WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN??? (44)

Jun 19, 2022 12:06 PM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
In my opinion there’s nothing wrong with my profile on here but yet im not getting any hits on my profile
I get a few likes but thats it
I feel like I’m being judged by the fact that I am on disability . I AM A HUMAN BEING !!!!
I can love like any other man
Ill be waiting for your response
Jun 19, 2022 12:22 PM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
Iyyovonline now!
Iyyovonline now!IyyovPwetty Blue Planet, Washington USA1 Threads 79 Posts
I'm retired, 59, and Jewish, so I get a lot of that too.

The vast majority of people here are scammers. If you mention that you are disabled in your profile, I suspect the scammers figure you aren't rich enough for their tastes. I was talking on the radio a while back. One of the guys has an "ex" that is way over-weight. She sends out her HS photo and lives off the money that rolls in.

Just a fact of life. Human nature is always at its lowest when people are left to their own devices. And this place is a perfect example of that.

So, the answer is, "The good women aren't taken; they just aren't there anymore." (The women have the same or worse problem.)

Shalom,
Iyyov
Jun 19, 2022 1:24 PM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
Godfearing18: In my opinion there’s nothing wrong with my profile on here but yet im not getting any hits on my profile
I get a few likes but thats it
I feel like I’m being judged by the fact that I am on disability . I AM A HUMAN BEING !!!!
I can love like any other man
Ill be waiting for your response
I am afraid that the disability part may be the problem after all.
You can not blame any woman for being careful with someone who has mental problems...
Depression, anxiety, autism, PSTD. It's quite a challenge in my opinion...dunno
Jun 19, 2022 1:40 PM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
Track16online today!
Track16online today!Track16Little Hearts Ease, Newfoundland Canada1,109 Threads 16,339 Posts
Ten_of_cupss: I am afraid that the disability part may be the problem after all.
You can not blame any woman for being careful with someone who has mental problems...
Depression, anxiety, autism, PSTD. It's quite a challenge in my opinion...
Sadly I agree with you. It shouldn't be that way but people do tend to look at you different when you have a mental illness.
Jun 19, 2022 1:51 PM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
Track16online today!
Track16online today!Track16Little Hearts Ease, Newfoundland Canada1,109 Threads 16,339 Posts
Another thing. Anger is unattractive, really unattractive. I been single since god knows when, I have mental health issues too and understand exactly the frustration you are feeling. Its no good to let it anger you though because like I said, its really unattractive to women. Take it in stride, maybe check out some support groups for your affliction. You can make good friends there and though its not for dating, it do happen.
Jun 19, 2022 1:54 PM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
This place is a ghost hole of the internet.
There are very few actually here interested in dating.
I would not take it personally.

If you look carefully at your list of locals, most of them have not been online in months or years. lol
Jun 19, 2022 2:04 PM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
Track16: Sadly I agree with you. It shouldn't be that way but people do tend to look at you different when you have a mental illness.
Jun 19, 2022 2:31 PM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
Maybe their aren't many 5 feet tall women in this site. Maybe all the violence in Chicago might be a reason for no one biting. You're criteria of what you would like in someone else is kind of uh thick and picky?
Jun 19, 2022 2:32 PM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
galrads: Maybe their there aren't many 5 feet tall women in this site. Maybe all the violence in Chicago might be a reason for no one biting. You're criteria of what you would like in someone else is kind of uh thick and picky?
frustrated fixed laugh
Jun 19, 2022 3:04 PM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
Ten_of_cupss: I am afraid that the disability part may be the problem after all.
You can not blame any woman for being careful with someone who has mental problems...
Depression, anxiety, autism, PSTD. It's quite a challenge in my opinion...
I agree. Very young women don't want a man who they have to take care of their medical needs or even have to walk on eggshells so they don't anger the guy. Most young women want to go out dancing and party all night long.

I remember meeting a guy who had one leg. He was a great lover and the missing leg didn't make any difference. There were other reasons why I didn't pursue a relationship with him.

I don't know if disability is a true term for autism but it is probably the only disability that I might not get involved with. You need to be educated to know how to be patient with it. I think (not sure) that Selene is trained in this.

There are good women on CS. I am a good woman but I am too old to want a relationship even though I could still light up his life laugh
Jun 19, 2022 3:18 PM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
Track16online today!
Track16online today!Track16Little Hearts Ease, Newfoundland Canada1,109 Threads 16,339 Posts
secretagent09: I agree. Very young women don't want a man who they have to take care of their medical needs or even have to walk on eggshells so they don't anger the guy. Most young women want to go out dancing and party all night long.

I remember meeting a guy who had one leg. He was a great lover and the missing leg didn't make any difference. There were other reasons why I didn't pursue a relationship with him.

I don't know if disability is a true term for autism but it is probably the only disability that I might not get involved with. You need to be educated to know how to be patient with it. I think (not sure) that Selene is trained in this.

