Why do some women lash out...at strangers online? (32)

i have noticed that some women...will lash out and make up stories about others...yet they claim to be strong women? It comes across as insecurity to me and perhaps booze or drug use helps to fuel that insecure mindset

it's no big deal...no skin off my nose...but it really can't do the women...who rant much good and just brings them into a spiral of negativity

i don't know what is going on behind the computer screen...when women rant about men they don't know and lash out...but i'm for free speech and all the ramblings of some women...might be an education for those that were thinking about it and realised it was a sign of weakness to rant at strangers

an epic rant about something real and about someone you really know...could make perfect sense and maybe produce a productive result

what is your view on...some women who lash out at strangers?
I feel a bit sorry for them...but won't be sending them flowers or a card in the post.

i am pleased you are here dan
i consider you to be...
a wise woman
a rational woman
a thinking woman
a kind woman
and a whole lot more

talking with you is productive and i am sure...i can learn much more

i think some women rant about men and some men about women . id say that just stems from personal bad experiences they may have had .

but people tend to lump all of a group into together . on man is a bad apple and so sadly some women may feel (wrongly) that the whole barrel of apples are also just as rotten . i said in another comment here that if a woman wants a good man they are easy enough to find . if you want one you can find one , if you cant find one well with all due respect to any lady that rants about men , well maybe you are looking in the wrong place . if you spend all your time in sewers odds are you will find a rat or two . so i suppose the moral is if you dont want a rat keep away from the sewer . but some are attracted to rats , if so well then as they say you made your own bed .

as for men well i think its not quite the same as above . yes a man can pick a bad woman just as easy as a woman can pick a bad man . but and i mean no offense , but women are i feel more calculated in their approach to men . that is i feel they decide what it is they want man wise and that is what leads them . so if for example they like men that they know are probably players , have a certain danger about them i think SOME women view that as exciting . inevitably with a man like that it will go sour . yet SOME women time and again go for that type . then they rant about ALL MEN when it all goes sour . where as with men i think its maybe more that we may pick the wrong one , get hurt , get cheated on , get dumped for another . and that may be more what makes a man rant about women .

men tend to be i think more visual , they first like what they see over any thought about personality or compatibility .maybe they are just not thinking with their brain but with another part of their anatomy if you take my meaning . men are built that way , its nature , hormones and genes that make us that way . so in a way we have a bit of an excuse for the wrong women we may choose to be with . but at the end of the day male or female WE MAKE OUR DECISIONS good or bad , right or wrong . if you are a woman that goes for players , a man that is lead by a body part other than your brain well its you making these choices . the way to fix the problem i guess of going with the wrong men / women is simply to realize that thus far your logic and approach has been wrong and then put it right . if you carry on as you are and get hurt or cheated on or used by players well then its not men and women that are to blame , ITS YOU .

make the right choices , or stay single . but dont rant about and blame all men / women when in reality most are good people and you just decided to choose from the bad group . ranting wont do any good , yes i suppose you can blow off a bit of steam , but after that nothing will be different . so no nothing really is gained from ranting about either sex . change your thinking and your preference in men / women .

Stress?

From what I hear women require normal human physical contact more than men do so perhaps they're irked by the leprosy of the online world. They succumb to that constant state of virtual dread without the human touch where men are somewhat content to live inside a disgraceful social condition.

i think it partially goes both ways. men and women but possibly more women.

truth is, when some one goes on a rant, i generally have no clue what they're ranting about.

i've missed a huge part of the "episode" some where. re-actions vary according to rant. they range from,- not a big enough deal to bother with a scene, to holy crap, they might need therapy. it has crossed my mind that, if they're single, that might be the reason.


nor am i worried about it to bother inquiring as i skim through the "CS headlines". i've already missed the main details, why bother now?

The touch of a leper and the touch of a rapist is the web all over. And where women yearn for the human touch in our detached world men tend to take less offence to the internet because nothing this bad could ever happen in reality.

Yeah, women and men rant. I know some people who prefer negative shit like ranting because they prefer negative attention to no attention at all. Some ranters, especially the sensitive people, think others should see the world as they do. Me, I just try and ignore all the negative rant shit. Besides, for the most part, everyone else in the cs forums and blogs are supposed to be here to amuse me.

Another part of it may be how rejection is in fact usual for a man so there's a lot less pressure. You get lucky where women get unlucky at best and at worst take it to heart, nobody wants me I'm going to swallow a load of pills it's a shock to the system for someone to actually reject me. Men handle rejection better because we were born to die in a ditch and are lucky if we don't, expendable from day one rejection isn't news.

sometimes we forgive and forget

you are free to create your own thread

could you explain what you mean

i say some women ash out at strangers and they are not hard to spot

some women have got used to living on their own and have cats for company