Female-led relationships: where are they? (11)

May 12, 2022 3:45 PM CST Female-led relationships: where are they?
Fiosrachonline today!
Fiosrachonline today!FiosrachAn Charraig Dhubh, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 2 Posts
I'm not into the BDSM scene, dominatrices or anything like that. Any club scene is alien to me, and always has been.

However, I do like having a very close, loving, completely loyal relationship with a woman who makes most of the decisions in our relationship - providing that the respect for me of love, loyalty and intimacy remains at the centre of the relationship. Do such women exist, and if they do, where can an ordinary man meet them and how can they know?

To reiterate: I'm not talking about any sort of stereotype dominatrix, or indeed about a woman who takes my predilection as weakness and treats me with disrespect but rather somebody who "gets" this aspect and embraces it in all its honesty and sincerity.
May 12, 2022 4:16 PM CST Female-led relationships: where are they?
You mean a woman who wears the pants?, and you're living in Ireland?
May 12, 2022 4:44 PM CST Female-led relationships: where are they?
I don't really get either what you want here. Wanna be married to your mother?
However you're welcome to try Norway, but will you do half the work at home
and do half of the work related to bringing up children? Driving the children around,
help make their lunchboxes, help with homework etc?

I had a Spanish friend from Mallorca, he could only do one year with his Norw gf.
He felt she was too equal/dominent.
Still you need to pitch in on everyday chores in and carry your load.
Else you're out as fast as you came in.
May 13, 2022 6:21 AM CST Female-led relationships: where are they?
ChesneyChristonline today!
ChesneyChristonline today!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK10,988 Posts
Fiosrach: I'm not into the BDSM scene, dominatrices or anything like that. Any club scene is alien to me, and always has been.

However, I do like having a very close, loving, completely loyal relationship with a woman who makes most of the decisions in our relationship - providing that the respect for me of love, loyalty and intimacy remains at the centre of the relationship. Do such women exist, and if they do, where can an ordinary man meet them and how can they know?

To reiterate: I'm not talking about any sort of stereotype dominatrix, or indeed about a woman who takes my predilection as weakness and treats me with disrespect but rather somebody who "gets" this aspect and embraces it in all its honesty and sincerity.
I'm sure they "get" it because you're too alike. I reckon you'd have to reduce your femininity down to a side rather than the whole of your character and the whole of your desire. Or at least move to another place where you're relatively rare. What about the middle east? A context where the fact you won't rape her has real value. You'd be like Sir Lancelot in the dark ages. The last thing you want is to live in a safespace where women dance around the rapey men.
May 13, 2022 6:51 AM CST Female-led relationships: where are they?
ChesneyChristonline today!
ChesneyChristonline today!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK10,988 Posts
ChesneyChrist: I'm sure they "get" it because you're too alike. I reckon you'd have to reduce your femininity down to a side rather than the whole of your character and the whole of your desire. Or at least move to another place where you're relatively rare. What about the middle east? A context where the fact you won't rape her has real value. You'd be like Sir Lancelot in the dark ages. The last thing you want is to live in a safespace where women dance around the rapey men.
Reduce your femininity down to a side or move to another place, another place like the middle east, where being sensitive to women is completely and entirely justified. A place where your obedience to women makes you stand out from the majority of men.
May 13, 2022 9:55 AM CST Female-led relationships: where are they?
ChesneyChristonline today!
ChesneyChristonline today!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK10,988 Posts
Go to a place that is rough n ready rather than dangerously bored. Someone who has a hard life but doesn't want one anymore not the desperate housewife that seemingly wants a hard life, someone their parents would hate in order to penetrate its ever-thickening shield of numbness.
May 13, 2022 10:13 AM CST Female-led relationships: where are they?
ChesneyChristonline today!
ChesneyChristonline today!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK10,988 Posts
ChesneyChrist: Go to a place that is rough n ready rather than dangerously bored. Someone who has a hard life but doesn't want one anymore not the desperate housewife that seemingly wants a hard life, someone their parents would hate in order to penetrate its ever-thickening shield of numbness.
Take a look at all those posh girls who love a bit of rough and try to get as far away from them as possible.

Working class come good, the old diamond in the rough is the one less into Charles Manson.
May 13, 2022 1:29 PM CST Female-led relationships: where are they?
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA2 Threads 11,032 Posts
Why you want a female, to make most of
the decisions? Probably the reason you’re still
searching, you should have some say also
it should be equally, and not you want her to make
most of the decisions, that’s a turn-off for most women
May 13, 2022 1:34 PM CST Female-led relationships: where are they?
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA2 Threads 11,032 Posts
Fiosrach: I'm not into the BDSM scene, dominatrices or anything like that. Any club scene is alien to me, and always has been.

However, I do like having a very close, loving, completely loyal relationship with a woman who makes most of the decisions in our relationship - providing that the respect for me of love, loyalty and intimacy remains at the centre of the relationship. Do such women exist, and if they do, where can an ordinary man meet them and how can they know?

To reiterate: I'm not talking about any sort of stereotype dominatrix, or indeed about a woman who takes my predilection as weakness and treats me with disrespect but rather somebody who "gets" this aspect and embraces it in all its honesty and sincerity.


Well if she do decides she wants to go to
the club, just remember you won’t be able to
say nothing cause you like women to
take the lead, and make most decisions
May 13, 2022 1:57 PM CST Female-led relationships: where are they?
Exa Packers. Don't think this one is thoroughly thought through.
May 22, 2022 3:44 PM CST Female-led relationships: where are they?
Ye of course they do exist, & at times they like to be called Mistress & they like to call you their sissy boy,or boy toy, you are into the BDSM scene but just don"t know it but with a little training to open you up you will be a great submissive for your Mistresssbanana head banger applause
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