There are good women on CS. I am a good woman but I am too old to want a relationship even though I could still light up his life
I understand it. In my case, I have it under control with medications and therapy. Often though people have those conditions that are not well controlled and I do know what comes with that. Some people have mental illness and have no idea they have it and refuse treatment when confronted. Its a messed up area of medicine.
Jun 20, 2022 4:05 AM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK103 Threads 4,415 Posts
Godfearing18: In my opinion there’s nothing wrong with my profile on here but yet im not getting any hits on my profile
I get a few likes but thats it
I feel like I’m being judged by the fact that I am on disability . I AM A HUMAN BEING !!!!
I can love like any other man
Ill be waiting for your response
In my opinion, there’s nothing right about your profile .
Your profile doesn’t scream fun , or any other aspect of your personality that would encourage women to pursue you .
Jun 20, 2022 8:38 AM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
ChesneyChristonline today!
ChesneyChristonline today!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK11,247 Posts
The better question is why wouldn't they be? They're in demand.

Let's face it the best you're gonna do here is the disabled, the poor and the criminal. Those with an excuse to be here
Jun 20, 2022 8:49 AM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain76 Threads 1 Polls 8,346 Posts
Godfearing18: In my opinion there’s nothing wrong with my profile on here but yet im not getting any hits on my profile
I get a few likes but thats it
I feel like I’m being judged by the fact that I am on disability . I AM A HUMAN BEING !!!!
I can love like any other man
Ill be waiting for your response
May be you are not being judged because you are on disability but simply are asking to meet a woman who is a very ''particular way''.
You want a woman who is mature, intelligent, self-supporting, self-sufficient and self-reliant BUT ''knows how to take care of her man'' and ''knows how to show undevided attention to her man''... not sure those are compatible as a self-sufficient self-reliant woman may well have to prioritise doing the things that make her self-sufficient over ''giving undivided attention to her man''.
May be your profile lacks coverence in some ways... dunno

Also the words ''god fearing'' put a lot of people off...

Only my opinion of course ...
Jun 20, 2022 9:12 AM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
secretagent09: I agree. Very young women don't want a man who they have to take care of their medical needs or even have to walk on eggshells so they don't anger the guy. Most young women want to go out dancing and party all night long.

I remember meeting a guy who had one leg. He was a great lover and the missing leg didn't make any difference. There were other reasons why I didn't pursue a relationship with him.

I don't know if disability is a true term for autism but it is probably the only disability that I might not get involved with. You need to be educated to know how to be patient with it. I think (not sure) that Selene is trained in this.

There are good women on CS. I am a good woman but I am too old to want a relationship even though I could still light up his life
His profile says he has all of the mentioned problems...
We don't happen to choose one of them...
I have experience with someone who had manic depression, it doesn't matter what age you are, it's not something one would be fine with...to say the least.
If I knew he had it, I'd probably wouldn't be bothered anyway, but now as I know what it is, no chance of me getting involved again in this mess...
bouquet
Jun 20, 2022 9:34 AM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
Track16online today!
Track16online today!Track16Little Hearts Ease, Newfoundland Canada1,109 Threads 16,339 Posts
Op, I don't think you are going to have much luck here, you can see what you are dealing with here. My advice to you would be to look for a more inclusive place and I think I will do the same.
Jun 20, 2022 9:35 AM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia27 Threads 1 Polls 9,578 Posts
Godfearing18: In my opinion there’s nothing wrong with my profile on here but yet im not getting any hits on my profile
I get a few likes but thats it
I feel like I’m being judged by the fact that I am on disability . I AM A HUMAN BEING !!!!
I can love like any other man
Ill be waiting for your response
Seems you dont really understand the concept of ADVERTISING -self promoting
or make them an offer they cant refuse -12 camels and a chocolate bunny
Jun 20, 2022 9:58 AM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain76 Threads 1 Polls 8,346 Posts
Track16: Sadly I agree with you. It shouldn't be that way but people do tend to look at you different when you have a mental illness.
I didn't ... I married someone who was bi-polar... our marriage lasted 4 years... I would not want to repeat the experience... not out of judgement of others but rather out of preference for myself ...
Jun 20, 2022 10:01 AM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
Track16online today!
Track16online today!Track16Little Hearts Ease, Newfoundland Canada1,109 Threads 16,339 Posts
Selenite: I didn't ... I married someone who was bi-polar... our marriage lasted 4 years... I would not want to repeat the experience... not out of judgement of others but rather out of preference for myself ...
bipolar is a hard one to deal with. Meds don't always work and the nature of it makes it unpredictable.
Jun 20, 2022 10:35 AM CST WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain76 Threads 1 Polls 8,346 Posts
Track16: bipolar is a hard one to deal with. Meds don't always work and the nature of it makes it unpredictable.
Yep!
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

Stats for this Thread

1,262 Views
43 Comments
Created: Jun 19
Last Viewed: 5 hrs ago
Last Commented: Jun 25

Share this Thread

Post Comment back to top
We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here