is a major cause of obesity in America.
Sun Jan 16, 2022 8:21 AM CST Only 18% Of American Households....Are Families With Married Parents
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,907 Posts
Orzzz: I feel sorry for kids today. In MY day..lol...a baby born out of wedlock was a bast***. The gal slunk off to visit her ailing aunt for..coincidence..8 months. She had to stay out of school. Or there were marriages and premie babies. Divorce was rare and frowned upon. I know an old couple where he did hanky panky. His wife divided the house in half and the son had to be the go between. She lived her life and he lived his. She had never worked so had to stay with him so he paid the bills. Never talked to him the rest of their lives.
Now marriage is obsolete. People change mates like under wear. Dont work at anything..spoiled their childhoods, can't get it your way...leave. Or have 3 kids and wait til old enough for the wedding party then marry. And divorce in under 5 years.
Poor kids get bounced around like ping pong balls. Step dads, moms,change houses, no roots..no wonder they are a mess. Black men think it is cool to have 4 or more baby moms. Just breed them, dont support them. Free sex these days is like shaking hands. Women want the Knight in shining armor and wont settle for one without the armor. And castle. And servants. They drank the liberated woman kool aid and then hit 35 and say what happened. We are the equal of the men!
Yep...alone.
It was your generation who raised the children that went on to really destroy society, the planet and everything that was good about life in general...Child abuse was far far worse during your generations reign, as was blatent mysogyny, domestic abuse, rape, racism, treatment of blacks, minority groups, list goes on and on and on....so you're in no position to throw stones...
Sun Jan 16, 2022 11:00 AM CST Only 18% Of American Households....Are Families With Married Parents
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA27 Threads 3 Polls 7,827 Posts
LeeCharming: https://www.dailywire.com/news/only-18-of-american-households-are-families-with-married-parents
The daily wire is a conservative run media. I decided to check the United States census which did not coincide with the wire. With that being said other than the misinformation I found the article quite interesting and food for thought. I agree where it says people are waiting till later in life to marry and also where it talked about more people are choosing to live alone. Neither one are bad things in my opinion. I do know that people do not stay married like the did years ago. And I also cannot fault that. A woman no longer has to stay with a man that beats the tar out of her. She has choices. And I am sure a fair amount just want out once they see being married is not always fun laugh
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