To Find a decent,caring,loving woman now a days? For so long,I've been looking too far,I've been waiting too long...Sometimes I don't know where I will find her...Even looking this hard,it seems like It's sooo far,Is my Juliet there somewhere??
Sure, she's out there somewhere and it'll happen, when it's meant to happen - Just like RHT said!
Heck man, you're young, good looking and capable! It took me almost 46 years to finally find the one I was looking for - Turned out that she was the one who was looking for ME!
The key seems to be to get comfortable with YOU. Spend some time doing things just because YOU want to do them and not because it's expected or demanded by others. Then you won't be quite as lonely or feel quite as alone. After that, when you least expect it... It'll happen! I've often heard that when you QUIT looking for something is when you are most likely to find it. And that truism has been borne out for me with everything from car keys to love.
Keep the faith friend, but lose the desperation. Love has it's own timetable and there's not a damn thing we can do to change it...
Very smart words Kansan,,, find out who you are first and what you want in life, and not what is demanded by others... I am 52 yrs old, and it seems that is all I ever did was try and please everyone else and forgetting about my own needs.. well,, ITS MY TURN NOW.........
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