What turns you off ( Archived) (215)

Apr 14, 2022 9:51 AM CST What turns you off
Let's face it. When we're searching for the one, we have a preset expectations as to what makes a possible relationship work.

Let's start with what turns you off. Let's say you already met, you're advancing to the next level.

By this time you find some traits that either turns you on or off.

This thread is for the former.

Thanks for your participation. wave
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Apr 14, 2022 10:04 AM CST What turns you off
This one’s easy— petty, ego, condescending, sarcasm, interrupting,hostility, arrogance, to name a few.
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Apr 14, 2022 10:48 AM CST What turns you off
rohaan: This one’s easy— petty, ego, condescending, sarcasm, interrupting,hostility, arrogance, to name a few.
Rohaan, I believe those are serious ones and I join you on that.

Thanks for sharing wave
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Apr 14, 2022 3:10 PM CST What turns you off
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Women who are too into politics.
They tend to be very boring in all aspects of the relationship.
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Apr 14, 2022 3:12 PM CST What turns you off
Youcannow: Women who are too into politics.
They tend to be very boring in all aspects of the relationship.
All, oh my God, I was thinking I'd recognize that face. Hahaha, I know you don't get turned on by those kind of women.

You look good by the way. peace
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Apr 14, 2022 3:13 PM CST What turns you off
Youcannow: Women who are too into politics.
They tend to be very boring in all aspects of the relationship.
So you must have had a relationship with one to say that then.sad flower
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Apr 14, 2022 3:20 PM CST What turns you off
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
lindsyjones: So you must have had a relationship with one to say that then.
Not really . I tend to avoid them because they lack the true feminine qualities I like in a woman. .
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Apr 14, 2022 3:25 PM CST What turns you off
Youcannow: Not really . I tend to avoid them because they lack the true feminine qualities I like in a woman. .
Good luck then. Feminine is an expected turn on for most men I guess. So All, how have you been?
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Apr 14, 2022 5:40 PM CST What turns you off
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
I'm turned off by a man who's lazy about his personal hygiene/health and appearance (e.g. breath and teeth, body odor, nails and clothing, etc), a tendency to talk about himself but not showing much interest in getting to know about me, and who demonstrates a lack of chivalry.
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Apr 15, 2022 5:03 AM CST What turns you off
Didi7: I'm turned off by a man who's lazy about his personal hygiene/health and appearance (e.g. breath and teeth, body odor, nails and clothing, etc), a tendency to talk about himself but not showing much interest in getting to know about me, and who demonstrates a lack of chivalry.
The hygiene Didi is the same with me.

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Apr 15, 2022 8:10 AM CST What turns you off
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,125 Posts
Youcannow: Women who are too into politics.
They tend to be very boring in all aspects of the relationship.
*raises eyebrow at youncannow..*....

That says more about you than women who're into politics...conversing

I'm into politics and I can assure you I'm far from boring....very far...
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Apr 15, 2022 8:14 AM CST What turns you off
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,125 Posts
Youcannow: Not really . I tend to avoid them because they lack the true feminine qualities I like in a woman. .
True feminine qualities in your eyes being... stupid, doe eyed and ne'er a brain cell ever in her head I bet..

Dont worry though, no intelligent woman would waste her time with a man so dim witted as to think lack of intelligence is a femine quality...because the more feminine a woman is the smarter she needs to be,....
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Apr 15, 2022 8:17 AM CST What turns you off
blathin: *raises eyebrow at youncannow..*....

That says more about you than women who're into politics...

I'm into politics and I can assure you I'm far from boring....very far...
Tell him blathin. Hahaha he might change his mind about us.

Visit the blog section, blathin there's about 20 political posts right now.

wave bouquet haven't seen you before. wave
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Apr 15, 2022 8:31 AM CST What turns you off
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,125 Posts
lindsyjones: Tell him blathin. Hahaha he might change his mind about us.

Visit the blog section, blathin there's about 20 political posts right now.

haven't seen you before.
Ehh no thanks Lindsyjones, I think I'll let that sleeping dog lie and leave him to think whatever he likes..changing it could prove a mistake....laugh

No, I'm not new, I joined summer 2020 during lockdown... wine
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Apr 15, 2022 8:41 AM CST What turns you off
blathin: Ehh no thanks Lindsyjones, I think I'll let that sleeping dog lie and leave him to think whatever he likes..changing it could prove a mistake....

No, I'm not new, I joined summer 2020 during lockdown...
Nice to meet you. I just responded on your opinion that I have denied or abandoned my culture. Hahaha, just when I was in jail. That's why I've not encountered you before.

As for All, his eccentric alright. But that's who he is. St least I hope he knows what he really wants.wave
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Apr 15, 2022 9:12 AM CST What turns you off
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
lindsyjones: Let's face it. When we're searching for the one, we have a preset expectations as to what makes a possible relationship work.

Let's start with what turns you off. Let's say you already met, you're advancing to the next level.

By this time you find some traits that either turns you on or off.

This thread is for the former.

Thanks for your participation.
They talk too much like they were on the radio. It wasn't just first date nerves they're going to keep on talking when I mow the lawn, brush my teeth or eat a potato.
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Apr 15, 2022 10:46 AM CST What turns you off
ChesneyChrist: They talk too much like they were on the radio. It wasn't just first date nerves they're going to keep on talking when I mow the lawn, brush my teeth or eat a potato.
Obs hahaha you made me smile. wave
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Apr 15, 2022 10:58 AM CST What turns you off
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
A women who likes to talk about a Kardashians latest dress.
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Apr 15, 2022 11:18 AM CST What turns you off
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,125 Posts
lindsyjones: Nice to meet you. I just responded on your opinion that I have denied or abandoned my culture. Hahaha, just when I was in jail. That's why I've not encountered you before.


As for All, his eccentric alright. But that's who he is. St least I hope he knows what he really wants.
if by All, you mean youcannow, then I dunno...maybe he is maybe he isn't...who knows dunno...laugh
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Apr 15, 2022 11:28 AM CST What turns you off
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
blathin: True feminine qualities in your eyes being... stupid, doe eyed and ne'er a brain cell ever in her head I bet..

Dont worry though, no intelligent woman would waste her time with a man so dim witted as to think lack of intelligence is a femine quality...because the more feminine a woman is the smarter she needs to be,....
Well said...:)
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