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May 1, 2022 1:01 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
BB_snickers: It's awesome that you see it lindsy!

Thank you, and
Thank god/source.
I will let that love grow and over ridego BB. I need prayers and hope the good spirit wins. angel
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May 1, 2022 1:02 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
lindsyjones: I will let that love grow and over ride ego BB. I need prayers and hope the good spirit wins.
angel

Corrected version.
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May 1, 2022 1:04 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
Youcannow: Exactly. Nothing is black & white where love is concerned & every experience is different.
I am afraid we don't match the expectations of this forum...laugh
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May 1, 2022 1:06 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
lindsyjones: I will let that love grow and over ridego BB. I need prayers and hope the good spirit wins.
I think this is probably a better practice than "waiting on the world to change" yanno. wink


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May 1, 2022 1:10 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
BB_snickers: I think this is probably a better practice than "waiting on the world to change" yanno.
Thanks BB. I will go get me a bite.wave
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May 1, 2022 1:11 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Ten_of_cupss: I am afraid we don't match the expectations of this forum...
I suppose some people get to a certain age where they can only talk about certain topics .
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May 1, 2022 1:21 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
Youcannow: I suppose some people get to a certain age where they can only talk about certain topics .
I am very well aware of what the different studies says about the topic and yet I can have my own vision and experience of it...
Isn't it the spice and beauty of life...
You can't find your own path while walking in someone else's steps...
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May 1, 2022 1:28 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
Love is incapable of asking for anything?

That makes no sense dunno

If I was in love right now id ask them to carry me to bed I'm falling asleep watching the snooker laugh
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May 1, 2022 2:30 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
BB_snickers: I think this is probably a better practice than "waiting on the world to change" yanno.
Thanks BB, I also love his song Gravity and I'm gonna find another you.
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May 1, 2022 3:35 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
irish78eyes: Love is incapable of asking for anything?
That makes no sense
If I was in love right now id ask them to carry me to bed I'm falling asleep watching the snooker
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May 1, 2022 3:37 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
secretagent09: GW, I appreciate your reply however I do not agree that love is a giving and taking relationship. I will be 80 years old in 19 days and I do know what love is when I give it to someone. I recognize how it makes me feel. I also know how to recognize real love if someone wants to give it to me.

I loved someone who did not love me the way I loved him. Still, I was happy to be in his life and so I continued to love him. He didn't give me romantic love to "take" but he gave me time and friendship and that was enough for me.


Secret, that's a very beautiful story.
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May 1, 2022 3:42 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,223 Posts
lindsyjones: secretagent09: GW, I appreciate your reply however I do not agree that love is a giving and taking relationship. I will be 80 years old in 19 days and I do know what love is when I give it to someone. I recognize how it makes me feel. I also know how to recognize real love if someone wants to give it to me.

I loved someone who did not love me the way I loved him. Still, I was happy to be in his life and so I continued to love him. He didn't give me romantic love to "take" but he gave me time and friendship and that was enough for me.


Secret, that's a very beautiful story.
He said he loved me "in his own way". It was enough.
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May 1, 2022 3:49 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
irish78eyes: Love is incapable of asking for anything?

That makes no sense

If I was in love right now id ask them to carry me to bed I'm falling asleep watching the snooker
irish78eyes: Love is incapable of asking for anything?

That makes no sense

If I was in love right now id ask them to carry me to bed I'm falling asleep watching the snooker
. Snooker is finished for tonight. Is the offer still there.....dunno rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing a
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May 2, 2022 2:03 AM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
truheart1941: . Snooker is finished for tonight. Is the offer still there..... a
Damrolling on the floor laughing
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May 7, 2022 10:08 AM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
secretagent09: He said he loved me "in his own way". It was enough.
That's what love is Secret. I realize as I am getting old that love changes so much in our perception. There's so many kinds of love. But the one that matters forever is the love that comes from within ourselves. How we let that love shine around us. That to me is what I call love as it should be. I love without expecting to be loved. Having said that, love is most pure when it's given without us asking or expecting. teddybear
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May 24, 2022 9:13 AM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
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May 24, 2022 12:08 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
I'm at the last stage of my life here. I wish I can say that it was all good and nothing would have I done any differently if I'd had to live again. The truth is that's not exactly where I am at the moment. There's so many things I'd have to change if I can, should I be given another chance. Not that it'd give me a better choice or direction, perhaps not, just that I wasn't so sure I did the best of what I should have done. As a person, as a daughter, as a mother, as a wife and even as a friend. Having said that, I am not in a position to regret. It's my life and we do weave our own web. No one else. I know I've always been a good person but not as good as I'd have possibly done. But we call it c'est la vie, and everyday when I wake up, rain or shine, I'm me. I'm doing all I can to enjoy life and be a good person for me, for those around me and the whole world for that matter.
Love is all there is. Without which life is meaningless.

