Gentleman ( Archived) (34)

Mar 18, 2022 12:17 PM CST Gentleman
A Gentlemen, means to me..is one who
have good manners and treats women
with respect
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Mar 18, 2022 12:48 PM CST Gentleman
Stan_147
Stan_147Stan_147Roseburg, Oregon USA1 Threads 1,018 Posts
Packersbabe1: A Gentlemen, means to me..is one who
have good manners and treats women
with respect
I would agree with this, but treats everyone with respect, AND the lost art of courtesy.
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Mar 18, 2022 1:02 PM CST Gentleman
Being a gentleman is not for me. It may had a role in 1937. Not now.
There are no ladies any longer either so it's cool.

For the record though: I believe in love and I'm pretty romantic too.
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Mar 18, 2022 1:33 PM CST Gentleman
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
emmy1: What does being a gentleman mean to you? I know what I think it means having been married to one for 25 years. But it appears to me that things have changed so I'd like someone to explain what it means now.
Things are so much different these days and the last generation or so.

There are so many meanings to being a gentleman.
Chivalry, opening doors, buying flowers, taking care of your partner when they are sick, leaving love notes, respecting your partner and supporting him/her to reach their goals, loyalty and so much more. I think it should work both ways. Treat each other the same way you would want to be treated.

kiss
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Mar 18, 2022 1:50 PM CST Gentleman
I will tell a short story here, short as I can make it.

I woman know now 57, mother of one who still live at home now 17,
dated a guy ca.2years ago, ended up selling her home and buy a house with him.
Now after two days... she packed her car, shuffed her daughter in and
just left. The guys proved to be an azzhole: broke her plants in two,
said she could stand for decoration but when she put one thing in one place she was told
harzly to move it to how he wanted it. Besides she could now just as well
sell her car she was told cos she was not going places any longer now,
she could be at home... why go out..

How was he earlier on is my question?
Was he a gentleman before who held doors open and drag the chair out too?
Must have been something that drew her to him initially.
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Mar 18, 2022 2:12 PM CST Gentleman
Thankyou for all your replies there is some hope left in this world.
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Mar 18, 2022 2:55 PM CST Gentleman
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
emmy1: Thankyou for all your replies there is some hope left in this world.
We have to think positive.
teddybear
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Mar 18, 2022 3:15 PM CST Gentleman
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Men will perform many romantic gestures to lure women into a false sense of security, but once the bullish is over , the true test of a gentleman would be to provide a secure environment for his woman , not just in a financial way but in a way that would make her feel safe in the relationship.
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Mar 18, 2022 3:53 PM CST Gentleman
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Youcannow: Men will perform many romantic gestures to lure women into a false sense of security, but once the bullish is over , the true test of a gentleman would be to provide a secure environment for his woman , not just in a financial way but in a way that would make her feel safe in the relationship.
Right... so if that's all there is to it and you know it... why are you single? confused
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Mar 18, 2022 3:57 PM CST Gentleman
Circlip
CirclipCirclipNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK22 Threads 826 Posts
Selenite: Right... so if that's all there is to it and you know it... why are you single?
That's just his theory, he didn't say he practiced it. smile
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Mar 18, 2022 4:01 PM CST Gentleman
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Circlip: That's just his theory, he didn't say he practiced it.
Ahhh right!! I forget!!! We're all so good at theory!!! But we're still all here on CS and most of us single laugh laugh laugh
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Mar 18, 2022 4:42 PM CST Gentleman
Selenite: Right... so if that's all there is to it and you know it... why are you single?
Well my guess is that his ex ran away with her former bf once that ex bf of hers finally got a divorce after a long unhappy relationship to a quite mean selfish no good wife. Him being now available she was tempted to reunite with him as he was her first love that she never really fully got over, so she ran out on youcannow. But again that is just my most qualified guess here on a Friday evening. drinking
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Mar 18, 2022 9:15 PM CST Gentleman
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,401 Posts
Youcannow: A real gentleman would make sure the women had footwear initially & not resort to the extreme of laying down his coat .
A real gentleman doesn't want our pretty shoes to get wrecked
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Mar 18, 2022 10:25 PM CST Gentleman
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
Mercedes_00: A real gentleman doesn't want our pretty shoes to get wrecked
laugh
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