Decent_Love: How much control do you have over yourself? Do you have the ability to say 'No' to any of your ill-will?
I have no explanation but I have good self control to the point it amazes even me. The thing about me and self control is best summed up by a statement my mother made to a neighbor about me when I was young "She knows right from wrong. She weighs out the cost of the deed and if she is willing to pay it she will do it". Sometimes I do stuff just because I want to do it and am willing to pay the cost. But if the cost is to high for me.....I leave it be Patience can be your best friend when it comes to self control.
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Do you have the ability to say 'No' to any of your ill-will?