Why is there so many people affraid of falling in love? ( Archived) (67)

Risks and chancing...
Yes, indeed. You remember back when you're young and so full of ideals...And, you think, well why can't it be that easy now?
It is, you just don't remember taking the risks...we all have, and should continue, I feel. We grow, learn from our own mistakes (takes two, even in the worst cases)...Hopefully not repeat them...
Our hearts are tougher than we think. I have learn that not just in life, but since being here at CS, too.
Communication is essential, and we all sat it, but that is the biggest gap in all relationships I've read about, heard, been in. Maybe the other person does not know how, or iss unwilling. Then, what is the point?

Take the chance. Risk it. What do you have to lose, really?
Not talking harm, and danger, of course we look out forthat. I'm talking in general.

If you take the chance, risk that you may not end up with what you need, then take another...Life iss o full of risk everyday...Why not chance you'll share it with someone else?

I'm all about it. No fear. Love in theory is simplistic, natural. People make it complicated.

It's the falling part I think. Mixed messages, fear, lies. I think girls tend to fall before guys...maybe I don't know what I'm talkin about, but I've been played time and time again. This time I'm takin my time, tryin not to fall fast and hard. When and if I fall I want it to be with my best friend. That one person who knows all about me and can deal with my baggage. Doesn't judge me, can make me laugh and can't wait to see each other when we get off work. I don't think LOVE has anything to do with money, possesions and so on. It seems to me that's what most are lookin for. I wanna know what happened to time? Spending time together, laughing, takin walks, holden hands. I'm sayin slow down and take your time, good things come to those who wait. Yea were all lonely at times and wish we had someone. That's why the divorce rate is so high. People jump into relationships so fast, don't think about what they're doin just tired of bein alone. People now are just disposable. I don't want to be disposable any more. I want the real thing. If I wait, I'll find what I'm lookin for.....until then, lol there's always the frogs.

Awww Laurie, you're not disposable. I'd never throw away my favorite trash. :P Love ya sweets.

See there? I'm in love!

lmao, Erin love ya too, got your back girlfriend

I think the reason most people are afraid to fall in love is because every time you do and it fails you lose a little more of yourself. At least that's how I've been feeling lately.

hey maybe if i love and lose a couple more times i'll be a size 12....worth a shot,lol

I fell in something and I will be damn if I know what it was but I sure know it hurts like hell.

Well ice those bruises, pick out the splinters, and hold onto poor Mo. Little guys been lost. Reunite:)