I am recently divorced after being married for 23 years. Now that I am single again, I am new to the "dating worldZ". I need your opinion. Do you feel comfortable kissing your date the first time you go out with him? If you do, would you go all the way (to bed with him)?
Congrats on the new freedom. I usually kiss when it was a good date, and I rush away when it's a bad date. There have been a couple of shameful times that I did something naughty in the first date. I never went to bed with someone, but some things can be done without a bed. I learned that when that happens, the relationship that comes from that (if any) is very short lived.
If the date was a good one, then yes, he deserves a goodnight kiss. I've never went to bed with someone on the first date or any dates at all, unless I know both of us have strong mutual feelings for each other. Good luck in your search...
I prefer nookie to a kiss on the lips I like when the woman dances and strips It christens rapports like launching great ships It's almost as good as beer, pizza and chips
SirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK4,138 posts
If the first date was a good one and you think you may fancy them, well of course you can kiss. How else will you know if they are worth a second date! As to anything else, well it's down to the individual, but not usually condusive to a long term relationship if you do.
I mean "values", by not being too easy. Well, of course, I still have lots of teenage nieces and nephews, they still look up to me. I need to set a good example for them. VD, teenage pregnancies are very common. Gosh! what am I saying? I must be really tired!
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Do you feel comfortable kissing your date the first time you go out with him? If you do, would you go all the way (to bed with him)?