Geno2809: In a way you did .. if she could get away from molesters she should be able to get away from traffickers ..
That still doesn't prove I think both are the same. The sameness was in her ability to get away from both...she chose to in one instance , she chose not to in the other. This is when she has admitted she wasn't confined to where she was.
Geno2809: Victim blaming is far from a new phrase, and based on what you have posted about her earlier years, then yes she is moreso a victim. It's not name calling.
Now, I like to take an overview of topics, but I’d like to know ( and I can “take it” if I need to improve— , but do you think I’M guilty of victim-blaming?
( I really don’t want to be or be seen that way..)
Thanks for your honesty…I’ve got something for you anytime you want to e-mail…btw…
rohaan: Now, I like to take an overview of topics, but I’d like to know ( and I can “take it” if I need to improve— , but do you think I’M guilty of victim-blaming?
( I really don’t want to be or be seen that way..)
Thanks for your honesty…I’ve got something for you anytime you want to e-mail…btw…
QueSera_Sera: Correction I am all for abusers of kids and underagers to get what's coming to them. My last post looked like I was for it...that was a mistake clearly
Geno2809: Victim blaming is far from a new phrase, and based on what you have posted about her earlier years, then yes she is moreso a victim. It's not name calling.
She's not a victim in the case she is bringing forward...her victimisation of her earlier years is not tied in with her supposed victim claiming in this present case...both are separate things.
It's accusing me of being something I am not...which in of itself is name calling...you are trying to attach me to a term that I have no wish to be attached to, because I'm not a victim blamer. I am reading the facts on this case and making a valid assumption of what I feel is what happened.
QueSera_Sera: She's not a victim in the case she is bringing forward...her victimisation of her earlier years is not tied in with her supposed victim claiming in this present case...both are separate things.
It's accusing me of being something I am not...which in of itself is name calling...you are trying to attach me to a term that I have no wish to be attached to, because I'm not a victim blamer. I am reading the facts on this case and making a valid assumption of what I feel is what happened.
you know what— I hear you. Life is complicated….not everything we hear or read is as it seems. And everyone deserves his or her side to be heard, even if everything is going against them. Read the poem “I Am Gossip”. It says volumes.
rohaan: you know what— I hear you. Life is complicated….not everything we hear or read is as it seems. And everyone deserves his or her side to be heard, even if everything is going against them. Read the poem “I Am Gossip”. It says volumes.
I'm done here anyhow I'm off to bed, so I will leave you to your man to flirt with
tomcatty: If the person in question is a terrorist, call him a black terrorist. Since when did we start making concessions to terrorists black or white??
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The sameness was in her ability to get away from both...she chose to in one instance , she chose not to in the other.
This is when she has admitted she wasn't confined to where she was.