When is it to soon to move for a person? (9)
Kasbs4 Threads 32 PostsI have met the most amazing guy just two hours away from me. He is everything I have ever wanted! He lives in a smalltown which isn't a bad thing its just different compared to me living in a mid size city. We are talking about moving me up there not to live with him but to be close to him. I wouldnt mind at all if I can find a good paying job and place i can afford to live. I was planning on moving somewhere within the next couple of months. I just never consider moving to a small town for a guy that may be perfect. Hell... he is a firefighter and he is extremely hot and he adores me and my son. What do I do? HELP!
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You only live once. If you go and it was a mistake, you fix it and move forward. If you don't, you live a lifetime of regrets and what ifs.
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I'd have to say that would be when you feel it is right for you and your child. There will be some healthy fear...Your hesitation is being in a small town itself?
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I think you already know the answer to your question. If you were planning to move any way just make sure you are and your kid are secure, find the job and place your need first. I'm happy for you that you find the man you always wanted, lucky girls! Usually a firefighter is someone kind who likes to serve and help people, I think is plus for him. If I could and find the man I have being waiting all my life I would go to the end of the world with him if I have to, unfortunatly I can't.
Wish you the best of luck, always listened to the voice inside you, it will tell you if it right. I hope my answer was of any help!
Wish you the best of luck, always listened to the voice inside you, it will tell you if it right. I hope my answer was of any help!
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Ummm? Has he offered to move? Is he that interested in you that he would want to move to where you are? How interested is he???
Or is it attraction that may fade with you ending up living in a small town alone with no social opportunities.
Is your child in school yet or have friends who he/she would miss badly? Think about you and would you do this move if you didn't know this guy or anyone else in that town.
Or is it attraction that may fade with you ending up living in a small town alone with no social opportunities.
Is your child in school yet or have friends who he/she would miss badly? Think about you and would you do this move if you didn't know this guy or anyone else in that town.
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And I just reread that he's two hours away...that's pretty close. If you have reservations, there's long weekends and vacations. It's not like a 1200 mile trip.
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erin is right about long wknd and the like if he is truely the right guy make sure you take enough time to find out
if he is really the one he will be there for you when you been together long enough to know for yourself it is time to move to his area or vice-versa
having to ask others when you should throws up a warning sign to me that you are not sure yet ---- hold out till you are sure and if you are right then it will happen
two hours is not that far away take the time you need for you
and your son
if he is really the one he will be there for you when you been together long enough to know for yourself it is time to move to his area or vice-versa
having to ask others when you should throws up a warning sign to me that you are not sure yet ---- hold out till you are sure and if you are right then it will happen
two hours is not that far away take the time you need for you
and your son
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Move with your heart but not without it.
If that made any sense at all.
If that made any sense at all.
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Thats one good thing i do have a couple of friends up there. I do, do long weekends now with him. I absolutly love our conversations and what not. I have nothing holding me here i have no family here in New Mexico. His whole family lives in his town and plus his family owns a lot of property in this small town. My son is not in school in yet he will be in 2 years. So for now he's stuck with where mom goes. I always figure its not that far to where it if it didnt work out i could always move back. I am ready for a change. He has told me he would move me up there and help me find a place and a job. I don't want to live with him I just want to be close so we can spend quality time together and get to know eachother. We miss each other so much when were not together. Thank you everyone for your comments keep them coming...Kami
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