How do you handle it? (118)
Deedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 PostsCirclip: I don't know that I like people to think I have an ugly face, which might partly explain my reluctance to put up my picture and confirm it.
No you don't 
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Grandsiozzie: just click my profile (no worries you will not be ambushed...lol)
and you'll see my T.M makeover
How do I look now Grand . I nicked it.and you'll see my T.M makeover
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Tiger_Moth: How do I look now Grand . I nicked it.
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Lovve it!
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Circlip: I understand that women get far more of these PMs than men do, so I can see how annoying it might become. And when the woman is as damned attractive as you, Dee, I imagine it is an absolute nightmare.
I can't fall in love with you Cir I'm taken but you sure do make it difficult 
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Deedee123x: I can't fall in love with you Cir I'm taken but you sure do make it difficult
Well at least put me on standby, Dee. 
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Circlip: Well at least put me on standby, Dee.
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Circlip: I think some people are reading more into this thread than was intended. This is my basic point:
If you register on a dating website, and somebody assumes you are there for the purpose of dating, even if your profile says you are not, then I think the responsibility for the mistake lies more with you than it does with them. That is why I say it makes me feel a little guilty when people make that mistake with me. It's not a big deal, the guilt isn't devastating or anything, I only experience a small amount.
To anybody who doesn't see it that way, I say fair enough, no problem, I am just saying how I feel about it.
That was a very well-thought-out way of clarifying. It does seem that I, and a handful of others, didn’t understand at first. Thanks for taking time to be more specific.If you register on a dating website, and somebody assumes you are there for the purpose of dating, even if your profile says you are not, then I think the responsibility for the mistake lies more with you than it does with them. That is why I say it makes me feel a little guilty when people make that mistake with me. It's not a big deal, the guilt isn't devastating or anything, I only experience a small amount.
To anybody who doesn't see it that way, I say fair enough, no problem, I am just saying how I feel about it.
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rohaan: That was a very well-thought-out way of clarifying. It does seem that I, and a handful of others, didn’t understand at first. Thanks for taking time to be more specific.
Thank you very much indeed for that, rohaan, it's so gratifying to be understood. 
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Lockdown2122: Sorry if I have taken you up the wrong way.
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Lockdown2122: what happened to make you like this now.you come across as very angry.Sorry if I have taken you up the wrong way.
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I have a question perhaps outside the original context of the topic but I would like to know how you manage it, especially in what sense you manage to give better efficiency with things like secretarial services, since in Singapore, I am seeing services like the one on this website here , which seems to me to be one of the best options to make a company more efficient.
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Circlip:
It makes me feel guilty, and I try to answer them as tactfully as I can. Even so, if after explaining my position I get a second PM, there tends to be an element of irritation in it, as if I have deliberately attempted some sort of deception. I don’t blame people for that; after all, it is a dating site, so it isn’t unreasonable to assume other members are here for that purpose. Anyway, I try to be as friendly as possible when answering those PMs, but I’m glad I don’t have to do it very often.
Welcome to my WorldIt makes me feel guilty, and I try to answer them as tactfully as I can. Even so, if after explaining my position I get a second PM, there tends to be an element of irritation in it, as if I have deliberately attempted some sort of deception. I don’t blame people for that; after all, it is a dating site, so it isn’t unreasonable to assume other members are here for that purpose. Anyway, I try to be as friendly as possible when answering those PMs, but I’m glad I don’t have to do it very often.
That's exactly how I feel. That's why I always answering mail but with a simple line Hello! I am here only for Forums and Blogs.And actually got quite a few responses thanking me for taking my time.
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diegoboneta: I have a question perhaps outside the original context of the topic but I would like to know how you manage it, especially in what sense you manage to give better efficiency with things like secretarial services, since in Singapore, I am seeing services like the one on this website here , which seems to me to be one of the best options to make a company more efficient.
Not quite sure just exactly what you’re asking- but here are some “efficiency” solutions: Have a copy of every key you own, and keep it as a set. Put it where you will NEVER forget (be creative..) Guys—keep a spare car key AND house key IN YOUR WALLET. (You always have your wallet on you…) At the gym— have a combination lock. If you’re not good at remembering #’s, have them hemmed small, on a patch, and firmly sewn on the inside of your sweat pants, sweat shirt/top, or swim trunks. OR, the inside of your cross-trainer shoe. Think creatively. Keep all the items in your home that you use most AT EYE LEVEL. This goes for dishes, grocery items, bathroom items…If you don’t have a garage or carport, get a cover for your car. They’re about a hundred dollars, and double the life/durability of your car. Buy second hand++it’s frequently BETTER. Don’t worry about what the other guy thinks-he’s NOT paying your way! Save money, live simply. Go out twice a week, not daily. Pubs are wonderful, but a bad money drain. BTW, I’m not talking out-of-school. All these efficiency hints are things I do, and it’s working.------ This thread is Archived ------
Here is how i handle it. Right hand keyboard, Left hand vaseline. As an alternative Left hand keyboard, Right hand vaseline. You can use these interchangably. You can also use these tried and true methods for imiganitive phone conversations. Yeah, i know this isn't funny. But then, try mixing the hands up. Like as in you gunk up your right hand, then get all excited and use your right fingers on keyboard. The vaseline erodes the characters on the keyboard. Then where will you be?
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No_Body: Here is how i handle it. Right hand keyboard, Left hand vaseline. As an alternative Left hand keyboard, Right hand vaseline. You can use these interchangably. You can also use these tried and true methods for imiganitive phone conversations. Yeah, i know this isn't funny. But then, try mixing the hands up. Like as in you gunk up your right hand, then get all excited and use your right fingers on keyboard. The vaseline erodes the characters on the keyboard. Then where will you be?
voice recognition keyboard
Then both hands are free…switch it up with vinyl gloves, maybe…get a Hiatsu mat- full length with warm vibration…be daring…(and you thought all I knew was “Hints From Heloise”)
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If I ever felt the need to want to meet someone, then it certainly wouldn't be anyone from an online dating site Been there, done that and got a million T Shirts Nah! it may work for some but I'd rather just meet someone in "real" life. Just my choice.........
Been there, done that and got a million T Shirts Nah! it may work for some but I'd rather just meet someone in "real" life. Just my choice.........------ This thread is Archived ------
Miss_Cellaneous: If I ever felt the need to want to meet someone, then it certainly wouldn't be anyone from an online dating site Been there, done that and got a million T Shirts Nah! it may work for some but I'd rather just meet someone in "real" life. Just my choice.........
You remind me of a chapter from a medieval play: ( goes something like this:)“Whence cometh thee, and to what purpose”?
“I am but a mendicant friar, here to rescue these nincompoops from their own folly”
Nite, darls…
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