I don't really know where it came from. I was just fine yesterday and then people started talking about their relationships and how happy they were. I was genuinely happy for them but I suddenly became so very lonely. I didn't even want to sleep in my empty bed last night. I curled up on a chair. This morning isn't any better. I am fine with being single. I usually even relish it but right now my heart hurts.......
What makes you feel better in times like these? What do you do? I usually go shoe shopping but that even feels like a chore today. Is 9:30am too early to open wine??
highplainsHighland Springs, Virginia USA4,288 posts
Stace....I've got some extra arm floaties if you need them...some with Strawberry Shortcake on 'em....come to my end of the pool if you DARE....Muuuu haaaa haaaaa haaaaa......
Hey sweetie, I get in those moods too sometimes. You're doing all the right things. You're reaching out to people and saying When I get in those moods I do exactly that. I call a friend or email. Don't reach for the wine. Take the coffee. It's a much better option. I know. You may think the wine is helping but it is actually just going to make you feel more down. Hey shoe shopping sounds good,too. If you want someone to talk to, I'd like to think I'm good at girl talk. Hang in there.
I understand this... I so love my freedom, and solitude... But, do get that feeling now and then.
I usually will text Allen, or come in here... if I'm online. If not, I read, or, just listen to myself, and feel it. Body tries to tell us things... Human contact really is essential. Proven.
I go off somewhere. Either in my head, or just out. Change of scenery helps. And, movement gets hormones, and whatever going in your body...
Humor helps ALOT. And, when I can come in here and read? It helps so much.
Mostly, I get quiet. surround myself with light and try to connect with others... hehehehe...
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What makes you feel better in times like these? What do you do? I usually go shoe shopping but that even feels like a chore today. Is 9:30am too early to open wine??