Why do some women lash out...at strangers online? ( Archived) (23)

Jun 24, 2022 4:14 PM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
i have noticed that some women...will lash out and make up stories about others...yet they claim to be strong women? It comes across as insecurity to me and perhaps booze or drug use helps to fuel that insecure mindsetconfused

it's no big deal...no skin off my nose...but it really can't do the women...who rant much good and just brings them into a spiral of negativitywow

i don't know what is going on behind the computer screen...when women rant about men they don't know and lash out...but i'm for free speech and all the ramblings of some women...might be an education for those that were thinking about it and realised it was a sign of weakness to rant at strangerswow

an epic rant about something real and about someone you really know...could make perfect sense and maybe produce a productive resultdunno

what is your view on...some women who lash out at strangers?
I feel a bit sorry for them...but won't be sending them flowers or a card in the post.
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Jun 24, 2022 4:38 PM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
d4nI314
d4nI314d4nI314Planet Earth, Valencia Spain7 Threads 453 Posts
LeeCharming: i have noticed that some women...will lash out and make up stories about others...yet they claim to be strong women? It comes across as insecurity to me and perhaps booze or drug use helps to fuel that insecure mindset

it's no big deal...no skin off my nose...but it really can't do the women...who rant much good and just brings them into a spiral of negativity

i don't know what is going on behind the computer screen...when women rant about men they don't know and lash out...but i'm for free speech and all the ramblings of some women...might be an education for those that were thinking about it and realised it was a sign of weakness to rant at strangers

an epic rant about something real and about someone you really know...could make perfect sense and maybe produce a productive result

what is your view on...some women who lash out at strangers?
I feel a bit sorry for them...but won't be sending them flowers or a card in the post.
But I'm still here, Lee ..Lee!comfort kiss
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Jun 24, 2022 4:58 PM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
d4nI314: But I'm still here, Lee ..Lee!
i am pleased you are here danbouquet
i consider you to be...
a wise woman
a rational woman
a thinking woman
a kind woman
and a whole lot morewink

talking with you is productive and i am sure...i can learn much morewink
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Jun 25, 2022 4:34 AM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
If you're nice to me,I'm nice to you. Usually if I'm not warm towards another member it's from their own previous doing.
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Jun 25, 2022 6:05 AM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
Tiger_Moth
Tiger_MothTiger_MothYeovil, Somerset, England UK23 Threads 2,833 Posts
LeeCharming: i have noticed that some women...will lash out and make up stories about others...yet they claim to be strong women? It comes across as insecurity to me and perhaps booze or drug use helps to fuel that insecure mindset

it's no big deal...no skin off my nose...but it really can't do the women...who rant much good and just brings them into a spiral of negativity

i don't know what is going on behind the computer screen...when women rant about men they don't know and lash out...but i'm for free speech and all the ramblings of some women...might be an education for those that were thinking about it and realised it was a sign of weakness to rant at strangers

an epic rant about something real and about someone you really know...could make perfect sense and maybe produce a productive result

what is your view on...some women who lash out at strangers?
I feel a bit sorry for them...but won't be sending them flowers or a card in the post.
Of course men NEVER rant about women on line do they ,especially you.laugh
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Jun 25, 2022 6:36 AM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
You reap what you sow
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Jun 25, 2022 8:32 AM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
Bid64
Bid64Bid64Waterford, Ireland7 Threads 5,462 Posts
thumbs up thumbs up laugh
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Jun 25, 2022 8:51 AM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Stress?

