Why do women destroy pictures after a separation? ( Archived) (13)

Mar 29, 2022 2:33 AM CST Why do women destroy pictures after a separation?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
It happened to me twice!
Our children now have nothing from past to see!
After that happened I hide copies.
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Mar 29, 2022 2:58 AM CST Why do women destroy pictures after a separation?
Circlip
CirclipCirclipNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK22 Threads 826 Posts
Jaavisst: It happened to me twice!
Our children now have nothing from past to see!
After that happened I hide copies.
If it happened to you twice, why don't you put the question to the people who made it happen? They are the only ones who know the answer. dunno
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Mar 29, 2022 3:01 AM CST Why do women destroy pictures after a separation?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
Circlip: If it happened to you twice, why don't you put the question to the people who made it happen? They are the only ones who know the answer.
They regret it now.
I just sent one old picture to ex wife. With her grandfather that now is dead.
That one would have been destroyed as well. But I managed to save it.

I think it's a way to erase a person from ones life at the spur of the moment of rejection.
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Mar 29, 2022 3:03 AM CST Why do women destroy pictures after a separation?
Tiger_Moth
Tiger_MothTiger_MothYeovil, Somerset, England UK23 Threads 2,833 Posts
Circlip: If it happened to you twice, why don't you put the question to the people who made it happen? They are the only ones who know the answer.
I feel sorry for the 3rd one to be honest ,never mind the photos from the past.

Guess you'd have to have been in a marriage with him to really know the answer.grin
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Mar 29, 2022 4:42 AM CST Why do women destroy pictures after a separation?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,955 Posts
Jaavisst: It happened to me twice!
Our children now have nothing from past to see!
After that happened I hide copies.
I didn't destroy any confused

What dastardly deeds did you do to have this happen uh oh
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Mar 29, 2022 5:38 AM CST Why do women destroy pictures after a separation?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
serene56: I didn't destroy any

What dastardly deeds did you do to have this happen
I just said I want to finish relationship. I never did anything bad. They did in my book.
My fault is that I end relationships after some years if things are not OK.
I even tried counselling, wich was good since the female in question finally understood that it was mostly her fault.
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Mar 29, 2022 5:43 AM CST Why do women destroy pictures after a separation?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
Jaavisst: I just said I want to finish relationship. I never did anything bad. They did in my book.
My fault is that I end relationships after some years if things are not OK.
I even tried counselling, wich was good since the female in question finally understood that it was mostly her fault.
She let you think it was mostly her fault so you would shut up
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Mar 29, 2022 7:41 AM CST Why do women destroy pictures after a separation?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
Jaavisst: It happened to me twice!
Our children now have nothing from past to see!
After that happened I hide copies.
I dont know
perhaps so that her next partner wouldn't ``accidently`` see all from her past
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Mar 29, 2022 10:46 AM CST Why do women destroy pictures after a separation?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
Mercedes_00: She let you think it was mostly her fault so you would shut up
No it was the counsellor that pointed out that it needs to be two that put some effort into the relationship.
She just focused on work and let me be the mother of our child.
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Mar 29, 2022 12:14 PM CST Why do women destroy pictures after a separation?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Jaavisst: It happened to me twice!
Our children now have nothing from past to see!
After that happened I hide copies.
I recently found a load of photos at my Mum's from when my children were small which neither their father nor I still had. Some were with his daughters from previous marriage, his parents, all of us together etc...

I sent copies to my grown kids who were delighted and they passed them on to their Dad who was also delighted. In fact it prompted him to write to me and share that he had been thinking about the good times we used to have as a family with my parents and how he was missing them. We've been divorced since 1991!! It was a lovely message to receive ...
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Mar 29, 2022 12:31 PM CST Why do women destroy pictures after a separation?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Well they take too many photos to start with. The truth is that they have to make space for their photographs of breakfast
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Apr 2, 2022 10:21 AM CST Why do women destroy pictures after a separation?
Caprikious
CaprikiousCaprikiousLexington, Kentucky USA8 Threads 2 Polls 111 Posts
They are not the only ones.
My father destroyed every scrap of me. Art, photos and all.
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Apr 2, 2022 11:27 AM CST Why do women destroy pictures after a separation?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
Bad father!
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