Is surrogacy right or wrong? (37)
online today!online today!Decent_LovePrayagraj, Uttar Pradesh India409 Threads 3 Polls 2,052 PostsIs it right to carry your child in a surrogate womb?
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How will the relationship between mother and child be with this method?
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Decent_Love: How will the relationship between mother and child be with this method?
How is the relationship between mother and child when people adopt?With surrogacy there is at least an existing prebirth connection.
Who is anyone to judge or assume they know what is best or not for other people?
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Selenite: How is the relationship between mother and child when people adopt?
With surrogacy there is at least an existing prebirth connection.
Who is anyone to judge or assume they know what is best or not for other people?
With surrogacy there is at least an existing prebirth connection.
Who is anyone to judge or assume they know what is best or not for other people?
Well, no one else can decide what is right or wrong for someone else, but can discuss it.
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Decent_Love: Well, no one else can decide what is right or wrong for someone else, but can discuss it.
Yes but people discussing something they know nothing about (unless they have experienced it) is nothing but making uninformed assumptions and judgements. I don't see the point. 
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Decent_Love: Is it right to carry your child in a surrogate womb?
If its a surrogate womb then you can't carry it
But I think it's a wonderful gift to give someone and all the beest of health to anyone who chooses to give that gift.
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Decent_Love: How will the relationship between mother and child be with this method?
To my mind the better question is the other mother. Will she simply piss off and behave like she hasn't given birth to it? I don't know these things------ This thread is Archived ------
ChesneyChrist: To my mind the better question is the other mother. Will she simply piss off and behave like she hasn't given birth to it? I don't know these things
That's the sticking point that I can see. And not much way around it until they come up with the man-made womb, a manufactured sack in which children are grown external to the body.------ This thread is Archived ------
absolutely nothing wrong with surrogacy. its not any different than other medical issues like say a heart transplant
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For me having a child isn't just a fertilized egg implanted in a friendly environment.
The bond that pregnancy creates is the more important part.
Maternity instinct kicks off and the body does its work to welcome the new life.
I's rather adopt than use someone else's body to create a child that is somehow biologicaly mine but still foreign to my body and mind.
The bond that pregnancy creates is the more important part.
Maternity instinct kicks off and the body does its work to welcome the new life.
I's rather adopt than use someone else's body to create a child that is somehow biologicaly mine but still foreign to my body and mind.
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Ten_of_cupss: For me having a child isn't just a fertilized egg implanted in a friendly environment.
The bond that pregnancy creates is the more important part.
Maternity instinct kicks off and the body does its work to welcome the new life.
I's rather adopt than use someone else's body to create a child that is somehow biologicaly mine but still foreign to my body and mind.
This is what concerns me, the emotions invoked in the carrying mother are beyond her ability to regulate, we are talking about millions of years of nature here. Nature will create a bond between the mother and her child usually..The bond that pregnancy creates is the more important part.
Maternity instinct kicks off and the body does its work to welcome the new life.
I's rather adopt than use someone else's body to create a child that is somehow biologicaly mine but still foreign to my body and mind.
We have all seen the ultimate power of hormones, a woman who tries to regulate these is inviting a power greater than herself to correct her impertinence, I'm not talking religion here, just my own experience.
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jagtom: This is what concerns me, the emotions invoked in the carrying mother are beyond her ability to regulate, we are talking about millions of years of nature here. Nature will create a bond between the mother and her child usually..
We have all seen the ultimate power of hormones, a woman who tries to regulate these is inviting a power greater than herself to correct her impertinence, I'm not talking religion here, just my own experience.
Really We have all seen the ultimate power of hormones, a woman who tries to regulate these is inviting a power greater than herself to correct her impertinence, I'm not talking religion here, just my own experience.
When did you become a surrogate mother.------ This thread is Archived ------
To each his own.
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Tiger_Moth: Really When did you become a surrogate mother.
I comment on my own experience of the subject, do you have actual experience or is it just something else you don't know about and are getting at me?------ This thread is Archived ------
jagtom: This is what concerns me, the emotions invoked in the carrying mother are beyond her ability to regulate, we are talking about millions of years of nature here. Nature will create a bond between the mother and her child usually..
We have all seen the ultimate power of hormones, a woman who tries to regulate these is inviting a power greater than herself to correct her impertinence, I'm not talking religion here, just my own experience.
Was your experience natural, or was it a surrogate birth ?We have all seen the ultimate power of hormones, a woman who tries to regulate these is inviting a power greater than herself to correct her impertinence, I'm not talking religion here, just my own experience.
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Youcannow: Was your experience natural, or was it a surrogate birth ?
I think it's remarkable you weren't drowned at birth, this place doesn't change does it------ This thread is Archived ------
jagtom: I think it's remarkable you weren't drowned at birth, this place doesn't change does it
I wanted to congratulate you on your surrogacy.You did a good thing .
Did you birth any of your own children ( just curious )
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jagtom: This is what concerns me, the emotions invoked in the carrying mother are beyond her ability to regulate, we are talking about millions of years of nature here. Nature will create a bond between the mother and her child usually..
We have all seen the ultimate power of hormones, a woman who tries to regulate these is inviting a power greater than herself to correct her impertinence, I'm not talking religion here, just my own experience.
I’d never be able to be a surrogate because I just could never give my baby away. I loved both my babies from long before they were even born. From as soon as I knew they’d been conceived.We have all seen the ultimate power of hormones, a woman who tries to regulate these is inviting a power greater than herself to correct her impertinence, I'm not talking religion here, just my own experience.
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Coldheaven: I’d never be able to be a surrogate because I just could never give my baby away. I loved both my babies from long before they were even born. From as soon as I knew they’d been conceived.
I believe you would be a natural mother, too bad you're taken
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jagtom: I comment on my own experience of the subject, do you have actual experience or is it just something else you don't know about and are getting at me?
The comment you posted was a woman's perspective on surrogacy hence her saying she was not talking from experience and certainly not your own experience.
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