Thanks BB. wave
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May 24, 2022 12:48 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
lindsyjones: I'm at the last stage of my life here. I wish I can say that it was all good and nothing would have I done any differently if I'd had to live again. The truth is that's not exactly where I am at the moment. There's so many things I'd have to change if I can, should I be given another chance. Not that it'd give me a better choice or direction, perhaps not, just that I wasn't so sure I did the best of what I should have done. As a person, as a daughter, as a mother, as a wife and even as a friend. Having said that, I am not in a position to regret. It's my life and we do weave our own web. No one else. I know I've always been a good person but not as good as I'd have possibly done. But we call it c'est la vie, and everyday when I wake up, rain or shine, I'm me. I'm doing all I can to enjoy life and be a good person for me, for those around me and the whole world for that matter.
Love is all there is. Without which life is meaningless.

Thanks BB.
Of course you know that we walk our own path, sometimes alone, sometimes together and sometimes over and over again and again, yet wherever we are now, we are exactly where we are supposed to be. If one is angry about that, or regretful, it is because they're are lost, looking for the love, that is you, outside of you. Well, no, it is not there .... Have your anger, have your regret, blame the world outside; but always return inside, to the love and light that you are, we are. heart1

There's nothing regrettable in life if you ask me. Though I'd admit I had this propensity for looking at my life more like a victim earlier on. Taught by a systemic social need for ego like the lot of us. That wasn't wrong, but more of a spiritual plan for me I guess; because it soon showed me the other side of the coin, responsibility, willingness, accountability, love, among other things. The thing for me now is about polishing up my soul, my spirit; because it's not without spirit that I went through the life that I have, thankfully. Actually to be in context, spirit is what I am, we are.

You can always perceive love because it abides joyously asking for nothing. I've seen it in a number of people or their actions in my life over the years, and though I could feel the joy and pure love emanating from them, I never quite understood what it was. It was god/spirit showing love in my reflection. Life is pretty awesome when that's what you're looking at/for or even better, being.

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May 24, 2022 1:26 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
BB_snickers: Of course you know that we walk our own path, sometimes alone, sometimes together and sometimes over and over again and again, yet wherever we are now, we are exactly where we are supposed to be. If one is angry about that, or regretful, it is because they're are lost, looking for the love, that is you, outside of you. Well, no, it is not there .... Have your anger, have your regret, blame the world outside; but always return inside, to the love and light that you are, we are.

There's nothing regrettable in life if you ask me. Though I'd admit I had this propensity for looking at my life more like a victim earlier on. Taught by a systemic social need for ego like the lot of us. That wasn't wrong, but more of a spiritual plan for me I guess; because it soon showed me the other side of the coin, responsibility, willingness, accountability, love, among other things. The thing for me now is about polishing up my soul, my spirit; because it's not without spirit that I went through the life that I have, thankfully. Actually to be in context, spirit is what I am, we are.

You can always perceive love because it abides joyously asking for nothing. I've seen it in a number of people or their actions in my life over the years, and though I could feel the joy and pure love emanating from them, I never quite understood what it was. It was god/spirit showing love in my reflection. Life is pretty awesome when that's what you're looking at/for or even better, being.
Absolutely BB. Reading this kind of writing or thread or blog reminds us, there's truly nothing we need that we'd haven't had already.
I'm always grateful and thankful to Him that makes me humble of believing. While I had nothing to do with being here, I've learned through all my past experiences with all the different stages and segments of my life that who I am now, who I was and who I will ever be, is exactly how it should be. Love is the bonus. The glue that bind us all.

I'm grateful. cheers
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May 24, 2022 3:13 PM CST ~Love is Incapable of Asking For Anything~
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
lindsyjones: Absolutely BB. Reading this kind of writing or thread or blog reminds us, there's truly nothing we need that we'd haven't had already.
I'm always grateful and thankful to Him that makes me humble of believing. While I had nothing to do with being here, I've learned through all my past experiences with all the different stages and segments of my life that who I am now, who I was and who I will ever be, is exactly how it should be. Love is the bonus. The glue that bind us all.

I'm grateful.
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