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thanks for the input,you no how it really is concernin woman

good insite,i can tell you have had a few lessons with woman to

thanks for your input,it was great,strange the woman had a problem with me working alot,but they would have no problem spending my money..lol

thank you,its nice to no that some women do like a hard working man

well i was wondering if you and abracadabra hooked up.imagine that all because of my forum...thats so cool

Who am I hooking up with?

I'm missing all the excitment around here and it's supposedly happening to ME! (ha ha)

I agree; you can't be around someone constantly. You will start to dislike them eventually and your communication will suffer. When that happens the relationship will die soon after. You have to find a balance between independence and time with your mate.

There are never any absolutes in life. People are different.

I know quite a few couples that are together basically 100% of the time. Some of them work from home so they are home together all the time. Others actually have a business together so they run to the business together during the day and then go home together at night. Those couples are actually the happiest of any couples I know.

So it all depend on the persons involved. I would do very well with a 100% live-in mate working together from home. But it's not going to work if she's not the kind of person who would also enjoy that lifestyle. It has to be what both partners want.

I have been on both sides. I have worked outside the home in gainful employment. It taught me self reliance, confidence in my ablities apart from the natural ones of wife, mother, housekeeper, home organizer, cook, bottle washer and diaper changer....

I've worked in a family run business, milking cows, feeding calves, and still managing the house, children. I worked half my/our wedding day and a half day the day of the funeral. It was also an eight year learning experience.

Now that I have some grown children with babies of their own. I know the value of having a "mommy at home" vs."day care". So, I've chosen the duties of raising children over that of a work outside the home. There are times when I wished I could just clock in and clock out at the end of the day. I suppose every mother does.

I think that finding time for your mate is important. Work is work but family will be there long after the work is gone. Sometimes a candlelight dinner was Him, Me and 5 children around the table...all twinkle eyed by the dazzle of the candles and the good china.

Prioities... that's the key....
Make what is important to you first.... the rest will fall into line...Quality not quanity...

Amen sistah!!!