Just wondering. My impression is that those who participate in the Forums have little to no interest in making a romantic connection. If I'm wrong, please set me straight. If I'm right, I see no point in continuing to post here. I have philosophic and political lists for that. I'm here to find a lifelong mate.
EricT1981: Just wondering. My impression is that those who participate in the Forums have little to no interest in making a romantic connection. If I'm wrong, please set me straight. If I'm right, I see no point in continuing to post here. I have philosophic and political lists for that. I'm here to find a lifelong mate.
I am not here to meet anyone, they are usually too far away. I just send messages to my friends I’ve met here and once in awhile comment on the forums if there is anything worth commenting on. It’s not a good dating site for sure for me.
A few does but most are men. The love seeking women on forums can be counted on one hand and at blogs the other hand. But it was better ten years ago if that is any comfort lol. I myself deted 3 from blogs, but that was long ago now.
Grandsiozzie: If my next gf happens to be at cs the chance she is outside Europe is rather large yes. Especially African women is underrated.
yep I talk with a few Kenyans who work dawn til dusk at physical labor I maybe could have done in my twenties. I made a comment about going barefoot and the lady could not understand why that was unusual. That is when the first world cultural divide hit me
I am here because friends from an old DOA site came here. We talked in a 60s group. I use a free site like this as my social media. Forums, blogs and pen pals. From what I see, some of us are only here for that.I saw years ago on a couple of sites that the format is flawed. Type in you want within 50 miles and they offer Germany! Say age and get everything from 18 to dead. It is a problem to meet people. Especially in rural areas. People joined up out of high school or met at jobs. Or churches. Outside of those..then what? That loser in the bar? Even to make friends is hard. So here we are.
EricT1981: Just wondering. My impression is that those who participate in the Forums have little to no interest in making a romantic connection. If I'm wrong, please set me straight. If I'm right, I see no point in continuing to post here. I have philosophic and political lists for that. I'm here to find a lifelong mate.
a shame seeing a young man wasting his time on here. Jmo. Can at times be fun. On here. That's all. Don't expect. More.
Orzzz: I am here because friends from an old DOA site came here. We talked in a 60s group. I use a free site like this as my social media. Forums, blogs and pen pals. From what I see, some of us are only here for that.I saw years ago on a couple of sites that the format is flawed. Type in you want within 50 miles and they offer Germany! Say age and get everything from 18 to dead. It is a problem to meet people. Especially in rural areas. People joined up out of high school or met at jobs. Or churches. Outside of those..then what? That loser in the bar? Even to make friends is hard. So here we are.
Many years ago there was a really cool chat program called POWOW. It was created by Native Americans and seemed to span the world. Someone bought it out and it died. You can still find legacy versions but I have not tested it. Voice chat, file sharing, even a whiteboard I think. Try Proton. They have a nice free selection of not only mail but a VPN as well. Pretty decent reviews and encrypted for security. Not dating, so dead end there.
EricT1981: Just wondering. My impression is that those who participate in the Forums have little to no interest in making a romantic connection. If I'm wrong, please set me straight. If I'm right, I see no point in continuing to post here. I have philosophic and political lists for that. I'm here to find a lifelong mate.
There are no women in your age group on forums to start with, never mind your preferable age group. Most of us have been on here for ages and don't see it as a dating playground but more like a family gathering where you can have a good, old argument over just about anything. What you are looking for unfortunately is quite rare. But good luck to you!
EricT1981: Just wondering. My impression is that those who participate in the Forums have little to no interest in making a romantic connection. If I'm wrong, please set me straight. If I'm right, I see no point in continuing to post here. I have philosophic and political lists for that. I'm here to find a lifelong mate.
EricT1981: Just wondering. My impression is that those who participate in the Forums have little to no interest in making a romantic connection. If I'm wrong, please set me straight. If I'm right, I see no point in continuing to post here. I have philosophic and political lists for that. I'm here to find a lifelong mate.
That's an accurate impression. For me this is a social media in which we can talk about politics away from friends and more distant family, people I have to work with and so on. It's like a poor man's UN that takes anyone so long as they're a bit knackered. It is the dark underbelly of democracy because it comes from those who have failed to find love amongst their own species - which could happen to anyone. Joining a specifically political forum couldn't happen to anyone, no, it takes a certain type of nerd to do that which I consider to be undemocratic and more like a caste system, too much of a niche.
Eric you never know, some people have connect on these forums, don't forget now you can get outside to and not just look on CS where you gone run into scammers
Bars. You know men, and there are studies, act stupid around hot women. Real crazy women hid it well into the relationship. The woman I live with told me twenty five years later she had a breakdown in high school. With how she is now, I may have passed on her if she told me before we moved into together.
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