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May 24, 2022 4:49 PM CST Abusive.......
teenameena
teenameenateenameenamumbai, Maharashtra India128 Threads 277 Posts
Has everyone been abusive at some point in their lives?

why? dunno
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May 25, 2022 8:55 AM CST Abusive.......
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
teenameena: Has everyone been abusive at some point in their lives?

why?
I think that talking about one's errors/flaws isn't something easy for most.sad
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May 25, 2022 11:16 AM CST Abusive.......
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
teenameena: Has everyone been abusive at some point in their lives?

why?
Are you asking has everyone abused someone?

Or, are you asking has everyone been abused?
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May 25, 2022 11:48 AM CST Abusive.......
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
teenameena: Has everyone been abusive at some point in their lives?

why?
To some degree I suppose but it's low-level intent. I see the human species as foolish more than malicious basically the same way I see myself. Exceptions exist but Im not a hero nor a villain.
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May 25, 2022 2:45 PM CST Abusive.......
teenameena
teenameenateenameenamumbai, Maharashtra India128 Threads 277 Posts
Didi7: I think that talking about one's errors/flaws isn't something easy for most.
very true... thumbs up thumbs up

thankyou sweetheart. teddybear
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May 25, 2022 2:49 PM CST Abusive.......
teenameena
teenameenateenameenamumbai, Maharashtra India128 Threads 277 Posts
secretagent09: Are you asking has everyone abused someone?

Or, are you asking has everyone been abused?
It can be either way...

i think even a small bad
behaviour is abusiveness
i think... such as ghosting

wine
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May 25, 2022 2:51 PM CST Abusive.......
teenameena
teenameenateenameenamumbai, Maharashtra India128 Threads 277 Posts
ChesneyChrist: To some degree I suppose but it's low-level intent. I see the human species as foolish more than malicious basically the same way I see myself. Exceptions exist but Im not a hero nor a villain.
Exceptions exist but Im not a hero nor a villainbouquet

thumbs up thumbs up
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May 25, 2022 4:11 PM CST Abusive.......
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
teenameena: Has everyone been abusive at some point in their lives?

why?
Mostly to myself, all my life really....I should really take myself to court.. if I had done things I've done to myself to others I'd be doing time now.

Apart from verbally fighting with someone, which I'm not entirely proud of then no I've not been abusive to anyone...
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May 25, 2022 4:53 PM CST Abusive.......
Deedee123x: It almost becomes the norm doesn't it....like you don't know what life is like to actually love yourself and treat your mind and body well for a change...

If we saw someone sick or I'll or hurt we wouldn't think twice to help but we don't do it for ourselves
There is a dark part of me that thinks I deserve it in some way. I don't know why but its hard to ignore it and be "normal" whatever that is these days.
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May 30, 2022 1:41 PM CST Abusive.......
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
teenameena: Has everyone been abusive at some point in their lives?

why?
Yes . It’s character building .
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May 31, 2022 8:35 PM CST Abusive.......
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,125 Posts
teenameena: Has everyone been abusive at some point in their lives?

why?
Define abusive?
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Jun 2, 2022 9:44 PM CST Abusive.......
Mackenzie123
Mackenzie123Mackenzie123Thunder Bay, Ontario Canada3 Threads 3 Polls 21 Posts
I grew up within a very abusive family, I was beaten daily and more from a child through to being a teen.
Lasting effects had made me at times be perhaps insulting out of anger, but not abusive physically.
It goes to show what can come out of a "perfect" family. Along with not bullying people in high school at such a young age.
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Jun 3, 2022 7:53 AM CST Abusive.......
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Mackenzie123: I grew up within a very abusive family, I was beaten daily and more from a child through to being a teen.
Lasting effects had made me at times be perhaps insulting out of anger, but not abusive physically.
It goes to show what can come out of a "perfect" family. Along with not bullying people in high school at such a young age.
Sorry to hear this....heard of a man recently who went through what you did and its just really sad...I hope life is good to you now
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Jun 3, 2022 7:54 AM CST Abusive.......
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Track16: There is a dark part of me that thinks I deserve it in some way. I don't know why but its hard to ignore it and be "normal" whatever that is these days.
I get that!!! I really do...hugs my friend hug
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Jun 3, 2022 3:50 PM CST Abusive.......
Mackenzie123: I grew up within a very abusive family, I was beaten daily and more from a child through to being a teen.
Lasting effects had made me at times be perhaps insulting out of anger, but not abusive physically.
It goes to show what can come out of a "perfect" family. Along with not bullying people in high school at such a young age.
You need to read "The Body Keeps The Score" by Bessel Van Der Kolk, M.D.

He talks about PTSD and how he treats it. Good luck to you handshake
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