IvoryguyCape Town, Western Cape South Africa139 posts
I was married for 15 years and looked after my kids for the next 12 years. When the kids flew the nest I discovered that I liked my space and felt claustrophobic with a 24/7 girlfriend. Since then I have met a few ladies who were already involved and needed a side partner in a sort of polyamory style which was ideal as she was with me for only a few days in the week. In that scenario I was content with the one gf and never strayed.
Ivoryguy: I was married for 15 years and looked after my kids for the next 12 years. When the kids flew the nest I discovered that I liked my space and felt claustrophobic with a 24/7 girlfriend. Since then I have met a few ladies who were already involved and needed a side partner in a sort of polyamory style which was ideal as she was with me for only a few days in the week. In that scenario I was content with the one gf and never strayed.
i agree with this reverse gender of course
I have been so long on my own i like it i like the freedom not 24-7 but a good friend male that is would be nice.
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Which was quickly followed by the usual invective toward me by Paddy, the self-appointed Garda of this site
Does one need to be in the Sausage Club to participate in your threads perhaps..
"Asking for a friend"'