Intelligent people and relationships. ( Archived) (36)

Apr 19, 2022 1:44 AM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
I had a conversation with my daughter who is single.
She said it's so hard to find someone to have a meaningful relationship with.
I quote her " Nice guys are dumb and you can't have a discussion with them because they only say yes dear you are right"
"Most likely an intelligent man you will not agree with and arguments brake out"
"And if you agree on everything it becomes boring"
"I might as well live by my self"
Well if you are around 30, are smart, calm and like a obstinate child and dogs and want to move to Sweden I can hook you up.

Then I started thinking.
Most people on the forums or blogs are intelligent(there are exceptions) and probably that is one of the reasons we are single! We just can't find a partner that suits us.

Intelligent women have less children in average.
Dumb women have more!
If we combine that fact with vegetarianism then in 20 generations we will become a lot dumber as a species.
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Apr 19, 2022 9:12 AM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
Hahaha Jaavisst, I can't believe I'm reading this. Your sense of humor is, to say the least, very entertaining.

Tell your daughter, maybe she's looking in the wrong place.

I will suggest a place. On one of my travels, I was on the plane from Sydney to SanFrancisco (mostly United Air, because of my frequent miles credit), I read in the Skyline magazine about this exclusive dating site. Exclusive in a way where you're not only paying big bucks but you must pass the great investigation and scrutiny to be qualified for membership. Boy oh boy what a story, those feedbacks from successful hook ups.

No I wasn't interested in becoming a member. But the success ratio is amazingly high. The company organize the whole thing, on the first date they're there to even monitor and observe the development of the meeting.

I guess she just have to be on those dating site and they guarantee you'll find whom you're looking for.cheers
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Apr 19, 2022 12:05 PM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
lindsyjones: Hahaha Jaavisst, I can't believe I'm reading this. Your sense of humor is, to say the least, very entertaining.

Tell your daughter, maybe she's looking in the wrong place.

I will suggest a place. On one of my travels, I was on the plane from Sydney to SanFrancisco (mostly United Air, because of my frequent miles credit), I read in the Skyline magazine about this exclusive dating site. Exclusive in a way where you're not only paying big bucks but you must pass the great investigation and scrutiny to be qualified for membership. Boy oh boy what a story, those feedbacks from successful hook ups.

No I wasn't interested in becoming a member. But the success ratio is amazingly high. The company organize the whole thing, on the first date they're there to even monitor and observe the development of the meeting.

I guess she just have to be on those dating site and they guarantee you'll find whom you're looking for.
I heard about it.
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Apr 19, 2022 1:10 PM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
Jaavisst: I heard about it.
She's bound to find one cheers
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Apr 20, 2022 3:43 PM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
LmiDkC
LmiDkCLmiDkCGlew, Buenos Aires Argentina4 Threads 1 Polls 63 Posts
Perhaps the answer lies within the reason why she has failed on past relationships.

There might be an issue there.

You mention she has a child already?

If so then her value in the dating market drops.

She could be just too picky and needs to lower her standards.

How old is she?
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Apr 20, 2022 10:39 PM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
Jaavisst: Yes I can, and because I am saying what I think and don't care what people think I am pathetic. It's a free internet so you can call me what ever wich way, I would say that's what internet dating is for, to weed out prospects.
Good one Jaavisst. It's free, and whatever makes you feel good, as long as it doesn't hurt others why not. At least she's reading your posts hahaha. That's a plus right?
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Apr 21, 2022 2:01 AM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
My weekday ESL student today chanced to tell me a question her lecturer had asked - 'What is the best advice anyone ever gave you?' We struggled through a little present-perfect grammar whilst I took a moment to reflect - then I told her 'Never get married!' and she laughed 'But you've been married 3 times already'. Well good advice doesn't guarantee one learns the lesson. She said her Russian-speaking husband would appreciate that advice too.
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Apr 21, 2022 4:10 AM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,125 Posts
LmiDkC: Perhaps the answer lies within the reason why she has failed on past relationships.

There might be an issue there.

You mention she has a child already?

If so then her value in the dating market drops.

She could be just too picky and needs to lower her standards.

