New relationships and children (34)

Feb 23, 2007 2:42 PM CST New relationships and children
Pompey70
Pompey70Pompey70Portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK32 Threads 342 Posts
If you had children with someone and then split up from each other wot wood u say to your ex getting your kiddy 2 call his/her new partner mummy or daddy?
Feb 23, 2007 2:44 PM CST New relationships and children
nikkimay
nikkimaynikkimaypantheress, UK18 Threads 930 Posts
hi i would find it rather usetting to tell u the truth. do u see ur children often pompey? an how old r they? comfort hug
Feb 23, 2007 2:49 PM CST New relationships and children
Englandzn01
Englandzn01Englandzn01Doncaster, UK11 Threads 1,572 Posts
I'd put her in her place!,nobody can replace a childs father.She should know better than to do that should it happen,mothers that are like that don't really deserve children.scold
Feb 23, 2007 2:50 PM CST New relationships and children
nikkimay
nikkimaynikkimaypantheress, UK18 Threads 930 Posts
u an the mother of ur child r still living with each other??
Feb 23, 2007 2:50 PM CST New relationships and children
Drazic1986
Drazic1986Drazic1986Folkestone, UK19 Threads 596 Posts
Alright me ode, that seems a bit petty to me, just carry on being the good father that you are now, and disregard any comments that your Ex makes, all that matters now, is yourself, and your child.
Feb 23, 2007 2:51 PM CST New relationships and children
billrox
billroxbillroxdurham, Durham, England UK6 Threads 397 Posts
She trying to totaly confuse the kid! She needs telling mate!professor
Feb 23, 2007 2:51 PM CST New relationships and children
Drazic1986
Drazic1986Drazic1986Folkestone, UK19 Threads 596 Posts
It actually sounds like she's trying to get to you / wind you up / anger you... q=o)
Feb 23, 2007 2:52 PM CST New relationships and children
Drazic1986
Drazic1986Drazic1986Folkestone, UK19 Threads 596 Posts
Valid point, even I didn't think of that! q=o) d=o) (My head's not screwed on tonight)
Feb 23, 2007 2:52 PM CST New relationships and children
Pompey70
Pompey70Pompey70Portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK32 Threads 342 Posts
Yeah weird I know but she can't afford 2 move out yet.
Feb 23, 2007 2:53 PM CST New relationships and children
Englandzn01
Englandzn01Englandzn01Doncaster, UK11 Threads 1,572 Posts
She's taking you for a ride,i can see the signs,tell her to stop or she's out! wink
Feb 23, 2007 2:54 PM CST New relationships and children
Pompey70
Pompey70Pompey70Portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK32 Threads 342 Posts
U read my mind me old m8
Feb 23, 2007 2:56 PM CST New relationships and children
Drazic1986
Drazic1986Drazic1986Folkestone, UK19 Threads 596 Posts
I thought she'd be seen as priority, if she's got a child, and theoretically homeless? q=o)
Feb 23, 2007 2:56 PM CST New relationships and children
Englandzn01
Englandzn01Englandzn01Doncaster, UK11 Threads 1,572 Posts
Its not fair on your child to do that,not at all,its bad enough that both parents are split up without her doing that...poor little kidsigh
Feb 23, 2007 2:57 PM CST New relationships and children
Drazic1986
Drazic1986Drazic1986Folkestone, UK19 Threads 596 Posts
Dude, she'll end up messing your head up as well as your childs, are you over her? It's not fair that she's rubbing your noes in the fact she's got another partner, either.
Feb 23, 2007 2:58 PM CST New relationships and children
Pompey70
Pompey70Pompey70Portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK32 Threads 342 Posts
Yer tell me about it m8. When he's with me and it's just us he's a little angel. But when his mother is about he's a little git.
Feb 23, 2007 3:00 PM CST New relationships and children
Drazic1986
Drazic1986Drazic1986Folkestone, UK19 Threads 596 Posts
But equally, it wont do you any good? Can't you get her to hurry up and move out man? Who's your son going to live with? q=o)
Feb 23, 2007 3:02 PM CST New relationships and children
Pompey70
Pompey70Pompey70Portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK32 Threads 342 Posts
There by hangs a tale m8 she don't know it yet but I'll be fightin' in the courts 4 custody m8
Feb 23, 2007 3:06 PM CST New relationships and children
Englandzn01
Englandzn01Englandzn01Doncaster, UK11 Threads 1,572 Posts
At least you can fight your case in court,if i wanna fight mine i have to get a solicitor in denmark to fight!!!frustrated frustrated
Feb 23, 2007 3:07 PM CST New relationships and children
Drazic1986
Drazic1986Drazic1986Folkestone, UK19 Threads 596 Posts
You want to mate, I've got a similar problem in one way, but worse in others. Don't give in, I reckon you stand a good chance, you seem like a sensible & down 2 earth kinda guy. One negative thing though, I've been told that courts prefer to home the child with the mother, but that all goes on what both yourself & the mother have to offer I guess. Don't let that put you off, you stand just as much a chance, if not more, than what she does?
Feb 23, 2007 3:07 PM CST New relationships and children
nikkimay
nikkimaynikkimaypantheress, UK18 Threads 930 Posts
have u thought of mayb moving? an i agree with what the lads have said. specially if ur son knows u r his dad an he is already calling u his dad. it will be damaging for him as it will confuse him!!
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