From what I hear women require normal human physical contact more than men do so perhaps they're irked by the leprosy of the online world. They succumb to that constant state of virtual dread without the human touch where men are somewhat content to live inside a disgraceful social condition.
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Jun 25, 2022 9:03 AM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
LeeCharming: i have noticed that some women...will lash out and make up stories about others...yet they claim to be strong women? It comes across as insecurity to me and perhaps booze or drug use helps to fuel that insecure mindset

it's no big deal...no skin off my nose...but it really can't do the women...who rant much good and just brings them into a spiral of negativity

i don't know what is going on behind the computer screen...when women rant about men they don't know and lash out...but i'm for free speech and all the ramblings of some women...might be an education for those that were thinking about it and realised it was a sign of weakness to rant at strangers

an epic rant about something real and about someone you really know...could make perfect sense and maybe produce a productive result

what is your view on...some women who lash out at strangers?
I feel a bit sorry for them...but won't be sending them flowers or a card in the post.
i think it partially goes both ways. men and women but possibly more women.

truth is, when some one goes on a rant, i generally have no clue what they're ranting about.

i've missed a huge part of the "episode" some where. re-actions vary according to rant. they range from,- not a big enough deal to bother with a scene, to holy crap, they might need therapy. it has crossed my mind that, if they're single, that might be the reason.


nor am i worried about it to bother inquiring as i skim through the "CS headlines". i've already missed the main details, why bother now?
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Jun 25, 2022 8:02 PM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
Miss_Cellaneous
Miss_CellaneousMiss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 2,444 Posts
LeeCharming: i have noticed that some women...will lash out and make up stories about others...yet they claim to be strong women? It comes across as insecurity to me and perhaps booze or drug use helps to fuel that insecure mindset

it's no big deal...no skin off my nose...but it really can't do the women...who rant much good and just brings them into a spiral of negativity

i don't know what is going on behind the computer screen...when women rant about men they don't know and lash out...but i'm for free speech and all the ramblings of some women...might be an education for those that were thinking about it and realised it was a sign of weakness to rant at strangers

an epic rant about something real and about someone you really know...could make perfect sense and maybe produce a productive result

what is your view on...some women who lash out at strangers?
I feel a bit sorry for them...but won't be sending them flowers or a card in the post.
I've noticed that you do this all the time Lee and so why just say "Women"? laugh You love to make Threads up regarding women. Is it because you've never been able to actually sit down and have a conversation with a woman? Maybe if the woman turned up with a long flowery polyester skirt, no make up, plastic raincoat, head scarf, wellies, you'd be well impressed rolling on the floor laughing And it's mostly men that fight just to show how strong they are grin Really Lee, you need to get a grip in your old age rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 26, 2022 8:18 AM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
MysteriousGirl80: If you're nice to me,I'm nice to you. Usually if I'm not warm towards another member it's from their own previous doing.
sometimes we forgive and forget
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Jun 26, 2022 8:21 AM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Tiger_Moth: Of course men NEVER rant about women on line do they ,especially you.
you are free to create your own thread
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Jun 26, 2022 8:21 AM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
emmy1: You reap what you sow
could you explain what you meanconfused
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Jun 26, 2022 8:27 AM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
ChesneyChrist: Stress?

From what I hear women require normal human physical contact more than men do so perhaps they're irked by the leprosy of the online world. They succumb to that constant state of virtual dread without the human touch where men are somewhat content to live inside a disgraceful social condition.
some women have got used to living on their own and have cats for companycats meow
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Jun 26, 2022 8:29 AM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Draegoneer: i think it partially goes both ways. men and women but possibly more women.

truth is, when some one goes on a rant, i generally have no clue what they're ranting about.

i've missed a huge part of the "episode" some where. re-actions vary according to rant. they range from,- not a big enough deal to bother with a scene, to holy crap, they might need therapy. it has crossed my mind that, if they're single, that might be the reason.


