can you change yourself for someone else? ( Archived) (61)

Oct 15, 2022 7:24 PM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
Can you change yourself for the one you love?

I had heard that everything in this world is changing.grin
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Oct 15, 2022 7:26 PM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
Friendship4ever
Friendship4everFriendship4everSan Bernardino, California USA2 Threads 1,466 Posts
25% would be the agreed amount. banana
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Oct 15, 2022 7:28 PM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
wsg23
wsg23wsg23Miami, Florida USA29 Posts
Women should absolutely
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Oct 15, 2022 7:28 PM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
Friendship4ever: 25% would be the agreed amount.
grin
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Oct 15, 2022 7:32 PM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
Jeannineanne
JeannineanneJeannineanneWicklow, Ireland3 Threads 1,037 Posts
Decent_Love: Can you change yourself for the one you love?

I had heard that everything in this world is changing.
why should wedunno
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Oct 15, 2022 7:34 PM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
wsg23
wsg23wsg23Miami, Florida USA29 Posts
because too many dont, do whatever want and wonder why they can't get a man after 30
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Oct 15, 2022 7:38 PM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
Jeannineanne
JeannineanneJeannineanneWicklow, Ireland3 Threads 1,037 Posts
wsg23: because too many dont, do whatever want and wonder why they can't get a man after 30
why are you on here laugh can't you get a woman dunno
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Oct 15, 2022 7:43 PM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
wsg23
wsg23wsg23Miami, Florida USA29 Posts
I get lots of women. So many.
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Oct 15, 2022 7:46 PM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
Why? Its better to get someone who likes you for you than someone who you got to be a different person with.
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Oct 15, 2022 7:48 PM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
Jeannineanne
JeannineanneJeannineanneWicklow, Ireland3 Threads 1,037 Posts
wsg23: I get lots of women. So many.
Good for you laugh and you think we don't have mendunno doh
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Oct 15, 2022 7:49 PM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
Jeannineanne
JeannineanneJeannineanneWicklow, Ireland3 Threads 1,037 Posts
Track16: Why? Its better to get someone who likes you for you than someone who you got to be a different person with.
exactly Trackteddybear
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Oct 15, 2022 7:57 PM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
Jeannineanne: exactly Track
I done that before and I wouldn't recommend it. When you can't be yourself, your not free and if your not free in a relationship, its more like ownership on the other person's part.

Totally do not recommend.
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Oct 15, 2022 8:02 PM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
Jeannineanne
JeannineanneJeannineanneWicklow, Ireland3 Threads 1,037 Posts
Track16: I done that before and I wouldn't recommend it. When you can't be yourself, your not free and if your not free in a relationship, its more like ownership on the other person's part.

Totally do not recommend.
And I would agree with you Track,100% wink cheers
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Oct 15, 2022 8:21 PM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
wsg23
wsg23wsg23Miami, Florida USA29 Posts
A lot can't..I dont know about you cause I dont really know what you look like
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Oct 15, 2022 9:03 PM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,954 Posts
wsg23: A lot can't..I dont know about you cause I dont really know what you look like
Use the quote button so people know who you are replying to.
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Oct 15, 2022 9:04 PM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
wsg23
wsg23wsg23Miami, Florida USA29 Posts
Jeannie...but yes I should have
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Oct 16, 2022 6:55 AM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
Cranky_Geezer
Cranky_GeezerCranky_GeezerPatchogue, New York USA29 Threads 1 Polls 2,239 Posts
I don't think it is possible to change your fundamental nature. However, I do believe you can be the best version of yourself with the right person.
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Oct 16, 2022 7:00 AM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
Cranky_Geezer: I don't think it is possible to change your fundamental nature. However, I do believe you can be the best version of yourself with the right person.
Something akong those lines, and I think one can perhaps airbrush a tad too,
in the very beginning to get her vital organs moving ....lol
Actually we all present ourselves slightly better than we might be on our crankiest.
laugh
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Oct 16, 2022 7:14 AM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Decent_Love: Can you change yourself for the one you love?

I had heard that everything in this world is changing.
To some extent. But we live in a strange world where to work we must change ourselves constantly, never has the society and the economy changed so much in such a short space of time, but to shop is almost the opposite. Right or wrong we will be told how right we are. To earn money we have to adapt more than even before, to spend money we stay the same like never before.
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Oct 16, 2022 7:36 AM CST can you change yourself for someone else?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
ChesneyChrist: To some extent. But we live in a strange world where to work we must change ourselves constantly, never has the society and the economy changed so much in such a short space of time, but to shop is almost the opposite. Right or wrong we will be told how right we are. To earn money we have to adapt more than even before, to spend money we stay the same like never before.
And often the reason why we shop like that is because we are tired of reinventing ourselves like David Bowie to fit the economy and the ideology of society. We can't adapt for the ones we love because the industrial revolution and the woke cathedral are hoarding all our ability to change. Whatever's left of our personal space is bullishly defended as the one things that's never going to change. Neither your boss or the secular priests can touch us in our own home.. or so we hoped. Remote working and the surveillance state could be the end of that, but just as easily be the end of them actually. Becoming less like a human being and more like public property could easily backfire.
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