i did....come to think about, i have a habit of it....anyway....was just wondering, it seems my life is cursed with the intention of good and plagued by my own mind.....sometimes i just can't say what i want to, it always comes out wrong.
Do what you can, the mentality of others involved plays a part. If you are sincere with the apology and trying to rectify it, that is all that matters. If that's not good enough for them, it's on them at that point.
When your intentions are good...your words are as they should be...how they are received is not your problem...it is the intepretation of the receiver...and you have no control over that.
Mike1162Over the Rainbow, Pennsylvania USA1,694 posts
Do you keep a journal? If not maybe start one and keep going over your thought process by writing it down.
Everyone processes differently you see. It's your job to learn how you operate and figure out ways to process the information you keep so it doesn't always come out wrong.
thanks for your input, reckon i'll go now, ya'll have a goodnight. maybe i'll get lucky and find a way to fix it...i don't know...meanwhile, i have to send my boss some files and pics, i'll try and come back later..........
hell yes i do it on a regular basis i only open my mouth to change placeswith my feet...........but hey if its unintentional and ya man enough to say sorry its all ya can do .........
boy can I relate... I have never wanted to hurt anyone ever but I am cursed with a big mouth and can not keep a secret to save my life not even about me... I feel so bad when I do it but I can not stop myself sometimes. it just pops out I hate myself for it sometimes and want to just have my voice bow removed it really sucks
give it some time...don't push the situaton. let it rest and apologize tomorrow at around 10:30 a.m. It will be on this persons voicemail...think about what you want to say. make it short and sweet and be patient and this person will call you back. DO NOT CALL AFTER THAT.....she will think and call you back when she is ready to talk. the doctor is out
you have never let me down my friend...you always say something meaningful, you and panther should get together and right a book...just don't call me for spelling advice....lol
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