Have you ever dumped...? (17)
No but I wish I had
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Didi7: Dating can be exciting, but it can also be frightening when you meet someone who 'weirds' you out. Then there are those who bore you or have 'unreasonable' expectations.
So, have you ever dumped/wished you had dumped someone within the first week of dating? Do tell...
By the way, is 'ghosting' the same as 'dumping'?So, have you ever dumped/wished you had dumped someone within the first week of dating? Do tell...
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First BF wished I had not given as many chances..he was a decent enough guy but we were not compatible.
2nd BF was First BFs first cousin and should have NEVER happened.
3rd and 4th were small relationships and although I learned alot from them-ish....they also would have been better left after the first date.
Current BF we had our ups and down but together now coming up on 4 years...well 3 and half at the moment...and it's the one for me...hopefully we will still feel the same in the years to come
2nd BF was First BFs first cousin and should have NEVER happened.
3rd and 4th were small relationships and although I learned alot from them-ish....they also would have been better left after the first date.
Current BF we had our ups and down but together now coming up on 4 years...well 3 and half at the moment...and it's the one for me...hopefully we will still feel the same in the years to come
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Deedee123x: First BF wished I had not given as many chances..he was a decent enough guy but we were not compatible.
2nd BF was First BFs first cousin and should have NEVER happened.
3rd and 4th were small relationships and although I learned alot from them-ish....they also would have been better left after the first date.
Current BF we had our ups and down but together now coming up on 4 years...well 3 and half at the moment...and it's the one for me...hopefully we will still feel the same in the years to come
Wow. Deedee, maybe there was something that you needed to learn/experience about yourself (or life), and that's why you didn't dump them within the first week. Or maybe, you're just a 'softie'...2nd BF was First BFs first cousin and should have NEVER happened.
3rd and 4th were small relationships and although I learned alot from them-ish....they also would have been better left after the first date.
Current BF we had our ups and down but together now coming up on 4 years...well 3 and half at the moment...and it's the one for me...hopefully we will still feel the same in the years to come
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There was a couple I wish I had my time back, wouldn't have got past the first day.
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Track16: There was a couple I wish I had my time back, wouldn't have got past the first day.
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Didi7: Wow. Deedee, maybe there was something that you needed to learn/experience about yourself (or life), and that's why you didn't dump them within the first week. Or maybe, you're just a 'softie'...
Too soft Didi...BTW Didi is my nickname 
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Didi7: Whoa... Well at least you survived those experiences, and probably know what to avoid next time.
I'm not saying I was perfect, the one I miss I did do a few things wrong and regret it. The one that smothered me was the worst, I literally could not walk from one room to the other without her latched on. I like spending time with my girl, I would naturally spend the majority of my time with her but when someone is glued to your side every second, every minute, every day, you feel crowded. Sometimes you need 5 minutes without anyone, just you and your thoughts. I couldn't hack it------ This thread is Archived ------
Track16: I'm not saying I was perfect, the one I miss I did do a few things wrong and regret it. The one that smothered me was the worst, I literally could not walk from one room to the other without her latched on. I like spending time with my girl, I would naturally spend the majority of my time with her but when someone is glued to your side every second, every minute, every day, you feel crowded. Sometimes you need 5 minutes without anyone, just you and your thoughts. I couldn't hack it
I understand completely. And, by the way, everyone needs more than 5 mins to themselves if they want to stay sane in a relationship...
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Didi7: Dating can be exciting, but it can also be frightening when you meet someone who 'weirds' you out. Then there are those who bore you or have 'unreasonable' expectations.
So, have you ever dumped/wished you had dumped someone within the first week of dating? Do tell...
I always know pretty much straight away whether I want someone to stay around or not. Those I didn’t I just told I wasn’t interested in any further contact.So, have you ever dumped/wished you had dumped someone within the first week of dating? Do tell...
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Deedee123x: Too soft Didi...BTW Didi is my nickname
Yep, it's just spelt differently------ This thread is Archived ------
Didi7: Yep, it's just spelt differently
Well mine is really didi ....someone else just goes deedee and it stuck...I prefer didi lol------ This thread is Archived ------
No, I don't start anything if I'm not sure I want it.
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Ten_of_cupss: No, I don't start anything if I'm not sure I want it.
i.m sure what I. Want. But I don't get it 
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Deedee123x: Well mine is really didi ....someone else just goes deedee and it stuck...I prefer didi lol
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