Would , or could you forgive your partner … (148)

Aug 23, 2022 12:14 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,508 Posts
When i was in a relationship, i did forgive him, but forgiven him does not mean i agree or condone it, it just means don’t let it happened again, let’s move on I don’t have time for resentment
Aug 23, 2022 12:52 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
No, they've broken my trust, I could not ever go on from there.
Aug 23, 2022 2:04 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
crazyblondeone: No, they've broken my trust, I could not ever go on from there.
Thank you for giving a straight & uncomplicated answer.
Aug 23, 2022 2:07 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Packersbabe1: When i was in a relationship, i did forgive him, but forgiven him does not mean i agree or condone it, it just means don’t let it happened again, let’s move on I don’t have time for resentment
You can’t stop it from happening again , unless you put a tracker on his phone .
Aug 23, 2022 2:10 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Once cheatin takes place......it's over
Aug 23, 2022 2:13 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Ask Ryan giggs
Aug 23, 2022 2:13 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
pedro27: Once cheatin takes place......it's over
Unless it you who were the one cheating & she didn’t find out of course.
Aug 23, 2022 2:15 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,508 Posts
Youcannow: You can’t stop it from happening again , unless you put a tracker on his phone .
Right, it will be over then sense i given him
another chance, I’m not gone even go there
with a tracker
Aug 23, 2022 2:16 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,508 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing My bad Youcan I thought that was for me
Aug 23, 2022 2:16 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,508 Posts
Never mind lol, it was
Aug 23, 2022 2:17 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Youcannow: Unless it you who were the one cheating & she didn’t find out of course.
Once cheating takes place it's over across the board

broken love
Aug 23, 2022 2:19 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Packersbabe1: Right, it will be over then sense i given him
another chance, I’m not gone even go there
with a tracker
Some cultures are more accepting & forgiving.
It tends to be the woman who’s more forgiving, but in some cultures, the woman would be stoned to death ..
Aug 23, 2022 2:19 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Youcannow: Unless it you who were the one cheating & she didn’t find out of course.
once love is broken it's broken forever

life moves on
Aug 23, 2022 4:15 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Youcannow: If they were unfaithful under any circumstances?
NO
Aug 24, 2022 11:40 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,508 Posts
Youcannow: Some cultures are more accepting & forgiving.
It tends to be the woman who’s more forgiving, but in some cultures, the woman would be stoned to death ..


Right
Aug 24, 2022 11:52 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
jagtom
jagtomjagtomocean city, Devon, England UK138 Threads 1 Polls 1,125 Posts
Youcannow: Some cultures are more accepting & forgiving.
It tends to be the woman who’s more forgiving, but in some cultures, the woman would be stoned to death ..
Seems reasonable, keep them out of the schools too laugh professor cool
Aug 26, 2022 3:35 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
pedro27: once love is broken it's broken forever

life moves on
As an affirmed person of god you know that 'nothing' and especially love is never ever broken. professor
Aug 27, 2022 2:23 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Ten_of_cupss: I don't buy the Ego thing.
Sorry, its not the root of all evil, no, no...
Ego is the curiosity, the drive for growth and discovery, the force that makes us explore and move forward.
There's nothing divine in cheating we need to put up with.
You choose yourself and that's the most relevant thing you should do.
You can forgive, but you don't need to stay in a broken trust connection.
There's the difference.
Technically, you're correct. "Ego" isn't necessarily a 'negative'. I believe that the word has been used as a 'negative' so much that it has BECOME a negative (via osmosis!laugh ). A better way to put the thought together would be "s/he has abused his ego"....There are many things/words that many people automatically "see" as negative, such as 'anger', 'bitter', 'petulant', and so on....ergo, 'anger' is a very natural, and often helpful emotion or feedback, but only really negative if misused. I hope I'm explaining this in a sage form....handshake
Aug 27, 2022 2:45 PM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
rohaan: Technically, you're correct. "Ego" isn't necessarily a 'negative'. I believe that the word has been used as a 'negative' so much that it has BECOME a negative (via osmosis! ). A better way to put the thought together would be "s/he has abused his ego"....There are many things/words that many people automatically "see" as negative, such as 'anger', 'bitter', 'petulant', and so on....ergo, 'anger' is a very natural, and often helpful emotion or feedback, but only really negative if misused. I hope I'm explaining this in a sage form....
Youre right, ego os neither negative or positive. What's important is becoming aware of what control, if any your ego has over you, or should I say, what control you have over your ego. The ego likes to be autonomous and rule the roost, most people have no idea that their ego is quite often running the show.
Aug 28, 2022 2:06 AM CST Would , or could you forgive your partner …
Ten_of_cupss
Ten_of_cupssTen_of_cupssShumen, Bulgaria2 Threads 1,375 Posts
rohaan: Technically, you're correct. "Ego" isn't necessarily a 'negative'. I believe that the word has been used as a 'negative' so much that it has BECOME a negative (via osmosis! ). A better way to put the thought together would be "s/he has abused his ego"....There are many things/words that many people automatically "see" as negative, such as 'anger', 'bitter', 'petulant', and so on....ergo, 'anger' is a very natural, and often helpful emotion or feedback, but only really negative if misused. I hope I'm explaining this in a sage form....
That's right, Ro.
We tend to believe all negative emotions should be avoided and even suppressed .
Which is the most harmful thing one can do when dealing with emotional trauma such as betrayal.
Pretending it's OK is to say the least stupid.
Betrayal doesn't hurt our Ego, it messes with our understanding and believes of what a connection with another human being should be.
If we can loosely go through cheating then what's the point of being together?!
What example you will be to your kids?!
We need something to believe in and follow, something higher and better than us, a structure to build around.
Otherwise we would still live like animals... handshake
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