How old is she?
This kind of backward thinking is why women will always be struggling to be considered the equal of men..... roll eyes
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Apr 21, 2022 4:13 AM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
blathin: This kind of backward thinking is why women will always be struggling to be considered the equal of men.....
Why do you want to be equal to men ?
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Apr 21, 2022 4:17 AM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,125 Posts
Youcannow: Why do you want to be equal to men ?
roll eyes yawn
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Apr 21, 2022 4:18 AM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Lost for words ?
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Apr 21, 2022 4:35 AM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,125 Posts
Youcannow: Lost for words ?
you seem to have some pretty big issues with women...if not,then you're just baiting...

either way, you're making yourself look either one very unpleasant man or a fool....you choose..
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Apr 21, 2022 4:46 AM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
blathin: you seem to have some pretty big issues with women...if not,then you're just baiting...

either way, you're making yourself look either one very unpleasant man or a fool....you choose..
On the contrary.
I was giving you a backhanded compliment.
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Apr 21, 2022 8:40 AM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
Backhanded? Can you differentiate that from a slap on the face? Be careful where the back of your hand lands. Amusing to you?
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Apr 21, 2022 8:57 AM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Jaavisst: I had a conversation with my daughter who is single.
She said it's so hard to find someone to have a meaningful relationship with.
I quote her " Nice guys are dumb and you can't have a discussion with them because they only say yes dear you are right"
"Most likely an intelligent man you will not agree with and arguments brake out"
"And if you agree on everything it becomes boring"
"I might as well live by my self"
Well if you are around 30, are smart, calm and like a obstinate child and dogs and want to move to Sweden I can hook you up.

Then I started thinking.
Most people on the forums or blogs are intelligent(there are exceptions) and probably that is one of the reasons we are single! We just can't find a partner that suits us.

Intelligent women have less children in average.
Dumb women have more!
If we combine that fact with vegetarianism then in 20 generations we will become a lot dumber as a species.
A part of this intelligence is not having so many brothers and sisters or if you do come from a large family then you have your own mentor. It's the ratio of children to proper grown up. The time with elders who are as attentive as they are wise.

But if you're having enough kids to make a football team don't be surprised when they turn out to have a low IQ. Not that there's anything wrong with being good at sports.
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Apr 21, 2022 9:11 AM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
I'm surprised no one picked up on the vegetarian bit yet. I guess we don't have any on CS?
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Apr 21, 2022 9:34 AM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
ChesneyChrist: A part of this intelligence is not having so many brothers and sisters or if you do come from a large family then you have your own mentor. It's the ratio of children to proper grown up. The time with elders who are as attentive as they are wise.

But if you're having enough kids to make a football team don't be surprised when they turn out to have a low IQ. Not that there's anything wrong with being good at sports.
And the reason we've started to become less intelligent was the state's willingness to provide for a large family but also the way that's it's now very easy to actually be too clever for your own good. The most creative and curious intellects will be first and foremost in the firing line of a state attempting to make a safe average that's treble the way women are both less intelligent and less stupid much more likely to have an iq bang on 100.
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Apr 21, 2022 10:14 AM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
And killing the poor isn't the answer because intelligent soldiers are the first to die now that warfare is quite technical. Cowards survive wars but in the modern world so do the stupid. After world wars you'll have a rule by spineless idiots that will eventually reverse the Flynn effect.
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Apr 21, 2022 11:06 AM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,125 Posts
Youcannow: On the contrary.
I was giving you a backhanded compliment.
oops...laugh
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Apr 21, 2022 11:10 AM CST Intelligent people and relationships.
Ten_of_cupss
Ten_of_cupssTen_of_cupssShumen, Bulgaria2 Threads 1,375 Posts
Jaavisst: I had a conversation with my daughter who is single.
She said it's so hard to find someone to have a meaningful relationship with.
I quote her " Nice guys are dumb and you can't have a discussion with them because they only say yes dear you are right"
"Most likely an intelligent man you will not agree with and arguments brake out"
"And if you agree on everything it becomes boring"
"I might as well live by my self"
Well if you are around 30, are smart, calm and like a obstinate child and dogs and want to move to Sweden I can hook you up.

Then I started thinking.
Most people on the forums or blogs are intelligent(there are exceptions) and probably that is one of the reasons we are single! We just can't find a partner that suits us.

Intelligent women have less children in average.
Dumb women have more!
If we combine that fact with vegetarianism then in 20 generations we will become a lot dumber as a species.
Being intelligent doesn't make it easier to get in to a relationship.
And not because you are picky but because your standards are higher (there are exceptions)...
And having standards is essential if you don't want to end up in a mess...
If one feels good about themselves and have a lifestyle that they can afford it becomes harder to accept anyone who will be overwhelmed by having to keep up with them...
The less intelligent woman with more kids often is more dedicated to her partner in a charming but unhealthy way...
But then again she isn't attracted to intelligence...
And vice versa, a dumb man will feel better next to a dumb woman.
An intelligent person is more likely to be happy on their own...and that's the game changer...
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