does it put men off when they find out that a women has a child or children? (19)
bottleblonde30hereford, UK1 Threads 1 Posts
Not if the man likes children and doesn't mind yours,depends how us men feel towards someone elses kids i guess.
It never botherd me! he was 3 when i took him on he's 25 now! It all depends on how much you love there mam---dad!
It wouldn't put me off at all, after all, you're in a relationship because you love somebody. If the bloke in question isn't willing to take the mother & child as a package, then the relationship isn't for him. If the child was young enough, I'd be willing to take the other person's child on as my own, and I wouldn't feel any less feelings compared to that of my own children. If the biological father isn't man enough to stand by their children, plenty of other people are! As for my own children, I've got one at the minute, who I'm 90% certain I'm the father to, and another on the way, but I'm only 1% certain that the unborn's mine, but I'll love him as if he were my own! It's not his fault that his mother dpesn't know who the father is! q=o)
Its not a case of being man enough to stand by his children,its how the relationship with the mother goes,if that ends then he can't be with his kids all the time.
I don't see my daughter,but that doesn't mean i'm not man enough to stand by her or anything.
I don't see my daughter,but that doesn't mean i'm not man enough to stand by her or anything.
does it put women off if a guy as a child or children
hi bottleblond, welcome to the forum, nice to meet you
naa doesnt put me off, but my 3 kids live with me,so i just reversed the question hehehe:)
naa doesnt put me off, but my 3 kids live with me,so i just reversed the question hehehe:)I'm talking in general again, I know alot of fathers that diss own their children, but on the other hand there are people out there like me, that's like to see their children more, but the mother makes it difficult. q=o)
doesn't put me off but then if you already have a child of your own it makes it different
doesn't put me off but then if you already have a child of your own it makes it different
DEPENDS IF THEY'RE OLD ENOUGH YET TO WANT TO BORROW YOUR CAR!!!!
But seriously no, but it is something you have to think about seriously if you want your relationship to work as the woman's child/children will always come first, unstandably so too. And you have to consider their feelings (if old enough or later in life) & thoughts as well.
But seriously no, but it is something you have to think about seriously if you want your relationship to work as the woman's child/children will always come first, unstandably so too. And you have to consider their feelings (if old enough or later in life) & thoughts as well.
never puts me off if a woman has kids or not
YES.It does me.
It puts me off if a woman has children. If you are going to get involved, then you have to except the children too, which is totally understandable. In the past I have taken on 5 different women and childs and made good friends with the children, But when the relationship has come to an end, the children have become an extension of the mothers feelings, and most children will automaticly side with mum. Thus teaching the child if mum dont wanna be with boyfriend anymore, then neither do the children. This to me is unexceptable, so I would not want to get involved with a woman that has children. This is very emotionly painfull for a man.
what is wrong with children!
and buzz if they are as young as my little girl it doesn't have much affect
and buzz if they are as young as my little girl it doesn't have much affect
It certainly dont put me off, Kids are cute even the snotty nosed cheeky teenage type 
Hey, Scouser 
If you kids that much, I have 3 you can borrow
They are house trained, sort of
If you kids that much, I have 3 you can borrow
They are house trained, sort of
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