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Feb 25, 2007 8:24 PM CST LTRs
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
why is it so difficult to find a woman to date and nothing else? As soon as I tell a woman that I am not interested in a physical relationship, all communication ceases. I am looking for a woman to hang out with...you know, do fun things. I thought it was men that have only one thing on their mind. Are there any local women than just wants a male friend??sigh
Feb 26, 2007 9:25 AM CST LTRs
sealifemyra
sealifemyrasealifemyraOrlando, Florida USA1 Threads 31 Posts
You are a breath of fresh air - just too bad I live in Orlando - all of the men I've dated for over 8 months now have ONLY!!! been interested in one thing - then why are they using these dating sites and why not just go to the fling sites? I have almost given up on dating because it is so frustrating and I want to be treated like a lady and treated with respect.

I've asked many of them what happened to just dating, having fun, getting to know someone first and most have replied "that we don't have to nowadays" they have stated that most women are ready to jump into bed on the first or second date - that is just too sad

crying
Feb 26, 2007 5:57 PM CST LTRs
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
Have have many friends and some are of the male
quality. Nothing wrong with being friends and
hangin out. Nice thread topic...thumbs up wink
Feb 27, 2007 8:54 AM CST LTRs
ronjie
ronjieronjieAltamonte Springs, Florida USA9 Threads 617 Posts
I'm sorry that all of the guys you've dated were like that.

Just realize that not ALL guys are like that.

About me: Yes, I enjoy being intimate, I enjoy hugging and cuddleing...
But I will NEVER impose myself on a woman. This is something that MUST be mutual.

My favorite line is: For things to work out with 2 people, they must RELATE to each other.... Hence the word RELATE in RELATEionship...

Just my 2c.

Ron V.
Feb 27, 2007 11:53 PM CST LTRs
ronjie
ronjieronjieAltamonte Springs, Florida USA9 Threads 617 Posts
Myra,

Don't get me wrong, I love being intimate, but even when I do meet someone - starting with dating, I just don't touch unless invited. Guess some guys would call me a "whuss" <sp?>, but personally I believe that it's in the woman's pervue to ask for it.

And yes, when I'm dating, I usually pay the check... no if's and's or buts.... once we've been together a while... I may lean towards going dutch... just so that we can afford to do other things together.

Ron V.
Mar 1, 2007 9:10 AM CST LTRs
ronjie
ronjieronjieAltamonte Springs, Florida USA9 Threads 617 Posts
yeesh....

This thread went dead....
Mar 4, 2007 12:32 AM CST LTRs
ronjie
ronjieronjieAltamonte Springs, Florida USA9 Threads 617 Posts
that it? no further comment?
Mar 6, 2007 8:57 AM CST LTRs
ronjie
ronjieronjieAltamonte Springs, Florida USA9 Threads 617 Posts
Well... I don't know how to dance....

Maybe the woman I meet will teach me how to?

Just a thought.
Mar 9, 2007 4:38 AM CST LTRs
nelly
nellynellyJensen Beach, Florida USA1 Threads 6 Posts
Well I would say in the right school and most men are not.It is clear no matter what they say in there profile if they are obvious like that on a first date they do not want a serious relationship.I find it sad the way they go about it.If they think she might be the girl give it time and if she isn't politely say so and look for another.javascript:emot('handshake');
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Mar 9, 2007 8:29 AM CST LTRs
ronjie
ronjieronjieAltamonte Springs, Florida USA9 Threads 617 Posts
Well, I can't speak for most other guys....

But what I'm LOOKING for is the Long Term Relationship. There are more benifits to this then to just looking around for the "quick fix". I'm not looking to "get laid", and personally won't do "one night stands", EVEN IF the woman would request it. To me it's just not worth it.

Just another snippet about meprofessor

Ron V.
Aug 21, 2007 3:40 PM CST LTRs
ronjie
ronjieronjieAltamonte Springs, Florida USA9 Threads 617 Posts
wonder why this thread went dead?
Aug 23, 2007 10:10 AM CST LTRs
ronjie
ronjieronjieAltamonte Springs, Florida USA9 Threads 617 Posts
Sad thing is:

To those of us guys that understand, yer preaching to the choir, those that don't understand, won't get it anyway.

The worst (?) part:

Those that don't get it, ruin it for those of us that do :(
Sep 1, 2007 2:07 AM CST LTRs
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
whatever!! I want all that...once we are in a relationship. Again, I am comfortable in my own skin and don't have to prove I'm a man by pouncing on every woman I date. But if you feel you must, then go for it!!
Sep 1, 2007 6:50 PM CST LTRs
peki646
peki646peki646Winter Haven, Florida USA8 Threads 122 Posts
Oh, my gosh, Ron. Thank God there are still guys like you. I guess most of the rest of them were born in the caveman days,
Sep 1, 2007 6:51 PM CST LTRs
ronjie
ronjieronjieAltamonte Springs, Florida USA9 Threads 617 Posts
yeah... but the women seem to have been there too....


I have yet to find someone that will appreciate me.
Sep 1, 2007 11:17 PM CST LTRs
heartseekslove
heartseeksloveheartseekslovePalatka, Florida USA2 Threads 173 Posts
Finally! A aman who wants the same things as me!applause
Sep 2, 2007 12:42 PM CST LTRs
ronjie
ronjieronjieAltamonte Springs, Florida USA9 Threads 617 Posts
hmmmmmmm.....

Well... tell us, in your own words... ( no paraphrasing allowed ) what it is you are looking for.
Sep 2, 2007 9:27 PM CST LTRs
heartseekslove
heartseeksloveheartseekslovePalatka, Florida USA2 Threads 173 Posts
Read my profile. That's what it's there for.doh scold
Sep 2, 2007 9:41 PM CST LTRs
ronjie
ronjieronjieAltamonte Springs, Florida USA9 Threads 617 Posts
well kiddo....

If you are willing to blow off a possibly good thing, something that you just said was the kind of thing you were looking for, just because of a tease, and not following your instructions to the letter....

then hey, i wish you luck in finding what you are looking for.

Nobody's perfect. NOBody.professor

If you can't learn that.... then my dear.... yer in fer a werld of disappointment.

Good Luck to you!

Ron V.
Sep 2, 2007 11:13 PM CST LTRs
heartseekslove
heartseeksloveheartseekslovePalatka, Florida USA2 Threads 173 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing There obviously has been a misunderstanding. I did not mean to blow you off. I was chatting with someone else at the time. i would like to talk to you if you still want to.thumbs up
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