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Hey,

A few weeks ago I was able to met a man who was checking out my profile often. ( i ran into him at the gas station not knowing he work ther had no clue, i was really sick.I realized it was him and all I could say was oh.... my head is full of snot yikes.

So the I posted a thread asking for help." will you go out with me" The advice was wonderful a lot of people gave me the courage to ask Him out. I went to his work and left my number as he was not there

a few nights later he phoned me So we satring talking on line and after a week we made a date to go for coffee However, I haven't heard from him at all I don't have his number and he has not been on line in over a week as I would love to ask him "him gives?"

So I'm not sure if it is me cuz I'm really thinking I should just take a break This is hard and putting yourself out there sucks

Thanks for all your advice, support and comfort

Cheers Detra

I suspect, unfortunately that he is not that interested. If he was really interested, he would not have lost your phone number, nor have failed to show up for a coffee date. I think that you need to chalk it up to experience and move on. L.

yeah im sorry to hear that but it does happen. i agree totally with loraine, sorry. move on....

MM

Credit for putting it and yourself out there, to let him know you were interested. Maybe he is embarassed, taken by surprise, not expecting someone locally to be on the same dating site and that's all it is?

Chalk it up to "experience"....not all of them are going to have a great outcome...not all of them will be an instant hit...but not all of them will be the same either...

As far as this person goes...he has your number...he knows how to reach you...that's enough effort on your part...the ball is in his court...but if i were you i wouldn't sit around "waiting"...