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Shacking up is not my cup of tea anymore. Been there done that. Wasn't a good mindset for me. I lose respect for the man in my life when I live with them.
People say what is a piece of paper, but what is living together with no committment? Shacking up for me means, no real values to the relationship. It is an easy way to have a playmate without being serious.
To be fearful of marriage, is to me to be selfish. What I mean is that so many are afraid of the expense of that divorce or losing what they have. Well, if that be the case, then shouldn't you maybe just live alone?
Anyway, I am all for marriage. But, to have the false security of simply living together is nil to none. It feels to me like a disposable diaper. Use it then throw it away.
Kat