Would , or could you forgive your partner … (182)

Aug 22, 2022 10:12 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK113 Threads 4,745 Posts
If they were unfaithful under any circumstances?
Aug 22, 2022 10:33 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Coldheaven
ColdheavenColdheavenNorthern Ireland Belfast, Antrim Ireland8 Threads 2,024 Posts
Nope. My ex husband cheated so I divorced him on the basis of his adultery.
Aug 22, 2022 10:40 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Maybe once under certain circumstances,
but I would most likely not get in that position,
due to... circumstances.

So in principle yes but only once.
Her eyes would have to be pretty teared up to put it like that.
And even then it's not sure, but maybe.
Aug 22, 2022 10:51 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Name_Taken_Two
Name_Taken_TwoName_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland87 Threads 4,139 Posts
Youcannow: If they were unfaithful under any circumstances?
Yes I would forgive, but the partnership would most likely be over, trust is important and with that lost what's the point?
Aug 22, 2022 10:51 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Absolutely not.
Aug 22, 2022 10:59 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Youcannow: If they were unfaithful under any circumstances?
Once the line of trust is broken, there’s no going back, I can forgive the unfaithful act, but never forget the broken trust!
cool
Aug 22, 2022 11:04 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Name_Taken_Two: Yes I would forgive, but the partnership would most likely be over, trust is important and with that lost what's the point?
Yea, would there be anything left ...
But IF somehow, a few weeks and months later, there is a reason to go on after all..
well.... then you gave it another go then and time will then tell dunno
If it feels shitty at that stage deffo dump her!
And NEVER under any cercomstances stay together for the children!
My parents divorced when I was 15 and it was not a day too early.
Children sniff lack of harmony and love.
They sniff it too easy and don't try and fool them.
Aug 22, 2022 11:07 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Name_Taken_Two
Name_Taken_TwoName_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland87 Threads 4,139 Posts
Grandsiozzie: Yea, would there be anything left ...
But IF somehow, a few weeks and months later, there is a reason to go on after all..
well.... then you gave it another go then and time will then tell
If it feels shitty at that stage deffo dump her!
And NEVER under any cercomstances stay together for the children!
My parents divorced when I was 15 and it was not a day too early.
Children sniff lack of harmony and love.
They sniff it too easy and don't try and fool them.
I think it would always be there, I speak for me, and that's not the way a partnership should be, best to cut the losses and show the heals..wave wine
Aug 22, 2022 11:13 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Name_Taken_Two: I think it would always be there, I speak for me, and that's not the way a partnership should be, best to cut the losses and show the heals..
Most likely I'd dump her without hesitation too.
A tear and a middle finger.

cheers
Aug 22, 2022 11:13 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
ChesneyChristonline today!
ChesneyChristonline today!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK11,925 Posts
Youcannow: If they were unfaithful under any circumstances?
Any circumstance? Tell you what then, give me a billion dollars and you can sleep with my girlfriend. I'll try to hold back the tears
Aug 22, 2022 11:15 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Name_Taken_Two
Name_Taken_TwoName_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland87 Threads 4,139 Posts
Grandsiozzie: Most likely I'd dump her without hesitation too.
A tear and a middle finger.
As they say "Plenty of fish in the.." laugh cheers
Aug 22, 2022 11:22 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
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Aug 22, 2022 11:22 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09NJ Transplant, North Carolina USA242 Threads 4 Polls 9,406 Posts
Youcannow: If they were unfaithful under any circumstances?
You mean when he says...........It didn't mean anything; it was only one night; I love you ?

No forgiveness.
Aug 22, 2022 11:31 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Name_Taken_Two
Name_Taken_TwoName_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland87 Threads 4,139 Posts
It seems the Christian spirit has left the Christian ladies, forgiveness is what is preached from the pulpit..grin angel
Aug 22, 2022 11:36 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
ChesneyChrist: Any circumstance? Tell you what then, give me a billion dollars and you can sleep with my girlfriend. I'll try to hold back the tears
One million used to be the rate, then you can forgive her and live in clover.
But it worries me this woman must be drop-dead gorgeous, she might take off with the money, and the guylightbulb
Aug 22, 2022 11:49 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
ChesneyChristonline today!
ChesneyChristonline today!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK11,925 Posts
Youcannow: If they were unfaithful under any circumstances?
But unless you are willing to make me a real life indecent proposal there isn't anything for it. Women don't cheat unless it's pretty bloody serious, they're not like men who cheat because the other woman was there. Women go out of their way to cheat and I must have done something serious to provoke that if theres any chance to forgive that. If I'd faked my own death and not been heard from since, maybe
Aug 22, 2022 11:59 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Bassador
BassadorBassadorOntario, Canada135 Posts
I learned a long time ago that forgiveness isn't telling someone that what they did was alright. It's about freeing me from living with the pain, anger, etc. So, yes, I would forgive, but the relationship would be over.
Aug 22, 2022 12:08 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Bassador: I learned a long time ago that forgiveness isn't telling someone that what they did was alright. It's about freeing me from living with the pain, anger, etc. So, yes, I would forgive, but the relationship would be over.
2nd that
Aug 22, 2022 12:30 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Bassador
BassadorBassadorOntario, Canada135 Posts
Track16: 2nd that
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Aug 22, 2022 12:59 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
I might forgive but then again we won't be in a relationship anymore.
Once broken trust isn't going to magically fix itself.
Better part ways before it gets ugly.
Women don't always cheat because of the sex.
Or often don't need a reason to cheat...
You might be too nice or too boring, or she just wants more attention .
Men are not much different ...
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