Intelligent people and relationships. (36)
LmiDkC: Perhaps the answer lies within the reason why she has failed on past relationships.
There might be an issue there.
You mention she has a child already?
If so then her value in the dating market drops.
She could be just too picky and needs to lower her standards.
How old is she?
It is not going to work. Those standards can be kept low, I would say for two years. But .... We cannot fool Nature and genetic.There might be an issue there.
You mention she has a child already?
If so then her value in the dating market drops.
She could be just too picky and needs to lower her standards.
How old is she?
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fantaziya: It is not going to work. Those standards can be kept low, I would say for two years. But .... We cannot fool Nature and genetic.
I have read some funny profiles on dating sites that are waaay too picky. They expect miss or mister perfect and that is why they will be single forever.Humans have flaws and are not Ken or Barbie.
People need to be more realistic about their expections
Some have the bar set too high.
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Ten_of_cupss: Being intelligent doesn't make it easier to get in to a relationship.
And not because you are picky but because your standards are higher (there are exceptions)...
And having standards is essential if you don't want to end up in a mess...
If one feels good about themselves and have a lifestyle that they can afford it becomes harder to accept anyone who will be overwhelmed by having to keep up with them...
The less intelligent woman with more kids often is more dedicated to her partner in a charming but unhealthy way...
But then again she isn't attracted to intelligence...
And vice versa, a dumb man will feel better next to a dumb woman.
An intelligent person is more likely to be happy on their own...and that's the game changer...
It's a sad thought. And we need more intelligent people not less.And not because you are picky but because your standards are higher (there are exceptions)...
And having standards is essential if you don't want to end up in a mess...
If one feels good about themselves and have a lifestyle that they can afford it becomes harder to accept anyone who will be overwhelmed by having to keep up with them...
The less intelligent woman with more kids often is more dedicated to her partner in a charming but unhealthy way...
But then again she isn't attracted to intelligence...
And vice versa, a dumb man will feel better next to a dumb woman.
An intelligent person is more likely to be happy on their own...and that's the game changer...
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LmiDkC: An accident?
Sounds quite rude and mean to say it was an accident.
Well it was not supposed to happen. And now she is a single mother because she choose not to abort.Sounds quite rude and mean to say it was an accident.
My mother just had turned 17 when she had me. And I guess that I should be thankful for that but. Children should be wanted. But even that is not a warranty for a happy marriage.
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LmiDkC: I have read some funny profiles on dating sites that are waaay too picky. They expect miss or mister perfect and that is why they will be single forever.
Humans have flaws and are not Ken or Barbie.
People need to be more realistic about their expections
Some have the bar set too high.
I know what you mean. I read those as well.Humans have flaws and are not Ken or Barbie.
People need to be more realistic about their expections
Some have the bar set too high.
In my opinion (according to my age and what I've seen in life) people can wish for what they would like to have, in relationships but in the end of a day they will stay living with someone who drives them crazy or to live on their own because they want to be happy without nerve breakdowns. Karma!
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The lower the intelligence is , the less argumentative they are , plus the dumber ones are a lot more attractive.
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Youcannow: The lower the intelligence is , the less argumentative they are , plus the dumber ones are a lot more attractive.
Where on earth do you manage to get such nonsensical notions from....
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Youcannow: The lower the intelligence is , the less argumentative they are , plus the dumber ones are a lot more attractive.
Interesting conclusion. 
Could YOU, please elaborate on what is intelligence and how it is affecting abilities( degree) to argue?
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fantaziya: Interesting conclusion.
Could YOU, please elaborate on what is intelligence and how it is affecting abilities( degree) to argue?
I don’t have any scientific explanation. Could YOU, please elaborate on what is intelligence and how it is affecting abilities( degree) to argue?
It’s just something I’ve picked up from experience.
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blathin: Where on earth do you manage to get such nonsensical notions from....
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Youcannow: I don’t have any scientific explanation.
It’s just something I’ve picked up from experience.
Then I trust you. We meet different people on our way of life. Different cultures, different countries. Different experienceIt’s just something I’ve picked up from experience.
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fantaziya: Then I trust you. We meet different people on our way of life. Different cultures, different countries. Different experience
Of course . The whole point of a relationship is to have peace of mind .
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Youcannow: Of course .
The whole point of a relationship is to have peace of mind .
The whole point of a relationship is to have peace of mind .
To wake up with a smile on a face and looking forward to a new day. New thing to do, and to finish old ones
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fantaziya: To wake up with a smile on a face and looking forward to a new day. New thing to do, and to finish old ones
There are people who will argue over anything & everything . It’s evident on here , especially by people who don’t have a visible photo . 
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I don't see why would anyone lower their standards?!
To match someone else's low standards?
This is the most ridiculous recipe for relationship but the best for a disaster...
Having expectations and having standards are two different things.
And when you see the relationship as a need you sure are in a lower position already.
To match someone else's low standards?
This is the most ridiculous recipe for relationship but the best for a disaster...
Having expectations and having standards are two different things.
And when you see the relationship as a need you sure are in a lower position already.
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But if you're having enough kids to make a football team don't be surprised when they turn out to have a low IQ. Not that there's anything wrong with being good at sports.
Intellect doesn't discrminate and I know enough absolutley huge families to know you're statement is utterly wrong...they're all very smart etc ec...