Is playing hard to get always a good thing? (55)
Stop playing hard to get!!! Just play "I'm not easy"...and you'll be fine!
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true Rebecca--hard to get will get you forgotten
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Thank you
Feel like telliing 1,000,000 other women that?
Feel like telliing 1,000,000 other women that?
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Personally I don't think playing hard to get is EVER a good thing. I say just be honest with the guy, let him know you are into him. It doesn't mean you want to marry him or anything, it doesn't make you clingy or a stalker, it just means you are interested. Just say "hey, I think you are pretty cool/interesting/whatever" and if he is not interested in you in return-- oh well. He didn't deserve you anyway.
BUt I say never play any games-- especially "hard to get". Just my opinion.
BUt I say never play any games-- especially "hard to get". Just my opinion.
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Why "play" anything. Be yourself, if that's too much or not enough for him, it's not what you need anyway.
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I'd probably walk away.
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If you are interested in a guy, let him know... but be classy about it. Don't play hard to get...most men don't want to have to chase you around just...they have too short of an attention span 
I love you guys, I really do
I love you guys, I really do
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SO true. The first problem is that your playing. That will get you forgoten very quick in my book. 
Why do feel the need to play at all just be yourself and do what fells right to you
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Dont worry about meeting him at a bar.....
Do what you w a n t to do.....and dont act unatural, if you really want to meet him again.....and show your interest. Why not?
(Hope you understand what I mean--)......Good luck from Germany
Do what you w a n t to do.....and dont act unatural, if you really want to meet him again.....and show your interest. Why not?
(Hope you understand what I mean--)......Good luck from Germany
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Be Honest with him, thats the key, dont play games they always backfire. And be honest with your heart too, if you play to many games he may run.
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Playing too hard to get is too east to get forgotten.
Games and playing in that sort of way is never good, honesty is the best ploicy !!
Games and playing in that sort of way is never good, honesty is the best ploicy !!
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Any woman who plays hard to get with me will be not got.
It's that simple.
And sure, another man will be right along, but do you really want him?
Human beings need to be loved. Men are no exception.
If you act like you're not interested in me I'll take your word for it.
If you were lying, then who were you lying to?
Me? Or yourself?
Games were over in high school.
Welcome to real adult life.
It's that simple.
And sure, another man will be right along, but do you really want him?
Human beings need to be loved. Men are no exception.
If you act like you're not interested in me I'll take your word for it.
If you were lying, then who were you lying to?
Me? Or yourself?
Games were over in high school.
Welcome to real adult life.
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playing hard to get?? yea they say be yourself but whatever that is what gets u all alone... play hard it is all they understand I think. cause if u love them and they know it u are f---ed. they will stomp on you til u are lifeless. 
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I am hard to get...no playing required, and I don't "play" easy, either.
"Playing" is just that...why play the fool?
"Playing" is just that...why play the fool?
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I don't play hard to get.to old for such games.just be honest.why keep people guessing?
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And you want these guys why? There are men out there who appreciate a woman more than a video game, save your heart till you find one of them. Hint, most of them are over 30.
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why is that people feel the need to be hard to get anyway
That intimidates some of us
That intimidates some of us
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There's this guy I've been seeing and I won't answer the phone for a couple days, or cancel dates. I want him to really want me...
but I don't know if he's really starting to think I don't like him! He's gorgeous, has a great job, and everything going for him, but.... I met him at the bar and I don't know if that's a good thing.. What should I do to let him know I really like him, without seeming to clingy??
I need honest feedback......