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Apr 14, 2007 7:31 AM CST can love be one-sided??
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
is love so akin too lust that it exsist when only one party feels it?
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Apr 14, 2007 7:47 AM CST can love be one-sided??
sprite56
sprite56sprite56Chippenham, Wiltshire, England UK8 Posts
Its easy to confuse love and lust especially at the beginning of a relationship. The difference is love will still be there when the lust has gone. I dont think a realtionship can truly survive unless both people are in love.comfort
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Apr 14, 2007 9:50 AM CST can love be one-sided??
ninamoosha
ninamooshaninamooshaSt. Ignace, Michigan USA146 Threads 1,285 Posts
<<<<<<just walked in....I never liked one way streets or dead ends....laugh wave
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Apr 14, 2007 10:04 AM CST can love be one-sided??
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
Sure, I suppose love can be one-sided, to a degree...but why bother with a relationship if that is the case? dunno Go figure...

Personally, I would not want to be in that type of a relationship.


wine
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Apr 14, 2007 10:47 AM CST can love be one-sided??
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
I hear so much chatter about folks being in Love with someone but they either no longer love them or the person does not love them back..

I just am confused as to how can 'Love' be REAL if it is not mutual?
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Apr 14, 2007 11:14 AM CST can love be one-sided??
GypsyRi
GypsyRiGypsyRiSikeston, Missouri USA6 Threads 148 Posts
Yes, and its sad when only one feels it. But It can be great when the two people connect, Its a wonder. When only one party feels it, its a tragedy.sigh moping uh oh
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Apr 14, 2007 11:20 AM CST can love be one-sided??
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
What is love?

Can I taste it?
Hear it?
Feel it?
Smell it?
See it?



So if none of the above are true, then what makes it real? Is it real?

You are talking about being IN Love. I learned along time ago that there's a difference between loving someone and being in love. One is selfless and expansive, the other selfish and akin to a vacuum.

I would say that either can exist in a single entity, but that it's true and full potential are experienced only when it's mutual.


TET
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Apr 14, 2007 11:34 AM CST can love be one-sided??
Unicornelle
UnicornelleUnicornelleQuebec, Canada47 Threads 1,675 Posts
Both love and friendship can be one sided.......
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Apr 14, 2007 12:02 PM CST can love be one-sided??
WhiteAsh
WhiteAshWhiteAshTurtle Lake, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 688 Posts
nice answer.
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Apr 14, 2007 1:47 PM CST can love be one-sided??
john2
john2john2Bray, Wicklow Ireland94 Threads 7 Polls 2,353 Posts
no it cant it will ever last irish
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Apr 14, 2007 1:59 PM CST can love be one-sided??
jorielly
joriellyjoriellybelfast, Antrim Ireland1 Threads 19 Posts
love can be as many sides you want it to be yay
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Apr 14, 2007 2:05 PM CST can love be one-sided??
valeria
valeriavaleriawolverhampton, West Midlands, England UK1 Threads 22 Posts
in my opinion one-sided love is more common thing than mutual love.
yes it is possible, it hurts, it makes you go up the wall, do stupid things, lose weight, gain weight, be right nightmare to yourself and the others but whichever way it is a good thing to happen. I always say it is better to experience true love than being with someone because you like them or because it is comfortable...no matter if it is mutal or one-sided love, it is still LOVE the most beautiful thing in the world!
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Apr 14, 2007 11:04 PM CST can love be one-sided??
HonestNFaithful
HonestNFaithfulHonestNFaithfulSeattle, Washington USA38 Threads 579 Posts
blues
Boy!!!! you got that right!!!Anyone can say they love someone,and fake it for awhile,or lead you on,but i believe that TRUE Love is a very delicate and genuine feeling,and sshould never be taken for granted.Handle it with Care!!!:
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Apr 14, 2007 11:10 PM CST can love be one-sided??
chrisc79
chrisc79chrisc79Suffolk, Virginia USA1 Threads 174 Posts
"They" say that it works better(lasts forever) when a man loves his woman just a little more than she loves him..
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Apr 14, 2007 11:18 PM CST can love be one-sided??
chrisc79
chrisc79chrisc79Suffolk, Virginia USA1 Threads 174 Posts
Not sure if you can taste it..but some women can taste pretty goodgrin
Feel it..yes i would say that if it's true then you will most definately feel it!yay
If she loves you..you will most definatley see it!wink
Smell it or hear it.. Well she can say it but I gotta see it to believe it! scold
I'll keep the smell comments to my self! rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 15, 2007 4:59 AM CST can love be one-sided??
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
what a great goal, to find someone so special that both try to display their for the other more then the other, what a mental picture that is....partners in an endearing competition... nice thought thumbs up
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Apr 15, 2007 5:45 AM CST can love be one-sided??
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
great answer Tetwave
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Apr 15, 2007 5:47 AM CST can love be one-sided??
paddy123
paddy123paddy123Wales, UK76 Threads 1,551 Posts
You know the answer to that yourself...tongue
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Apr 15, 2007 6:03 AM CST can love be one-sided??
Katers1970
Katers1970Katers1970lonelyville, Indiana USA90 Threads 2,444 Posts
Unfortunatly yes it can be. I thought some of my ex's truly loved me...i was wrong. One of them just used me for what little money I had. Guess I was lucky they didn't because thanks to CS and a very good friend of mine. Daniel and I have a life together.
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Apr 15, 2007 6:12 AM CST can love be one-sided??
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
"Them" are right 100% thumbs up
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