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Apr 17, 2022 4:05 PM CST Guys, what does...
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,223 Posts
LeeCharming: i want life with a woman to be very pleasant...not full of conflict...not full of arguments...not competing fiercely about things...i want a woman..who wants to please me...make me feel good...make me feel happy...make me want to think about her and no other woman...this would require many qualities and women in past...sure did have those qualities
Women in the 50's had those "qualities" because they didn't have a choice. All through your post you say that YOU want a woman to please you, make you feel good and happy. Not once did you say that you want a relationship to be a union with her to make her glad that she chose you. Instead you say that you don't want an argument or difference of opinion coming from her because you want to say how it's going to be. That is someone who is what we call now a control freak.

There are women who can be what you want but it's all about compromise.

It's healthy to say what you want as you have done so that you don't get cornered into a relationship of continuous fighting. People don't change. Well maybe a little but in the bigger picture people do not change. Both need to accept each other for the good and bad. If love is in the picture it is easier for a give and take but the love needs to be equal and not one sided.
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Apr 17, 2022 4:17 PM CST Guys, what does...
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
secretagent09: Women in the 50's had those "qualities" because they didn't have a choice. All through your post you say that YOU want a woman to please you, make you feel good and happy. Not once did you say that you want a relationship to be a union with her to make her glad that she chose you. Instead you say that you don't want an argument or difference of opinion coming from her because you want to say how it's going to be. That is someone who is what we call now a control freak.

There are women who can be what you want but it's all about compromise.

It's healthy to say what you want as you have done so that you don't get cornered into a relationship of continuous fighting. People don't change. Well maybe a little but in the bigger picture people do not change. Both need to accept each other for the good and bad. If love is in the picture it is easier for a give and take but the love needs to be equal and not one sided.
the wonderful things she did for me...would show me...that she chose me and would do all it takes to keep me...you are planting words...that i never saidwow i don't want arguments and negativity...if it's in her nature to argue...then she would not be for me...spending time with a woman...has to be worthwhile for me and something to look forward too
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Apr 17, 2022 5:44 PM CST Guys, what does...
Thedutchchief
ThedutchchiefThedutchchiefRotterdam, South Holland Netherlands1 Threads 161 Posts
You are absoluutly right.
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Apr 17, 2022 5:45 PM CST Guys, what does...
Thedutchchief
ThedutchchiefThedutchchiefRotterdam, South Holland Netherlands1 Threads 161 Posts
Ten_of_cupss head banger
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Apr 18, 2022 1:42 AM CST Guys, what does...
Name_Taken_Two
Name_Taken_TwoName_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland75 Threads 2,322 Posts
LmiDkC: A bush with a ribbon?
Yeah, I don't mind beating about the proverbial, as long as it doesn't stink of crustiness..grin
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