pedro27: Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves. ” I read years ago that the thing we hate most about another person's behaviour is something that we have in ourselves but are not aware of it. So if you find yourself feeling intense dislike at something someone's is saying or doing stop and think ......do I do that ? It can be revealing and lead us to become a better person.
Can anybody give me an example of something somebody did that irritated you, but was a reflection of yourself, please.
Let me try and think of a few irritaitions I have, of top of my head (to see if it apply). 1) today some azzwipe threw a used papercup out the window of his car. I suppose the coffy was just finsihed... I'd never do that, I'd be too ashamed to litter that clearly. 2) when mf's hate the last prez cos of his personality and not his policies, well that irritates the shize out of me... so ... do I also hate some leftie politicians only basad on their style... I don't think so. 3) I get irritated when folks are to shallow, have shallow values like money, status or become health freaks. Is it cos I train to much myself, or regard status/ wealth important? Nope.
Grandsiozzie: Can anybody give me an example of something somebody did that irritated you, but was a reflection of yourself, please.
Let me try and think of a few irritaitions I have, of top of my head (to see if it apply). 1) today some azzwipe threw a used papercup out the window of his car. I suppose the coffy was just finsihed... I'd never do that, I'd be too ashamed to litter that clearly. 2) when mf's hate the last prez cos of his personality and not his policies, well that irritates the shize out of me... so ... do I also hate some leftie politicians only basad on their style... I don't think so. 3) I get irritated when folks are to shallow, have shallow values like money, status or become health freaks. Is it cos I train to much myself, or regard status/ wealth important? Nope.
So, am I missing the point here?
Yes, I too gets irritated by irresponsible people who liter and don't appreciate what a beautiful world we have.
lindsyjones: Yes, I too gets irritated by irresponsible people who liter and don't appreciate what a beautiful world we have.
I have to admit while I was on his trail That I was thinking, man If I was a big beef now I'd like to drag the guy out and make him walk back and pick it up...lol.
But then in the next moment another guy came passing by in an exact same car as mine ( a small mitsubishi colt) and hunked and waved friendly + tumps up, and I actually thought for a second God sent him in the right moment to tell me I don't have to carry the wight of the world all the time.
Grandsiozzie: I have to admit while I was on his trail That I was thinking, man If I was a big beef now I'd like to drag the guy out and make him walk back and pick it up...lol.
But then in the next moment another guy came passing by in an exact same car as mine ( a small mitsubishi colt) and hunked and waved friendly + tumps up, and I actually thought for a second God sent him in the right moment to tell me I don't have to carry the wight of the world all the time.
Good G. But I am sure your irritation was justified. I get so aghast with those kind of people. Expec others to clean up for them.
Yea. But I have too much temper, trust me, it's best for me to let the majority of cases go. Oh the scenes I've made. I'm working on it Jones. You know what I'm talking about?
Grandsiozzie: Yea. But I have too much temper, trust me, it's best for me to let the majority of cases go. Oh the scenes I've made. I'm working on it Jones. You know what I'm talking about?
I know someone online who had intense hatred for others on the same site he was on. He trolled people calling them out about their physical appearances and behaviors both of which were identical to his own . I couldn’t take him seriously after that.
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