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online today!online today!Decent_LovePrayagraj, Uttar Pradesh India409 Threads 3 Polls 2,050 PostsWhich question disturbs your peace of mind?
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You post the same thing twice.
How is your peace of mind?
How is your peace of mind?
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Why are you are bad person in my eyes ? because i have the ability to be bad and good..
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Decent_Love: Which question disturbs your peace of mind?
Good question! 
I find many questions offensive.
Part of it is my age, - life prior to social media - and global media 24/7.
And part of it is how you were raised.
Whether or not you were taught boundaries, protocol, status, respect, taboos etc..
Examples: Money , health, politics, relationships, religion
It took me a LONG time to learn how to handle the nosey and ignorant barbarians
Simple rules:
NEVER ask a question, that you aren't prepared to answer yourself.
NEVER ask lead in questions
NEVER repeat a question hoping for a different answer
Chances are, if you were meant to know something, you will. Or if someone wants or needs to tell you something, they will.
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Decent_Love: Which question disturbs your peace of mind?
Mom to son, "did you make a contrition after going to confession?" 
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With years I came to a conclusion that a disturbing question is about a subject that I myself have an issue with. (Sometimes even without realizing it.)
Next step in the development is to keep the presence of mind and try to analyse what, why and how to deal with it.
And the ultimate achievement would be a feeling of gratefulness that someone bothered to point out my shortcomings. Though I suspect, at that point it’ll be the time for my soul to dissolve in the ether and join the celestial body of the universe…
…or some such.
Next step in the development is to keep the presence of mind and try to analyse what, why and how to deal with it.
And the ultimate achievement would be a feeling of gratefulness that someone bothered to point out my shortcomings. Though I suspect, at that point it’ll be the time for my soul to dissolve in the ether and join the celestial body of the universe…
…or some such.
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CossackCat: Good question!
I find many questions offensive.
Part of it is my age, - life prior to social media - and global media 24/7.
And part of it is how you were raised.
Whether or not you were taught boundaries, protocol, status, respect, taboos etc..
Examples: Money , health, politics, relationships, religion
It took me a LONG time to learn how to handle the nosey and ignorant barbarians
Simple rules:
NEVER ask a question, that you aren't prepared to answer yourself.
NEVER ask lead in questions
NEVER repeat a question hoping for a different answer
Chances are, if you were meant to know something, you will. Or if someone wants or needs to tell you something, they will.
You wouldn't make a good attorney Cat cause that's what they do and it works well to catch people when they lie.I find many questions offensive.
Part of it is my age, - life prior to social media - and global media 24/7.
And part of it is how you were raised.
Whether or not you were taught boundaries, protocol, status, respect, taboos etc..
Examples: Money , health, politics, relationships, religion
It took me a LONG time to learn how to handle the nosey and ignorant barbarians
Simple rules:
NEVER ask a question, that you aren't prepared to answer yourself.
NEVER ask lead in questions
NEVER repeat a question hoping for a different answer
Chances are, if you were meant to know something, you will. Or if someone wants or needs to tell you something, they will.
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secretagent09: You wouldn't make a good attorney Cat cause that's what they do and it works well to catch people when they lie.
That's in a court of law, where they keep rephrasing the question - until the judge gets annoyed and stops it. But in everyday life, we can just laugh at them, and say, "my answer doesn't change, just because you repeat yourself" or say, "None of your business" or "Sorry, everything isn't for everybody"
People who repeat questions, have already decided what they WANT the answer to be
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Only questions disturb my peace of mind, is a nosey person
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