kayieOPLondon, Greater London, England UK170 posts
Do you still believe in getting married? What is marriage? Well, i know what it is but is it necessary? Cos if you're totally in love, marriage doesnt change a thing...it's just paper...by the way, my fren told me this just now...any opinions?
kayieOPLondon, Greater London, England UK170 posts
yeah i totally agree with you. But have you ever thought that people might ask if there's a difference if you're married or unmarried? you're still with the guy u love? to be honest, this is not my idea...my fren who's weird...but i do agree wif you..it's a once in a life time thingie....we wanna be known....
Lol not scared of committment, I just figure it's easier to break up than to get divorced. That doesn't sound very optomistic but from some experiences I've had I would probably spend at least a few years with a girl before tying the knot!
kayieOPLondon, Greater London, England UK170 posts
yeah true....but people nowadays prefer not to marry..they rather stay wif each other all their lives, bear children, etc....i think it's more for paper sake?
Well if I was going to have children I'd like to be married. I guess I'm sorta old fashioned in that sort of sense. Not that it makes a huge deal, I wouldn't freak out if I had kids out of wedlock. I dunno....
Dating was for the purpose of getting to know someone....not to get laid.
Today people marry others they do not really know. A lot do not really fall in love...they are just in heat.
One man will buy a car and take care of it for years. He loves that old car...its rusty, has dents, parts missing, it smokes and rattles. He would never get rid of it, he works on it, works to make money to repair it and keep it going for all he is worth. He knows that car...every mark is a memory. He has a true love for that car.
Another buys a car and makes it shine to impress others and to serve him. As soon as it is less that he desires for himself. He gets a new car. If he can't get a new one...he begins to hate that car...he kicks it....neglects it.....pray that it get stolens....and in some cases will destroy it with purpose. He loves himself and has used up the car.
Due to the lack of understanding and/or false logic marriage has become a joke.
But a marriage of true love is more precious than all temporal things. Few find it because few know it.
That's why some people don't buy cars right away. Maybe we shop harder and do alot of research and make sure that it's the car they really want! Why buy a car that you don't like? or is less comfortable?
I think this thread is getting more confusing than ever...
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