nor am i worried about it to bother inquiring as i skim through the "CS headlines". i've already missed the main details, why bother now?
i'm not really bothered about the rant...but false accusations made...does require i respond to them and call them out as bs
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Jun 26, 2022 8:33 AM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Miss_Cellaneous: I've noticed that you do this all the time Lee and so why just say "Women"? You love to make Threads up regarding women. Is it because you've never been able to actually sit down and have a conversation with a woman? Maybe if the woman turned up with a long flowery polyester skirt, no make up, plastic raincoat, head scarf, wellies, you'd be well impressed And it's mostly men that fight just to show how strong they are Really Lee, you need to get a grip in your old age
more accusationscomfort
you really know nothing at all about me and you making a fool of youreslfredclown grin
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Jun 26, 2022 9:15 AM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
some women are guilty of...attempting to build a strawman...
What does it mean to build a straw man argument?
Building a “straw man” implies constructing an idea that is easy to argue against rather than engaging with the real issue. This typically involves distorting your opponent’s ideas or beliefs to make it easier to refute them (even if you’re not “refuting” their actual arguments).

basically some fear my thread subjects and create a strawman...in their minds...to distract from the truth and avoid a mature adult debate on those subjects...but that won't stop me creating them
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Jun 26, 2022 9:31 AM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
LeeCharming: i will respond to them...if they keep on ranting about me and making up lies....insecure people will try to bring others down to their level...but they don't get the better of me
That is toxic behavior and I can’t argue with your point, which was a motivator for posting my thread …

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Jun 26, 2022 11:21 AM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
fergus2022
fergus2022fergus2022cork, Cork Ireland3 Posts
LeeCharming: i say some women ash out at strangers and they are not hard to spot
yes some women just lash out for sure . maybe they had a bad experience with one man and then judge all men WRONGLY AND HARSHLY based on that bad experience . ive had some bad experiences with women , ive had great experiences also . but i have never judged all women based on bad experiences i have had .

without going into any detail here on this site my self and one lady spoke via messages . she sent me a like , and a wants to meet . i replied liking her back and she sent me a message asking if id like to meet . i say yes and that we will organize a meet . she said she had covid and was isolating . so i said thats fine when your isolation is over we can set something up . however my working life is such that i work a lot , start very early and go to bed very early , and i just worked 10 days straight up to friday .so socializing is not as easy for me as it would be for others .so i felt it only fair and honest to be up front with that .

as is often sadly the case with me my honesty and decency ends up doing me no favors . she complained that if we did date that we would hardly see each other and also that distance was an issue for her even tho she already knew how far away from her that i lived before she contacted me . and she basically (how i took it anyway ) implied that i could not possible work as much as i said that it must be in essence lies because in her mind i dont want to meet her . this despite the fact i had already told her id drive the hour or so to where she lived and meet her . so with that i said to her with the greatest of respect and being very nice to her that maybe then its possibly better for her to find a guy living nearer to her whos work life is not so hectic .

then she since has well in essence made me out as bad guy that is messing her around . she completely misinterpreted things i said and completely misjudged me , and blew things i said out of all proportion . again she contacted me and again i reiterated im really a good guy , i was honest with you and nice to you , but that for some reason you simply want to think bad of me when the opposite is the case . i said i really am a good man , i wished her well and hoped she would meet a really nice guy . she replied saying she had not misjudged me at all and blocked me , even tho she was the one sending me 2 and 3 messages at a time .

i came on here in the hope (maybe in vain ) of having a good experience , even if i did not meet that special lady that maybe id make a friend or two . and the first lady i speak to and the above happens . i tried all i could to be nice , polite , honest and decent , i even said i would meet her . and this happens . so yes this woman did lash out at me , despite my being nice and kind to her . but i know with my luck at times with women i just cant win for losing , trust me ive had bad luck . but im the nicest , kindest , gentlest guy , and i try to be nice and this is what i get . i have no idea why this woman or any woman would lash out a man who has done nothing but be nice to them . again maybe thats a question that only a woman can truly answer . and no lets be clear and fair its not all women , but yes some that do this . im not that womans ex boyfriend or husband , she doesnt even know me , so for all women out there please dont judge all men (most who are good men ) based on the wrong doings of some other man that you had in your life .
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Jun 26, 2022 1:58 PM CST Why do some women lash out...at strangers online?
LeeCharming: sometimes we forgive and forget
Only concerning people that matter.
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