Weird fren of mine ( Archived) (22)

Mar 31, 2007 4:12 PM CST Weird fren of mine
kayie
kayiekayieLondon, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 170 Posts
Do you still believe in getting married? What is marriage? Well, i know what it is but is it necessary? Cos if you're totally in love, marriage doesnt change a thing...it's just paper...by the way, my fren told me this just now...any opinions? wink
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Mar 31, 2007 6:25 PM CST Weird fren of mine
palhaco
palhacopalhacoBoston, USA4 Threads 324 Posts
Well I suppose if I met the right person..... but currently I'm in no rush to get married. Was engaged once and that didn't work out very well roll eyes
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Apr 1, 2007 5:17 AM CST Weird fren of mine
kayie
kayiekayieLondon, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 170 Posts
yeah i understand what you mean..quite scary isnt it
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Apr 1, 2007 8:10 AM CST Weird fren of mine
o0shorty0o
o0shorty0oo0shorty0onear Berlin, Germany10 Threads 2,194 Posts
you are right...

no need to get married at all...

but for me it's the romantic part...

I want the whole world to know that

it is him I love...

and that it is him I wanna spend the rest

of my life with...

but I don't really know yet...

I am still young...
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Apr 1, 2007 8:15 AM CST Weird fren of mine
kayie
kayiekayieLondon, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 170 Posts
yeah i totally agree with you. But have you ever thought that people might ask if there's a difference if you're married or unmarried? you're still with the guy u love? to be honest, this is not my idea...my fren who's weird...but i do agree wif you..it's a once in a life time thingie....we wanna be known....laugh
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Apr 1, 2007 8:31 AM CST Weird fren of mine
o0shorty0o
o0shorty0oo0shorty0onear Berlin, Germany10 Threads 2,194 Posts
I dunno...lol

for me I wanna get married...

BUT only once...

I know people who have been married

to the same person their whole life...

I wanna have that too...

that is awesome...

that's why I have to find the right guy...





another thing...

I dunno about the States...

but over here in Germany it's better

to be married if you have children

cuz you don't have to spend so much

money on taxes and your child will be better

off if there are a Mom and a Dad...

at least that's what I believe...
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Apr 1, 2007 8:33 AM CST Weird fren of mine
palhaco
palhacopalhacoBoston, USA4 Threads 324 Posts
Lol not scared of committment, I just figure it's easier to break up than to get divorced. That doesn't sound very optomistic but from some experiences I've had I would probably spend at least a few years with a girl before tying the knot!doh hug
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Apr 1, 2007 8:34 AM CST Weird fren of mine
FallinAngel1
FallinAngel1FallinAngel1Fairfield, USA16 Threads 1,945 Posts
<---has been married , still is married.. currently awaiting divorce


still wants to be married someday.. if i find the right guy..
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Apr 1, 2007 8:37 AM CST Weird fren of mine
o0shorty0o
o0shorty0oo0shorty0onear Berlin, Germany10 Threads 2,194 Posts
yes...

for me I want to date someone for at least 2-3 years...

before getting married...

...

I mean if I know that he is the ONE

I wouldn't wanna wait another 3 years...

I would marry him right away...yay
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Apr 1, 2007 8:40 AM CST Weird fren of mine
racehead
raceheadraceheadInthehills, USA5 Threads 487 Posts
I was married once before. I'm not in any rush to do it again. The next time I say I do, I want it to be the last time both of us do.
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Apr 1, 2007 8:43 AM CST Weird fren of mine
kayie
kayiekayieLondon, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 170 Posts
yeah true....but people nowadays prefer not to marry..they rather stay wif each other all their lives, bear children, etc....i think it's more for paper sake?
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Apr 1, 2007 8:50 AM CST Weird fren of mine
FallinAngel1
FallinAngel1FallinAngel1Fairfield, USA16 Threads 1,945 Posts
papers sake or spritual beliefs
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Apr 1, 2007 9:00 AM CST Weird fren of mine
palhaco
palhacopalhacoBoston, USA4 Threads 324 Posts
Well if I was going to have children I'd like to be married. I guess I'm sorta old fashioned in that sort of sense. Not that it makes a huge deal, I wouldn't freak out if I had kids out of wedlock. I dunno....doh
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Apr 1, 2007 9:01 AM CST Weird fren of mine
kayie
kayiekayieLondon, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 170 Posts
hehehehhehehe
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Apr 1, 2007 9:34 AM CST Weird fren of mine
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Dating was for the purpose of getting to know someone....not to get laid.

Today people marry others they do not really know. A lot do not really fall in love...they are just in heat.



One man will buy a car and take care of it for years. He loves that old car...its rusty, has dents, parts missing, it smokes and rattles. He would never get rid of it, he works on it, works to make money to repair it and keep it going for all he is worth. He knows that car...every mark is a memory. He has a true love for that car.

Another buys a car and makes it shine to impress others and to serve him. As soon as it is less that he desires for himself. He gets a new car. If he can't get a new one...he begins to hate that car...he kicks it....neglects it.....pray that it get stolens....and in some cases will destroy it with purpose. He loves himself and has used up the car.



Due to the lack of understanding and/or false logic marriage has become a joke.

But a marriage of true love is more precious than all temporal things. Few find it because few know it.
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Apr 1, 2007 9:41 AM CST Weird fren of mine
agman
agmanagmanEagle, Idaho USA3,145 Posts
Well stated RilleyNiceGuy. Amen handshake
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Apr 1, 2007 9:47 AM CST Weird fren of mine
palhaco
palhacopalhacoBoston, USA4 Threads 324 Posts
That's why some people don't buy cars right away. Maybe we shop harder and do alot of research and make sure that it's the car they really want! Why buy a car that you don't like? or is less comfortable?


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing I think this thread is getting more confusing than ever...
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Apr 1, 2007 9:50 AM CST Weird fren of mine
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
If a guy ain't careful, he might buy a car with a somebody's Moped in the trunk too.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 1, 2007 10:13 AM CST Weird fren of mine
kayie
kayiekayieLondon, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 170 Posts
HAHHAHAHAHAH u are funny!yay
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Apr 1, 2007 10:18 AM CST Weird fren of mine
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
no more matrimony for me.I'll f@#$k ya,live with ya,help with the chores and bills but no more marriage.
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