I took the chance and was turned down for a first date on several occasions throughout my life.
What's much worse than being infatuated with someone who doesn't know you exist is being infatuated with someone who knows you exist, knows your interested, and isn't interested in you!
That's the epitome of hell.
Especially when they won’t even give you a chance at a first date. I mean they are rejecting the opportunity to even get to know you. Obviously they are rejecting you for a lack of physical attraction. What else could it be at that stage of the game?
I remember one woman I was infatuated with at work. She was only interested in large burly men with hairy chests, long hair and beards.
Well, there’s no way I could become that for her. I’m fairly slim, not real hairy, and at that time I was clean shaven, but even if I let my beard grow it would not have been ‘wooly’ enough to empress her. She was totally into the physical ape-man thing.
What can you do about that? NOTHING! It’s probably just as well. If she was that shallow I was much better off without her in my life anyway really.
I was infatuated... But was too shy to approach him. Turned out to be a good thing though. I learned more about him by standing in the shadows. In time I realized he wasn't what I wanted at all. Funny how life is sometimes.
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Did you take a chance or did you wait and miss out.